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How Do You Identify?: femme
Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell
Relationship Status: married
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: san diego
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i like it when someone is focused on being the best partner that *they* can be and they have the confidence to let me be me--perhaps they don't even understand the things that i do, but they trust me enough to let me do them, let me want what i want, enjoy what i enjoy and be who i am.
i simply won't tolerate someone defining me, putting restrictions on me, labeling what is/isn't femme--that's the fastest way someone can get dumped curb-side. i am naturally feminine--work out your butch/femme stuff on your own time; my opinions, my ready/able/audible voice, my capability doesn't make me less-than--it makes *you* less than for wanting to not be *challenged* by my brilliance...
general you, of course.
lastly, old and well-cared for dogs + understated confidence and a kind heart + pompadour = true love.
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