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Originally Posted by Virago
There was NO penetration at all (remember, nothing that mimicked male/female). Basically side by side mutual touching and rubbing.
I am so glad that part of those days are over.  |
I'm so curious about this! (of course, the sex part haha). So, was this an unspoken rule? Or was it discussed among women generally (outside the bedroom) that penetration was not cool and 'off the table' for lesbians? Or was it just understood once you were coupled with someone and 'in the moment'?
It's hard for me to imagine. I was just thinking how gay men would never have a 'rule' like this around their sexual activity. It's interesting how the politicized the bedrooms of lesbians were (are?).
Last question (for now):
So, all the butches and the femmes went into a more andro mode. Were there ways to suss each other a bit and still couple up despite the more neutral outerwear?
Fantastic thread -- love reading everyone's experiences and will share my (kind of limited) ones!