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We are headed to our beach house for Christmas and while it's good to get away and take in some ocean air and hear the tides nearby, we worry about what is in store for us during the next coming year.
We are wishing everyone a season of joy; and that life will be kind to all of us, in the coming months ahead.
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I have an official crap ton of stuff to do this week before I go out of state on Friday and I'm not sure if I'll get it all done. I may have to get creative with work.
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I want for the year to end and to see how it'll go not in a festive mood still wish you the best though
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How great kids are with their wonderful unconditional love that isn't based on monetary things. My grandsons don't love me because I give them stuff. No they just love me because I'm there for them, they feel safe with me and enjoy the time we spend together. Tonight when we got to my son's place my youngest grandson didn't want to go upstairs and play with the pile of new toys he'd just scored or where the boat ton of food and treats were. He just wanted to stay downstairs, sit on my lap, watch a children's Christmas program with me and cuddle. Latter when his uncles arrived and said they'd watch him and I gave him a choice, finish the movie with them or come upstairs with me. He turned around, paused, gave the television a look then decided nope he wanted to go upstairs with grandma. That felt so good. Upstairs three different people reached out to hold him and he was having none of it. He reached out his arms, kicked to try and wiggle free and cried for me to hold him.
Everyone spoils him, his cousins too much. My older grandsons go to their room, I swear its ankle deep in toys when they don't make them pick up. My oldest and J aren't quite as bad but still, no child who isn't even two years old yet needs all that stuff. I refuse to buy them any presents – clothes, food, toys nothing like that. I'm buying them savings bonds and spending time with them. I think it works. I can't wait for the weather to get warm they really like hanging outside with me, studying plants, insects, rocks, wood. Picking berries, watching planes, cars and trucks go by. Stroller, scooter, bike rides and walks to the park. Until then we build Legos and color and scribble, read books, clean house together and do so much more indoors. Anyhow I was just thinking about how much fun we had today. I know enjoy it now while it lasts because sooner than I'd like they'll be teenagers rolling their eyes at lame ass grandma wanting to be left alone but for now it feels really nice |
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My upcoming surgery and how things went from a simple outpatient surgery to being required to be admitted for several days because my blood work came back bad. I'm not a happy camper.
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12-28-2021, 04:54 AM | #14810 |
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Today, I go back to the Endocrinologist. The last time I went (5mos. kept putting off), my renal status was Stage 3 failure. Afraid that I'm going toward dialysis which is Stage 5. In the last appt., she asked me if I would want dialysis or palliative care. I was too shocked that I didn't ask, "well what about a donor's kidney." My brother died of renal failure in his early 60s, I am 62. Today, I will ask though not sure I want to learn the answer.
I have latent onset type 1 diabetes. She tells me (based on history) that I probably have been diabetic since childhood. Wondered why I ate candy corn about half a pound daily and failed HS algebra which was my after-lunch class, which was slept through when I had a burger and chocolate milkshake. Almost daily I had that and a salad. Back when I was younger, and in Indiana, people didn't do labwork on children as a rule unless one is very ill. I was a sickly child, but my 2 times each Winter illnesses were cured by Penicillin shots. A bit angry about not finding out about my diabetes until age 36, I probably wouldn't have had my heart attack if I knew to make some changes. I loved candy and other sugary treats as they gave me a buzz. Didn't know I was harming myself. Sheesh, the first time I had a Coca-cola (also in my 30s), thought I had found Nirvana.
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01-01-2022, 08:25 AM | #14811 |
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For 2021, I lived every day focussed on surviving.
For 2022, I'm going to focus on living and enjoying living.
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01-03-2022, 08:28 AM | #14812 |
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Following my instinct.
This morning I canceled my knee-replacement surgery that's scheduled in two weeks. I just don't feel right about this surgery happening right now. One concern I have is the snow. We're getting more than 6 inches in a few days with more to come next week. Another concern is my caretaker, Bae-Bae, doesn't like to drive so we'll need to use Ubers. That's an even larger burden with the snow, though Bae isn't concerned about this. Still, something hasn't felt right and I can't say exactly what it is... so I cancelled and will reschedule for the spring or summer. I seldom get these last-minute fears that are this strong, but the older I get the quicker I am to follow my instincts. I feel better now that I'm getting the replacement joint later in the year. |
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05-05-2022, 11:50 AM | #14813 |
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There’s a cat, Bruno (my name for him), that I want to foster and adopt. Went to the Humane Society today to meet him. I’m in love, but they weren’t truthful about his age and I’m concerned there may be other things they’re possibly hiding.
His page on the humane society website says he’s 5yrs and 4 months. I met the owner of the humane society who (mistakenly?) told me he is 8 and she knows this because the person who brought him to the mission told her she’s seen him for at least 8 years with people or on his own. I reminded her that the website lists his age as 5 yrs. She suggested I misread the info. I ain’t misread anything. He’s adorable and literally rough around the edges. His ears are a bit beat up from fights. He likes me and I like him, but I don’t want to start with a cat who’s 8 years old. He has FIV, but I can work with that in a younger cat, but I’m not sure I’m up to having a cat this mature. I’m suppose to pick him up Saturday morning, but I’m not sure I’ll go with him. https://petlover.petstablished.com/p...y&widget=false |
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Hi Orema!
As you may know, I work with senior cats in a residence for cats who have lost their owners due to illness, death, incapacity etc. I think I might be able to help you think through some of what you are going through, or at the very least, shed some light on his situation through my experience. Please drop me a line if you would like to chat about Punky/Bruno! We can talk on the phone or in pvt msgs here. I am in Arizona which is Mountain Standard Time, currently the same time as the west coast. Will check back in this evening when I get home from work, about 7ish my time. Oh, and by the way, 8 years old is really not that old!!! Natalie Quote:
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Dreading going back to Texas, tomorrow! Gaming commission is being slow, but that's Native Americans for ya, yes my own people! *smacks forehead*
I dread going back to see what fresh hell is there, being gone for almost 2 weeks, with the quiet and such, I'm going back into non peace and quiet!
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Like every day mother, you are on my mind but today is your special day and I wish we could share it together. I miss you more than words can say but I am sure you know this. I remember telling you that you were the most important person in my life and I am so glad I got to say it before you were gone.
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Grocery delivery tomorrow. I did my best to make sure most things would likely be in stock but who knows. It's hard to plan meals when you're never exactly sure what will and won't show up. I can't allow substitutions because whoever did the deciding times I've let them didn't go very good job selecting comparable ones. If I was able to go to the stores, in person I'd probably have better luck finding what I want but with the way fuel prices have risen I'm doing home delivery more often now to save J and my son as much running around as I can. Anyhow keep fingers crossed we'll see. Nothing like giving it up to God and begging of the universe - CHOOSE ME!!!
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