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LaneyDoll · 09-21-2011, 03:15 PM

I think you have gotten some good advice, esp from PrincessBelle and Anya and Yellow Band. I am not sure that this is the issue to take a stand on. You may find that your coworker is "the darling" of the company and really cause problems for yourself. Whatever her reasons are, they are valid in her mind (THIS IS THE THING TO REMEMBER) and you could end up being seen as antagonistic.

If rearrangement of the desk is not an option, maybe another mirror would be. Maybe something reflective that allows you to see someone comnig up behind you but something that is blurry/fuzzy enough that you cannot see too far beyond your space.

If you really do want to keep your mirror and change nothing, then perhaps befriending the person is a solution. Maybe is she understands that you are "skittish" (for lack of a better term) you can find common ground in "little quirks." But if she is concerned that you are watching her, it is probably not going to work especially if she cannot see things from your point of view.

At any rate, good luck to you.

09-21-2011, 03:15 PM	#16
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