Flirting by text

[Passionaria]

Yep, in my mind too the best flirty anything comes when you are relaxed and just having fun, it just comes out. And then evolves

I have never misfired a text, but I did have someone I was dating send a naughty email~~~> to my MOM. AYE! I could feel them squirm from miles away.*giggling* I had forgotten about that, thanks for the memory. LOL.

[GinaSofia]

Texting is a safer place to flirt how you want to/say what you feel without the secondhand ticking in your face for an immediate response.

I did go through a brief break up and found out that people do
use texting like they do the Internet..by that I mean scandalously,
without integrity, and to literally steal, literally. So, be smart & be aware.If people reach out to warn you,BELIEVE THEM.


My spouse & I have lived and worked together for over 23 years, texting
each other ( once she figured it out) became a whole new flirting tool &
just another way to let each other know that even if we're on
opposite ends of the building, we're still thinking of each other...in every way.

I absolutely LOVE text flirting.. With my spouse.

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Originally Posted by nicetgurl_30

Okay i lOve banter and flirty text, but is it crossing line when person sends u nude pics? I mean I was being flirty but was hoping for wanting to work for it! Maybe I shouldn't complain and enjoy

Personally speaking, when I’m dating if nude photos are sent I will back off from the person….I’m by no means a prude, but, I do have standards of integrity that I feel should not be crossed until we have both agreed on the relationship being exclusive to each other. I enjoy the getting to know each other first, allowing the rest will follow naturally....

[lettertodaddy]

Originally Posted by Wryly

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Everyone who says to be a good flirter you should be yourself obviously aren't me!

Well said! I'm terrible at flirting.

[smouldering]

Most of the posts here have made me smile, I think flirting is great, its fun and heck its even healthy if you ask me.. I like that little dance of just having fun and getting to know people on all different levels..
However if we've only just said hello and haven't really known each other long and you send me a naughty pic? Im probably not going to be able to take you seriously and will back off.. just sayin, why be so quick to send a stranger pics of your bits? I can't help but wonder how many other people are getting a peek at your goods at the same time and if you're just whoring for attention and nothing more.
I am definitely far from a prude, just ask anyone who knows me lol.. but I can't imagine sending photos of my unmentionables to someone I didn't know.. could you just imagine how many others they could be forwarding my "stuff" too? YIKES

[Vlasta]

Originally Posted by HoustonHuny

Dear Apretty:

It's not my fault that "U"'s message landed in my box and not the intended box, but it did. I was surprised and I had no idea what it meant. However, what I learned from this is that people here cannot handle confrontation in a healthy way. It is back room gossip and crapola at it's finest. I had an "issue" with "U"s post and here I am discussing it with you and I don't even know who you are.

For you to imply that I am a "lunatic" is just unconsionable to me. This is not a community to which I want to belong...

So yes, here is my "golden flounce." I won't be back.

Huny ,

this it's the first time I am reading this thread . I haven't been here much lately . It sadness me that you gave up on this site so quickly . No , this it's not the boards we used to be on , laughing and making jokes of one or other .

It's too many people here , someone will get offended no matter what do you say . I am sorry to loosing you again since you are an intelligent woman and your sense of humor was misunderstood . One thing I would never do to PM butches which they are in a relationship . Even I know you , I find that disrespectful, I am sorry .

I am wishing you the best , hopefully you will find community where you will feel comfortable .

much love

Vlasta

[Point~Of~No~Return]

*smiles*

nothing is better than flirt texting

right before you're going to see someone it gives you the visual of their facial expressions, based of course on what you're texting them the shock that part that draws you in and lures you deep like you're looking into the persons eyes and watching their smile you can visualize the biting of the lip the heart beat quickening the butterflies and the nervousness build from just the excitement alone

but it's a good nervous which draws you back for more with more excitement and newer horizons to challenge each other allowing true inner desires you wouldn't normally be comfortable talking about

the tease

you know what is being felt on the other side and you feel it with in you too

flirt texting is a good ice breaker and it keeps things fresh and new

[Wryly]

what is this flirting you speak of?

*sigh* It's been so long since I've even attempted to text anyone! Once I was told that her phone wasn't able to sent texts to Canada.
I never even had luck with IM! very hopeless indeed!

