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Old 12-17-2009, 06:32 PM   #61
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I struggle with understanding things. Sometimes it just gets overwhelming to me. I go and talk with Linus. He is so kind. Never making fun of me, or belittling me. I will be like what did I say that cause this reaction? Or I am confused on what this means. Or I thought I meant this, and this person said this to me. Why? I just find so much comfort and peace in Linus. He is so patient and kind. Never mad or frustrated with me. He is a good man.

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Earlier today, I wrapped Christmas pressies. I had SNL's Gilly Christmas special on in the background, the pups at my feet and tons of wrapping paper to play with.

Now, I'm at work but I'm finding some peace in having Elf on in the background (for the 12th time this season!) and playing on the Planet and crunching on some hard candies. Yummy!
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Writing. Getting my anxiety out of my head and onto the page always seems to help. And I've got stacks of journals to prove it!
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suprisingly... shoveling and then seeing my acomplishment after (my car has its very own fort)


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Today was cooking. I made laods of stuff and listened ot children's stories on the radio.
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It may weird, but I love to go shopping this time of year. Well, I like shopping anyway and think it should be an Olympic sport, but I digress....

I don't care for the difficulties in finding a parking spot, the rudeness sometimes encountered or the long lines, but other than that, I love it! There's this energy that is so vibrant because of the sheer number of people in enclosed spaces that I just adore. It's so strong, it nearly hums. It gives me energy and a smile on my face, as well as peace.
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Singing to old favourite tracks at the top of my voice and not caring if I'm in tune or know all the words or not.
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What gives me peace:

meditation

yoga (when I can stop thinking and just make it happen)

of which I need to do both...

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Meditation

Prayer - lots of it today

Rereading My Holy Books on Tape
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That is all that is necessary.

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There is something about the bare limbs of a tree against a bleak winter sky that brings me peace.

*Mindfulness of my breath (breathe in peace, breathe out love)

Staring into the flickering flame of a fire or candle

Driving alone down a desolate road

The sound of the ocean

A walk in the woods

A starry night

Silence

* http://www.leighb.com/peaceluv.htm
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