03-19-2018, 10:40 PM
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Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?: Transgender
Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his
Relationship Status: Single
Join Date: Jul 2014
Location: Oklahoma
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Originally Posted by Ender
Ugh...I hate this feeling! I hate feeling like half-trans, half-butch! I don't know how to transition feeling like this. Do I change my name? Do I medically transition? If I medically transition, will I regret it? It's beating me up and I don't know what to do. I wish I had a more androgynous name or even a masculine version of my name would be great, but no.
How did/do you butches go about this? Do you still have your given name? Did you change your name? Did you choose to medically transition, even part-way?
I'm also wondering when I do tell someone irl about all this, will they even take me seriously? Or will they think I'm making it up because LGBT+ people are so openly talked about now-a-days?
I remember my dad saying a few years ago, that he loves me no matter what as long as I'm happy, but I'm still terrified I might be going down the wrong path, and end up regretting it in the future.
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Seek counseling with a gltbqi based support system. One of my ex's is mtf she sought counseling to help her in the beginning and continues counseling for herself.
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