[TimilDeeps]

i'm in favor of it

[Ciaran]

Originally Posted by Wryly

what is this flirting you speak of?

*sigh* It's been so long since I've even attempted to text anyone! Once I was told that her phone wasn't able to sent texts to Canada.
I never even had luck with IM! very hopeless indeed!

Any texts I send are functional only - I couldn't flirt by text even if I wanted to. I flirt with my eyes so any attempt at flirting via text or online just wouldn't work for me.

[-Red-Flag-]

Huge fan of the flirty text ... Makes things a wee bit interesting !

[boobookitty]

I am a complusive flirt... but I don't text. Have text blocked on my phone. I will flirt in email or on a web post, but I also give the warning that I mean nothing more than friendly fun!

[Leigh]

I will flirt both via text and IM/private messages

[ruffryder]

Question: If you or someone you know is in a relationship and you flirt by text with them, is that considered cheating? Could it be cheating? Is it different in person? .. as the saying goes, If you wouldn't do it with your partner beside you then don't do it.

I just am curious to thoughts of all on this.. thanks in advance!

[ButchEire]

My opinion is that it is emotional infidelity and speaks to a much larger problem within the relationship, or both relationships if two people are participating. No different than real-time infidelity and again, because it speaks volumes about problems going on within a relationship and an externalizing of coping with them.

Originally Posted by ruffryder

Question: If you or someone you know is in a relationship and you flirt by text with them, is that considered cheating? Could it be cheating? Is it different in person? .. as the saying goes, If you wouldn't do it with your partner beside you then don't do it.

I just am curious to thoughts of all on this.. thanks in advance!

[Ciaran]

Originally Posted by ruffryder

Question: If you or someone you know is in a relationship and you flirt by text with them, is that considered cheating? Could it be cheating? Is it different in person? .. as the saying goes, If you wouldn't do it with your partner beside you then don't do it.

I just am curious to thoughts of all on this.. thanks in advance!

Surely it will depend on the exact context. Much flirting can be fun and have no intention of leading anywhere - I don't view flirting, in and of itself, as being unfaithful or disrespectful to a partner.

[boobookitty]

Originally Posted by ruffryder

Question: If you or someone you know is in a relationship and you flirt by text with them, is that considered cheating? Could it be cheating? Is it different in person? .. as the saying goes, If you wouldn't do it with your partner beside you then don't do it.

I just am curious to thoughts of all on this.. thanks in advance!

Everyone who knows me ...knows I flirt... I am honest about it.
If someone is sneeking around about it, it would be cheating.

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by ruffryder

Question: If you or someone you know is in a relationship and you flirt by text with them, is that considered cheating? Could it be cheating? Is it different in person? .. as the saying goes, If you wouldn't do it with your partner beside you then don't do it.

I just am curious to thoughts of all on this.. thanks in advance!

Like booboo, I'm very flirty. I make sure my partners know and understand that that won't stop once we become a couple. Most of the time, that's part of what attracted them to me in the first place. Sometimes, though, what attracts someone to me will become a point of contention later on.

If a partner feels that my actions are inappropriate, we'll discuss it. If I see it the same way, I'll adapt my behavior.

In the specific case of flirting by text, I wouldn't do it. You know when it comes close to the line and I just don't like to toe that closely. Yes, I feel it's a form of emotional cheating.

The kind of flirting I do, via text or in person, I would happily do with my partner next to me.

[*Anya*]

Question: If you or someone you know is in a relationship and you flirt by text with them, is that considered cheating? Could it be cheating? Is it different in person? .. as the saying goes, If you wouldn't do it with your partner beside you then don't do it.

For me personally: I would not flirt with someone else, either by text or in person, while in a committed, monogamous relationship (which I am) nor would I involve myself in someone else's relationship.

I think it is a form of emotional infidelity and I will not go there. I think flirting elsewhere indicates some sort of problem within the primary relationship.

This is an important value, which my partner and I both share.

I think that one can be friendly without flirting.

For a couple that is not monogamous-different rules and expectations, of course.

[bkisbutchenuff]

I love text flirting! It can be really sensual and hot!