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Old 02-24-2019, 01:39 PM   #1
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Default Transitioning in a Small Town

I thought I had my gender identity all figured out, that I identified more "in-between" the two binaries. But now, I've read another member's post on another site, that felt like I could have wrote it, and it got me questioning again. I can't wait to move out of this town to try living as male. I don't want to start now because I don't want EVERYONE to know, I also wonder if I start now, how will it affect my parents relationship with people in the community? Will I ever be able to come back here, or will I be an outcast?

I wish there were more stories of people who live or have lived in small towns and how they navigated things.
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Old 02-24-2019, 03:18 PM   #2
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I thought I had my gender identity all figured out, that I identified more "in-between" the two binaries. But now, I've read another member's post on another site, that felt like I could have wrote it, and it got me questioning again. I can't wait to move out of this town to try living as male. I don't want to start now because I don't want EVERYONE to know, I also wonder if I start now, how will it affect my parents relationship with people in the community? Will I ever be able to come back here, or will I be an outcast?

I wish there were more stories of people who live or have lived in small towns and how they navigated things.


I,in the near future will be moving to a small town. Mainly for my sanity and well being.

Every one has a different experience with their families and community. I dont think its just one way or another.

Good luck.
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