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Martina · 10-13-2012, 08:06 PM

I get the friend thing. I don't get the femme code thing. That strikes me as sexist and heteronormative.

Sexist in the sense that if we didn't claim this great loyalty bond, we'd be out there conniving to get each other's partners.

Heteronormative in grouping like gender people "friends" and the other gender as "potential dates."

10-13-2012, 08:06 PM	#48
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,366 Times in 4,171 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I get the friend thing. I don't get the femme code thing. That strikes me as sexist and heteronormative. Sexist in the sense that if we didn't claim this great loyalty bond, we'd be out there conniving to get each other's partners. Heteronormative in grouping like gender people "friends" and the other gender as "potential dates."