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Old 01-04-2011, 09:59 PM   #1
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This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?
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Old 01-04-2011, 10:04 PM   #2
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This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?
Abso frieking LUTELY I would. I am awesome, extremely faithful, highly romantic, affectionate. Love to laugh, make others laugh. Im a huge teddybear with a big giving heart. Ive been told a great lover, and a great friend... And Im hella sexy Just for starters. Im so much more. Im not perfect. I have my flaws... I never require in a femme what I dont already possess... Just sayin..
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Old 01-04-2011, 10:08 PM   #3
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I would without a doubt. I am a good catch. Kind, compassionate, well read and yes attractive to boot.
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I'd date myself, I just made dinner for me and I and gotta say.. I'm pretty damn good to me in bed too! *smirk* Sometimes I have a headache or me is too tired...
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I'd date myself, I just made dinner for me and I and gotta say.. I'm pretty damn good to me in bed too! *smirk* Sometimes I have a headache or me is too tired...
lol...and you have a great sense of humor
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No, cause I'm married, and I don't fool around on my wife.
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I would have to lean towards no.

Don't get me wrong, I have lots of qualities I like about myself. That's not it.

I am looking for someone who complements me, not someone who is exactly like me. If they are exactly like me and like ALL the same things that I do and has all the same exact opinions that I do then I will not be challenged. There have to be some commonalities but not everything.
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Well I know "Strappie" would love me but I'm not so sure I would love "Strappie" The heat seeking moisture missile is a lot to handle.

Ohhh I went there......
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Yes, I admire me for my awesome cooking and mad sexual skillz too. I would definitely send myself some flowers and ask for a second, or even third date.


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No. I'm really not my type. Way too old, cranky and set in my ways.
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Me and I are non committal, we won't talk about Strappie....
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Me and I are going to bed before we get Strappie in trouble... G'night!
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Yeah, I think I'd date me.

I know that I can be trusted to give myself a lot of space, and I like my space. I wouldn't get my feelings hurt when I don't return my phonecall, because I would have forgotten that I had called myself to begin with. That sounds good.

Plus I wouldn't have to argue with myself over what radio station to listen to, and I would never begrudge myself a True Blood Marathon Saturday. I wouldn't criticize myself for drinking several pots of coffee a day, because I'd be drinking that much too. I'd never pressure myself to quit smoking. I wouldn't want me to change anything about myself.

If I moved in with myself I wouldn't have to compromise with myself on things like what colour to paint the bathroom, because me and myself have the same taste.
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I don't know that I would have enough patience to date me.
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I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......


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Personally I think the pros outweigh the cons...lol

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- loving
- caring
- passionate
- quirky
- always in the mood (*wink wink*)
- mad bedroom skills (*teehee*)
- pretty darn good cook (mad baking skills too)
- intelligent
- easily amused
- tenacious
- patient and loyal (most of the time)
- optimistic
- impeccible manners (unless we're just chillin' by ourselves, then I will prop my feet on the coffee table...but only if it's our coffee table)
- enjoys vacuuming, dusting and doing windows
- thoughtful (when not being forgetful)
- compassionate
- attractive
- fun to do things with/travel with
- good with animals...and some humans lol
- yada yada yada

CONS
- jealous
- attracted to shiny objects
- somewhat of a packrat/hoarder
- sometimes absent-minded
- crazy cat lady in training
- sometimes too silly
- picky eater
- sometimes too horny
- cuss like a muthaf'ing sailor (but never around family, children or others that would be offended, I do show respect...although idiots in stores and road rage do set it off sometimes)
- some days too cocky/some days too self-conscious
- devious (which can also be a good thing in the bedroom lol)
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I would definitely want to date me but would probably be a little intimidated by how little I sleep and how many projects I always have going on. Oh, and I might think the relationship with the big orange dog was unhealthy.
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yep I'd date me
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Heck yea, I'd date me! I'm very affectionate, very giving (I have a huge heart), love helping others, I can cook fairly decent, LOVE to make people laugh, not hung up on myself, I don't keep track of who's done what to whom, disappointed when others do, honest to a fault, and I love blonds!

The down side? We all have to honest right? Well, I have trouble saying "no" to others sometimes and get overextended easily, & I can't take a fish off a hook w/o help .
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