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I've found less is more..less expectation/judging means in the long run more contentment..if you need a lot in a relationship, it's realistic to expect you're going to have to deal with a degree of disappointment..less money, the more money we make the busier we tend to be and tempted or have to devote a lot of time outside of your relationship..I think you have to be on relatively the same page when it comes to finances..but if you can both downsize you are paid back with time to spend however you both decide pursuing happiness, less worrying about your happiness, more about your partner..if you have the right one, this is almost brilliantly selfish for no doubt they will catch on and try to outdo you..less problem, more solution..be the person he/hi/she loves to hang around, be fun & every once in a while plan a surprise..or be the surprise..
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03-17-2013, 05:49 PM | #483 |
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When She wants to just take a quick peek in the mak make-up place or that sephorium something place and you know her quick peek means blowing all the money in your wallet and the peek is now an hour and a half later and you feel stupid in those stores Then what to do is smile and nod and say babe you dont need any of these things bc you are naturally beautiful.
FYI : it doesnt stop her from buying stuff but its what you should do . Ya know smile and and nod and keep the compliments going . |
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It's the big things that sometimes seem little.
Remember that the darkness, right before sleep, is the perfect time to whisper sweet nothings into your lovers ear. Intimacy, it's a gift.
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Do not tell your better half everything!
They dont need to know the sort of poo you just had! Or that you just dug out a really huge booger from your nose. And space. You don't need to be stuck to their hip all the bloody time. (If you have been with this person for more then five years, then none of this applies.) |
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Of course as an adult we can choose to do whatever we want. However, we must remember that PERCEPTION is a bitch.
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Do everything in your power to see that your words match your actions. Better yet, fewer words, more actions.
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That is a good one Grainne, Words with no actions are worthless. Do follow through and remember your promises.
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if they offer to help you mop the floor..marry her/hym/him (Keeper) jk but not rilly
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Always check yourself before speaking in anger or frustration. Why? Because words can be forgiven but never forgotten.
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The most important thing I ever learned about relationships is to not waste time and energy reinventing the wheel. The other person in the relationship wants basically the same things you do. Namely, to feel loved, cherished, appreciated, respected, cared for and about, desired and desirable, important, special, safe and secure etc. How you demonstrate these might be different, but they should guide everything you do and say. As people show these in different ways, it helps when your styles mesh. If you arent meshing well in the actions department, it helps for both to be able and willing to listen, learn and make adjustments as necessary. For me, it all boils down to action and behavior, not words and intentions.
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- Remember that there are three entities involved: me, her, and “us”. - Balance the attention and care given to each entity. - Treat entity with kindness and respect.
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Retain a bit of mystery.
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Trust her and show her you love her dont just say it.
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Interesting..care to explain?
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