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Old 01-04-2015, 06:04 PM   #1
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I have more than just one ID, I have more than just a sexual or gender ID.
What IDs make you feel a sense of connection with others? Give you a sense of self?

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Feminist -third wave

Femme/Dolly Dyke -an internal identity. I don't feel I have much in common with other femmes just on the basis of having the same gender as them

Queer-dyke -in North America. I still call myself a lesbian in the UK

Sub (fiesty)

Daughter

Socialist

Southwest coast BC'er -because of the dirt. I feel connect to this dirt, these trees, these mountains. NOT canadian. I am not a patriot. I don't feel I have much in common with someone just because they come from Edmonton in the next province over

Cousin-friend - my friends that I love like family I feel a family like responsibility too and they are part of my identity

Ex-sexworker/sex advocate -big part of who I am, I feel pride about this like people do about being gay and have shame shoved at them for being gay. So I'm out and proud about it.

Writer

Smart arse.

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Old 01-04-2015, 06:22 PM   #2
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Christian-the core of me and how i live my life.

Queer femme-my self-given id, which does not change no matter whom i partner with.

Wife-i claim wife whether married to a man or woman.

Mother-i have learned so much about life and pure love from having my child.

Friend-i have a few close friends, and i would die for any of them.

Social Activist-love me my causes.

Conspiracy theorist-you got a minute? Lol

Daughter of my mother-she taught me good from bad, right from wrong, and how to move through the world confident and strong.
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Old 01-04-2015, 08:52 PM   #3
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Oh gosh, yes. I knew one was missing:

Atheist

And of course, geek
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Oh gosh, yes. I knew one was missing:

Atheist

And of course, geek
Yes, must not forget the geek! Lol

Heck, i forgot lover!
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Old 01-04-2015, 10:53 PM   #5
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I kind of get the gist of this thread so I guess I will put my personal Identities on here.

Heterosexual Transman
Uncle
Brother
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Old 01-04-2015, 11:12 PM   #6
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Old 01-05-2015, 09:56 AM   #7
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In no particular order:

Artist
Motorcyclist
New Yorker
Lesbian
Femininst
Lesbian-feminist, (A subgenre of general feminism that is it's own identity)
Stonefemme
Submissive masochist
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Old 01-05-2015, 01:05 PM   #8
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Writer
Reader
Radical (politically)
Lesbian
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Buddhist
Ocean/water Lover
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Old 01-05-2015, 01:33 PM   #9
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Clinician
Butch
Swimmer
Sister
Daughter
Radical (politically)
Lesbian Feminist
Friend
also a Femmeinist (play on words)
metrosexual butch
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Old 07-20-2015, 09:03 PM   #10
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Lesbian
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Agnostic
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Old 07-20-2015, 09:12 PM   #11
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I forgot to add to the list

Great Uncle
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Old 07-20-2015, 09:31 PM   #12
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Old 08-02-2017, 05:24 AM   #15
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As of last night... sagin' cajun
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Old 08-02-2017, 08:10 AM   #16
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WIB - woman identified butch
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It might read a little better as sage'n Cajun. Sagin' looks like...well, let's just say it doesn't apply to you.
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It might read a little better as sage'n Cajun. Sagin' looks like...well, let's just say it doesn't apply to you.
Well yes! it does! and thank you!
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Feminist-I believe in equality for everyone.Lipstick feminism..rock on.

Soft Butch- Soft spoken and sweet,so I'm told.

Stone- If I don't enjoy it,well,I have to enjoy it.

Top/Dominant- Non submissive.

Wife- I see myself as a woman and personally like the idea of being someone's wife.

Aunt..or Aunt T- The best part is that they don't come home with us.

Spiritual- I do believe in God.If others don't then that's their belief.

Caregiver- Always ready.

Adventurous Risk Taker- How would you know if you didn't take chances?

Cat Person- Yep

Californian- Born in the valley and raised in the mountains.

Seller/Vendor- Brings home the bacon,baby.

Weirdo- Hell yeah!..and you can throw in morbid.
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Spiritual- I have a strong Buddhism interest, and am of Jewish background.

Femme- It's the way I've always been.

Intelligent- The IQ tests put me up there.

Creative- Yep I am.

Bottom/submissive- It's natural to me.

Intuitive- I'm always listening to that inner voice.

Adventurous risk taker- You'll never know if you don't take that risk.

International love- I feel at home in two countries half the world away.

Silver spoon club member- dad was in music industry, I met many artists with their bodyguards and chauffeurs at my house.


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