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imperfect_cupcake · 11-11-2013, 02:54 PM

oh it totally has to be natural or it can look a bit skeevy. a natural wink with a sparkly grin at the end of a joke is very attractive, I find and people have respond to it with me. it should be quick and gentle and natural. one of my exes, when looking across a room at me would smile amd wink. and that was like getting a kiss across the room.
someone walking down the street and just saying hi and winking is a bit heavy handed. but mixed in with conversation I think its really charming and cheeky.

11-11-2013, 02:54 PM	#42
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	oh it totally has to be natural or it can look a bit skeevy. a natural wink with a sparkly grin at the end of a joke is very attractive, I find and people have respond to it with me. it should be quick and gentle and natural. one of my exes, when looking across a room at me would smile amd wink. and that was like getting a kiss across the room. someone walking down the street and just saying hi and winking is a bit heavy handed. but mixed in with conversation I think its really charming and cheeky.