What attracts you to Ftms ...... - Page 20

pynkkameleon · 10-29-2012, 02:42 PM

What attracts me to FTM's? I like many others am drawn to that masculine energy. It's what makes my belly do flip-flops and draws me in.

I cannot speak for all, but there is also dignity, a pride and yes even a dash of chivalry to each FTM that has ever graced my life. To me this is hot, hot, hot!

Not to downplay any of the struggles that we each have experienced and continue to go through as we move through life, becoming comfortable with who we are and seeking acceptance, but I think that we can all agree that FTM's and MTF individuals have to go many, many extra miles to find that acceptance, even from their own peers.

This is a bravery that I am simply in awe of. There is confidence, incredible strength, perseverance and dignity to any person that is willing to stand up and say "This is who I am". I am proud of any person, of any gender, that has that kind of bravery and self confidence and is willing to risk so much to live their lives being true to themselves.

So, what attracts me to FTM's? It is all of the above and so much more. They bring out the best in me, just as I hope that I do for them.

Toughy · 11-10-2012, 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Darbonaire

I'm sorry your life wasn't pleasent then...my family was dysfunctional no matter what decade they were in....lol....but let's just say I miss manners, courtesy, gentleness, education, family time at dinner, less crime, more overall trust & honesty.

At least that is what I experienced. I belive that common courtesy & manners should ALWAYS be exhibited in life no matter what year. I believe that gentlemanly actions & manners are lacking a lot now days....as in common politeness & courtesy.

No the '50's may not have been perfect, you're right.....but, they did have some things I miss now days. It's a shame that these things are referred to as "old time' values & traits.

Jonathan

I never said my life was unpleasant. I had a great childhood with a relatively functional family.

I saw as many bad manners and lack of a family time at dinner and lack of common courtesy etc among my friend's families as I saw among other friend's mannered families. June and Ward were not the norm in the 50's anymore than bad manners are the norm in the 21st century.

MarquisdeShey · 01-20-2013, 09:45 PM

Strength - the fact a woman/man can transition into the masculine/feminine realm makes nature and nurturer incredible. We are acculturated to belittle each others potential as men and as women. Change is powerful, we all know a lava becomes a butterfly by an incredible journey, all transitioning FtM/MtF are metamorphic - mind, spirit and then body.

Sensuality - I can't help but to think of Hermaphroditus born to the gods of female and male sexuality - you are in touch with all that is intense and powerful when it comes to the carnal aspect of being human. Thus I bow my head to you, for you so gracefully walked between two lines. More so, I respect the integrity that comes from being both. It's exotic.

Beauty - we are always changing. We are always evolving. FtMs are like mirrors. We often see ourselves with one face. FtMs have experienced and touched both of their faces.

Relationships come from trust, love, respect, and integrity. Its not who, but how you love that matters. As long as we battle with issues of equality we will battle. When we no longer need to explain ourselves and defend our humanity, well, we will all be having a whole lot hot sex...Smiles...

Thanks for being who you are.

Kent · 01-31-2013, 08:19 PM

Bumpity bump...

Nadeest · 02-06-2013, 06:57 AM

I find it very easy to talk to ftms, as we often have similar experiences.

Uniqueswtfemm · 02-06-2013, 08:50 AM

I'm very attracted to courage.

Kent · 03-31-2013, 01:14 PM

Just a little Bump....

firegal · 03-31-2013, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kent

Just a little Bump....

Kent you keep getting these bump thingy,s

allergic to sumpin?

Happy Easter bro!

Heavenleahangel · 03-31-2013, 06:11 PM

Its not so much an attraction, but I totally "get it" when it comes to ftm's and it drives me wild! Its the respect, the special bond, the pleasure that no other can provide! Oh, be still my heart!!! I wish there were more ftm's around here. Maybe I should look at the idea of relocating!!! Heck, I'm only looking for ONE!!!

