What is on your mind - Page 222

Miss Scarlett · 10-31-2010, 10:48 AM

Trying to wrap my brain around the fact that my grandmother died 26 years ago today...hard to believe...

LipstickLola · 10-31-2010, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Kobi

May I suggest just "accidently" dropping it in the toilet? Is easier to explain and usually absolves you from replacement costs.

LOL, actually? in my zeal to quickly tie the knot, *snort*, that sucker flipped right off the waist band and was so quicklly sucked down that toilet I'd not had time to blink!! Umm, so I can't really use that again, LOL, but thanks!

Today...I am mindless

Queerasfck · 10-31-2010, 03:46 PM

Queerasfck · 10-31-2010, 03:47 PM

Queerasfck · 10-31-2010, 04:08 PM

Faux French.

Mister Bent · 10-31-2010, 04:08 PM

little man · 10-31-2010, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by suebee

Two months ago today it was 100F out. Today it's snowing. That seems awfully quick, doesn't it?

but you live in the great white north! (i think the white references snow...i could be wrong, though)

i am grateful to be moving south before winter here.

Gemme · 10-31-2010, 04:49 PM

Good times with a good friend.

Just_G · 11-01-2010, 01:55 PM

I am trying to wrap my brain around how one can go from being in an intimate relationship to "let's be besties". Can people REALLY do that? What about the hurt feelings? What about all the hateful accusations made along the way? How do you just shift gears like that? Seriously. Man, what is wrong with me that I keep getting involved with chicks like this!

I need to have my head examined...big time!!

Arwen · 11-01-2010, 01:58 PM

G, it's not easy. OrganicButch and I managed to maintain a friendship. Admittedly, we actually discussed what would happen if/when we stopped dating. We may not be besties but I trust him and would go to him with issues. I know he would have my best interest at heart.

Also, some women don't have good boundaries (hello, I've been one of those) so you may need to set up new ground rules like "no contact for three months" or something so you can process and move on.

Love you. Mean it. Want some cake?

Soon · 11-01-2010, 02:00 PM

Portia DeGeneres is on Oprah right now if you wanted to catch it.

Just_G · 11-01-2010, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Arwen

G, it's not easy. OrganicButch and I managed to maintain a friendship. Admittedly, we actually discussed what would happen if/when we stopped dating. We may not be besties but I trust him and would go to him with issues. I know he would have my best interest at heart.

Also, some women don't have good boundaries (hello, I've been one of those) so you may need to set up new ground rules like "no contact for three months" or something so you can process and move on.

Love you. Mean it. Want some cake?

Thanks Arwen! I made mention that I need some time and space to deal with my feelings and to start moving forward and it got all ugly with accusations of "you said you would never leave me" kind of stuff. It has gotten to the point that I want NO contact if it is going to be all passive aggressive and stuff.

She wants the friendship right NOW, and I just can't act like there were never any feelings involved. Boundaries have been set...trust ME!

Thanks for your input!!

lipstixgal · 11-01-2010, 02:12 PM

I'm watching right now!!

Arwen · 11-01-2010, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_G

Thanks Arwen! I made mention that I need some time and space to deal with my feelings and to start moving forward and it got all ugly with accusations of "you said you would never leave me" kind of stuff. It has gotten to the point that I want NO contact if it is going to be all passive aggressive and stuff.

She wants the friendship right NOW, and I just can't act like there were never any feelings involved. Boundaries have been set...trust ME!

Thanks for your input!!

Ewwwwwwwwwwww on the PA stuff. No no and or NO. Run run run. That's not, as you already know, okay. Love you. You are right!

Gemme · 11-01-2010, 08:50 PM

It's the beginning of a new month! I love the freshness that it brings, plus I had an AWESOME workout today.

sweetfemme247 · 11-01-2010, 08:59 PM

a woman at work died today

Gemme · 11-01-2010, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by browneyedgirl

a woman at work died today

OMG. I'm sorry to hear this.

little_ms_sunshyne · 11-01-2010, 09:05 PM

Wishing I had a cheat sheet to life...It gets way to complex for me.

Strappie · 11-01-2010, 09:06 PM

When you give someone your trust and they just throw it to the wind.... why?

sweetfemme247 · 11-01-2010, 09:07 PM

Thanks gemme, she died of a heart attack this morning at 8:00am while we were at work

10-31-2010, 03:46 PM	#4423
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10-31-2010, 04:08 PM	#4425
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10-31-2010, 04:08 PM	#4426
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10-31-2010, 04:49 PM	#4428
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10-31-2010, 10:48 AM	#4421
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,949 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Trying to wrap my brain around the fact that my grandmother died 26 years ago today...hard to believe...

11-01-2010, 01:55 PM	#4429
Just_G Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Switch, Comedian...G...whichever. Preferred Pronoun?: He....with an e! Relationship Status: I'll take kinky & twisted for $200, Alex!! Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the middle Posts: 2,281 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 874 Thanked 6,165 Times in 1,450 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I am trying to wrap my brain around how one can go from being in an intimate relationship to "let's be besties". Can people REALLY do that? What about the hurt feelings? What about all the hateful accusations made along the way? How do you just shift gears like that? Seriously. Man, what is wrong with me that I keep getting involved with chicks like this! I need to have my head examined...big time!! __________________ Happy are those who dream and are ready to pay the price to make them come true!

11-01-2010, 01:58 PM	#4430
Arwen Joy Seeker How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment) Posts: 10,140 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,636 Thanked 28,131 Times in 6,414 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	G, it's not easy. OrganicButch and I managed to maintain a friendship. Admittedly, we actually discussed what would happen if/when we stopped dating. We may not be besties but I trust him and would go to him with issues. I know he would have my best interest at heart. Also, some women don't have good boundaries (hello, I've been one of those) so you may need to set up new ground rules like "no contact for three months" or something so you can process and move on. Love you. Mean it. Want some cake? __________________ I wrote a book, y'all! *FREE* Tarotscopes Seek Joy, y'all. Eschew hate. 9Words: A Poetry Challenge \| Do you like me?

11-01-2010, 02:00 PM	#4431
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11-01-2010, 02:12 PM	#4433
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494760	I'm watching right now!!

11-01-2010, 08:50 PM	#4435
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,587 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,179 Thanked 108,771 Times in 25,658 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	It's the beginning of a new month! I love the freshness that it brings, plus I had an AWESOME workout today. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

11-01-2010, 08:59 PM	#4436
sweetfemme247 Member How Do You Identify?: fem Preferred Pronoun?: femme, she, her, baby, sweetie Relationship Status: holding my heart close and putting back up a wall Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: california, palm springs Posts: 994 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 206 Thanked 719 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 4115670	a woman at work died today __________________ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn

11-01-2010, 09:05 PM	#4438
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,242 Times in 2,540 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Wishing I had a cheat sheet to life...It gets way to complex for me.

11-01-2010, 09:06 PM	#4439
Strappie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I know who I am... Doesn't matter Relationship Status: It's a new day.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mpls, MN Posts: 3,283 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,813 Thanked 4,946 Times in 1,350 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	When you give someone your trust and they just throw it to the wind.... why?

11-01-2010, 09:07 PM	#4440
sweetfemme247 Member How Do You Identify?: fem Preferred Pronoun?: femme, she, her, baby, sweetie Relationship Status: holding my heart close and putting back up a wall Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: california, palm springs Posts: 994 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 206 Thanked 719 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 4115670	Thanks gemme, she died of a heart attack this morning at 8:00am while we were at work __________________ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn