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Old 03-21-2012, 02:14 PM   #101
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Old 03-21-2012, 02:20 PM   #102
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~headed to Sachita's profile because I want a dirty message, but not a filthy one.


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~headed to Sachita's profile because I want a dirty message, but not a filthy one.


I'm actually capable of huge filth. If you saw me now you'd know just what a dirty girl I really am.
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Old 03-21-2012, 05:15 PM   #105
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re: the actual thread topic,

i'm glad someone brought this up. personally i'd be a lot more comfortable if people had to register to be able to read here. i run a forum where people have to register to see posts - the main site is still indexed and searchable by google if you search on the forum topic, but you can't find specific information or posts by/about people through google. i like this space so i post here anyway. i don't have a huge expectation of privacy. but i'd be a lot more comfortable if only registered members could read posts. i don't really give a fuck who's looking at my profile.

edited because i meant to say if people had to register to READ here, not post here, hehehe! thanks for bringing that to my attention corkey.
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i was the one who pushed for only registered members to be able to access forums on the Dance site, i caught flack for it from a few who wanted to peruse without being logged in, but i still preferred it that way. Banned members no longer had access to the site, honestly i don't really care anymore.

There were no *unregistered guests*, but some of those could be a good thing from what i hear.
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I have one person who visits my page...every single day...but is a futile visit as what is there to see is limited to contacts and admin/mods!! It bothers me NOT!!! Besides I think that person has a secret crush on me..why else would they need a daily visit..grins...(make it a positive experience!!!)
OMG...Honey, i just realised the same person seems to have a crush on me too!!!
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How do you know they visit your page every day? Just because June's name is there every day does not mean Juney has visited every day. 10 more people would have to visit after June's last visit to kick her name off.


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This idea of registering before you can read is something I do not understand. What does making someone register do for privacy when bots and spiders get to read anything they want to read without registering?

How many people are we stopping from reading and learning by requiring registration? There are many reasons a person might not want to register. How does creating an obstacle (registering) to access this site help build and create community? What safety does requiring registration create?
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Old 03-25-2012, 03:32 PM   #109
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Well i can only speak for myself...this person appears in the list, gets bumped out then reappears...and it does seem to happen daily...
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[QUOTE=Toughy;553336]How do you know they visit your page every day? Just because June's name is there every day does not mean Juney has visited every day. 10 more people would have to visit after June's last visit to kick her name off.

I find this thread to be rather amusing....great way to make someone think you have a secret crush or are a stalker. Maybe someone enjoyed reading something and want to go back and reread the post. Perhaps they hit the wrong button. I do not get paranoid, curious maybe, but secret crush....that is very flattering. And I believe it does take a while for the name of the person who visited to go off your page, especially if it is someone else entirely that visits your page a lot, may take longer than 10 visits for the person you think is visiting your page to get bumped off.
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Well i can only speak for myself...this person appears in the list, gets bumped out then reappears...and it does seem to happen daily...
laughin...........aren't you Miss Popular.......
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I personally don't get why people get upset if someone/anyone visits their profile page.

It is there for all to see and read is it not? There is no guarantee of privacy anywhere on the Internet and certainly not on B-F Planet.

I like to think that people have good motives in reading mine and always appreciate the positive visitor messages they leave. The few times I have been visited without someone leaving me a message, I just shrugged and figured they had their reasons for looking-either way: not a problem for me.

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laughin...........aren't you Miss Popular.......
LOL...sure seems that way on occasion...
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I just visited several profiles because

I have a relatively new iPhone and I am clumsy.

I touch members' clickable screen names all the time by accident.
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I have a relatively new iPhone and I am clumsy.

I touch members' clickable screen names all the time by accident.
me too, and we've mentioned this several times, i don't get what the big deal is!
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i just get curious to know more about people so i check profiles pretty frequently there are some profile fields that aren't viewable on the left side of posts and i'm nosy, dammit :P
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all this talk about profiles reminds me I need to go visit one.................
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all this talk about profiles reminds me I need to go visit one.................
ME pick ME!!!! LOL
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