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Hi Daisy Chain. I rarely ever come post here, and haven't seen much activity here either. Try the singles thread, they seem to post more actively there.
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A threads only dead if no one posts...and here we are. TruTexan, this is for all folks getting up there in age..lol...not a singles thread! Soooo, anyone have a topic they want to throw out? Hot flashes, retirement here/near? |
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MMmmm hot flashes ! Here we call them flushes but either way they are hot and take some getting used to ! On the topic of getting older I have noticed of late I`m starting to question my choices in things, I`m a traditional classic kind of woman anyway but I keep hearing this little voice in my head asking, am I too old for this nail polish colour or is this necklace more for a younger woman. I know a lot of women older than me that dress far younger, mostly successful at pulling it off so I dont know why I should worry over it. I guess I have a new number in my head now and somehow feel the world views me differently ! DC |
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I haven't been able to carry off a "hip" or "younger" look for most of my life...i was born an old soul, and that comes across in my fashion and other choices. I always wished i could carry off the trendy looks, but i only wound up feeling like a clown. I have found one thing to be true through the years...if i don't feel fabulous in it, i don't buy it or wear it. |
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20th birthday - decided clothing was about more than jeans and t-shirts 30th birthday - dyed my hair red and started wearing makeup 40th birthday - changed my makeup and started a strict skincare routine, also got my first tattoo 50th birthday - I'm not sure yet People have been telling me for years, "Oh, when you're such-and-such an age, you won't care what people think about you any more." I have found this to be true in some ways and not in others. I still care what people think about how I look; maybe it's superficial, but it's how I feel. On the other hand, I don't care if people think I'm superficial.
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Amen! Right on.
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I'm 46 and I feel old!!! Going shopping for a new dress tomorrow and I hope it makes me look younger and skinnier!
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I seem to have chocolate on the brain these days ! I always had a savory tooth but as I`ve gotten older I crave the sweet things ! Quote:
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My hair is medium-long; when I turned 40 I dreaded the over-40 short helmet hair that was de rigeur for so many years. I told my hairdresser, and he said, "Oh, honey, nobody does that any more." Whew! I feel like I barely slid under the wire. I've had short hair before, and I just don't feel, well - sexy! - without it.
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40 was a rough year, so I hope that this year is much better. I have better luck with odd numbers than even anyway so I'm optimistic.
Like Georgia, I buck the middle-aged helmet head hairstyle expectation. My hair is red and long and I like it that way. I also have bangs, which apparently I'm not 'supposed' to do. Whatever. I've got some dangerous curves and I wear spandex to the gym. Don't like it; don't look. It's literally as simple as that. There are certain looks I've never been able to pull off successfully so now is no different than before. I love big, chunky jewelry...especially colorful necklaces....but I can't wear them. I'm so little on top, they swallow my neck up. For those concerned with being youthful and classy at the same time, go with tried and true pieces and use jewelry or accessories for your youthful, fun, colorful pops. A nice A line LBD with bright shoes or fun bangles, for example. I've been in the 'don't care what others think' club for a while now. I like to look good for me and if someone else likes it too, great. If not, it's no skin off of my teeth. |
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Yes I`m happy to have survived this far of course and my hair shouldn't matter but healing is about trying to get back to normal {maybe a `new` normal}...and short hair for me...well, isnt me. I know some Femmes rock short hair and are sexy and sassy just as some butches are as butch as butch can be with long hair. But I saw my hair as part of my femininity, Femmeness. I wont feel like me again until it has a little length.....I miss it !! Last edited by Daisy Chain; 06-01-2015 at 02:43 PM. Reason: multi quote problem |
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Cant go wrong with a LBD ! I love clothes with a 40`s feel too, pencil skirts and kitten heels. Your hair sounds gorgeous by the way ! DC |
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I hear 50 is the new 40... that puts me right around 45... cool.. I like it.
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