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ProfPacker · 05-23-2014, 06:20 PM

not looking me in the eye when talking to me is a big turn off
not having my sense of humor which is pretty dark and twisted
not interested in the world around them
not wanting to take on the status quo

but mostly, in my previous long term relationship and growing up I lived in a world of smoke and mirrors. I need to have someone be direct with me.

someone who doesn't say as I am talking, I'm not done, let me finish
belittling me
being emotionally abusive
If I even have a hint of that...I am out of here

I like to have fun. If someone can't be silly it is a turn off.

at this time in my life we must be sexually compatible. no more lesbian bed death, haha.

if they don't like that I have kids, it is a negatory (is that a word, no but I like it)

05-23-2014, 06:20 PM	#41
ProfPacker Member How Do You Identify?: butch/MOC Preferred Pronoun?: Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: nj Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,023 Thanked 4,816 Times in 1,187 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	not looking me in the eye when talking to me is a big turn off not having my sense of humor which is pretty dark and twisted not interested in the world around them not wanting to take on the status quo but mostly, in my previous long term relationship and growing up I lived in a world of smoke and mirrors. I need to have someone be direct with me. someone who doesn't say as I am talking, I'm not done, let me finish belittling me being emotionally abusive If I even have a hint of that...I am out of here I like to have fun. If someone can't be silly it is a turn off. at this time in my life we must be sexually compatible. no more lesbian bed death, haha. if they don't like that I have kids, it is a negatory (is that a word, no but I like it)