Yes, if someone can't tolerate you being poly, but wants to be, that is a problem.
But if one party wants to be monogamous and is happy with the other partner being poly -- which I think is the hypothetical -- then I imagine it can work.
My guess is that it would stand the greatest chance of success if the monogamous partner were basically poly, just not interested in more than one relationship at this time.
If a person with no experience of poly were to enter such a relationship as the monogamous partner, I would not give it much chance. But who knows?
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