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imperfect_cupcake · 02-09-2011, 06:12 PM

be monogmamous.

get bored of socialising with large groups of people

take a pair of flat shoes with me in a bag when I go out to an event

be accepted for who I am, regardless of my ID and the other person's ID/sexuality. I thought I'd have to fight for my femme-ininity my whole life and now it doesn't matter to anyone, which is utterly fabulous. I just had to move and let time catch up.

not give a flying fuck what other people's beliefs/opinions are. I used to argue. Now I just ignore them/walk away/not bother - on one hand that saves me a lot of energy, on the other it's good to challenge people so it's not great I've lost the will to do so. "fuck off and sit in your own puddle of dimshit, that's your problem" is rather dismissive. But it really does make my life easier. hey ho.

02-09-2011, 06:12 PM	#62
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	be monogmamous. get bored of socialising with large groups of people take a pair of flat shoes with me in a bag when I go out to an event be accepted for who I am, regardless of my ID and the other person's ID/sexuality. I thought I'd have to fight for my femme-ininity my whole life and now it doesn't matter to anyone, which is utterly fabulous. I just had to move and let time catch up. not give a flying fuck what other people's beliefs/opinions are. I used to argue. Now I just ignore them/walk away/not bother - on one hand that saves me a lot of energy, on the other it's good to challenge people so it's not great I've lost the will to do so. "fuck off and sit in your own puddle of dimshit, that's your problem" is rather dismissive. But it really *does* make my life easier. hey ho.