11-10-2009, 11:09 PM | #11 | ||
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Linus and Greyson, thank you both very much!
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If it is, then I can finally understand the knee-jerk reaction some Transmen have had to the idea of staying in the community, and the insistence some Transmen have had on being with straight women rather than Femmes. It never made sense to me and I felt really hurt by the overwhelming way some guys rejected not just the community but also Transensual Femmes. I never understood why the person who most wanted to support a guy would be the person he rejected... but if a Femme's very presence is enough to make strangers everywhere "un-see" a Transman's truth, it becomes clear why so many guys shy away. Am I on the right track here? Or am I way out in left field? I'm telling you, I have been SO TEMPTED to turn to these people in shock and say--as politely as I can, to educate not to blast--"why are you calling him a lady? We would prefer it if you said 'you guys' or 'you folks' please." I refrain because it isn't my battle to fight, and I wouldn't do that to a guy without permission. ...........but omg I cringe, I cringe, I cringe..... |
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