10-29-2012, 02:42 PM	#381
pynkkameleon Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme with a delightful twist Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, His Relationship Status: He captured my heart and I couldn't be happier Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Temporarily buried under a blanket of snow Posts: 101 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 824 Thanked 394 Times in 77 Posts Rep Power: 5017310	What attracts me to FTM's? I like many others am drawn to that masculine energy. It's what makes my belly do flip-flops and draws me in. I cannot speak for all, but there is also dignity, a pride and yes even a dash of chivalry to each FTM that has ever graced my life. To me this is hot, hot, hot! Not to downplay any of the struggles that we each have experienced and continue to go through as we move through life, becoming comfortable with who we are and seeking acceptance, but I think that we can all agree that FTM's and MTF individuals have to go many, many extra miles to find that acceptance, even from their own peers. This is a bravery that I am simply in awe of. There is confidence, incredible strength, perseverance and dignity to any person that is willing to stand up and say "This is who I am". I am proud of any person, of any gender, that has that kind of bravery and self confidence and is willing to risk so much to live their lives being true to themselves. So, what attracts me to FTM's? It is all of the above and so much more. They bring out the best in me, just as I hope that I do for them. __________________ ~Pynk~ The aim of life is to live, & to live means to be aware, joyously, drunkenly, serenely, divinely aware ~ Henry Miller It is for each of us freely to choose whom we shall serve, and find in that obedience our freedom. ~ Mary Richards

01-20-2013, 09:45 PM	#383
MarquisdeShey Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: self centered Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Evenly Plowed Fields Posts: 1,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 786 Thanked 4,281 Times in 826 Posts Rep Power: 21474838	what attracts Me to FtMs ... Strength - the fact a woman/man can transition into the masculine/feminine realm makes nature and nurturer incredible. We are acculturated to belittle each others potential as men and as women. Change is powerful, we all know a lava becomes a butterfly by an incredible journey, all transitioning FtM/MtF are metamorphic - mind, spirit and then body. Sensuality - I can't help but to think of Hermaphroditus born to the gods of female and male sexuality - you are in touch with all that is intense and powerful when it comes to the carnal aspect of being human. Thus I bow my head to you, for you so gracefully walked between two lines. More so, I respect the integrity that comes from being both. It's exotic. Beauty - we are always changing. We are always evolving. FtMs are like mirrors. We often see ourselves with one face. FtMs have experienced and touched both of their faces. Relationships come from trust, love, respect, and integrity. Its not who, but how you love that matters. As long as we battle with issues of equality we will battle. When we no longer need to explain ourselves and defend our humanity, well, we will all be having a whole lot hot sex...Smiles... Thanks for being who you are. __________________ My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool is s/he who adopts a manner of thinking for others! ~Marquis de Sade

01-31-2013, 08:19 PM	#384
Kent Member How Do You Identify?: Transgender male Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Solo Tournaments Won: 2 Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: USA Posts: 939 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,847 Thanked 1,596 Times in 616 Posts Rep Power: 14051359	What attracts you to FtMs... Bumpity bump... __________________ Kent To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

02-06-2013, 08:50 AM	#386
Uniqueswtfemm Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Hanging out Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Missin the beach Posts: 1,714 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,187 Thanked 4,820 Times in 1,162 Posts Rep Power: 21474838	I'm very attracted to courage. __________________ Unique A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

03-31-2013, 01:14 PM	#387
Kent Member How Do You Identify?: Transgender male Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Solo Tournaments Won: 2 Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: USA Posts: 939 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,847 Thanked 1,596 Times in 616 Posts Rep Power: 14051359	What attracts you to FtMs... Just a little Bump.... __________________ Kent To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

02-06-2013, 06:57 AM	#385
Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Houston, Tx Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,695 Thanked 1,411 Times in 346 Posts Rep Power: 11956268	I find it very easy to talk to ftms, as we often have similar experiences.

03-31-2013, 06:11 PM	#389
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dreaming of the day... Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 420 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 892 Thanked 1,508 Times in 353 Posts Rep Power: 12107834	Its not so much an attraction, but I totally "get it" when it comes to ftm's and it drives me wild! Its the respect, the special bond, the pleasure that no other can provide! Oh, be still my heart!!! I wish there were more ftm's around here. Maybe I should look at the idea of relocating!!! Heck, I'm only looking for ONE!!! __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Sweet Georgia Peach To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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