OFOS Butch......wants to find an OFOS Femme

[Sachita]

Laney can bake, I can cook- where a dress and be our bitch! lol

[Ciaran]

Originally Posted by Sachita

Laney can bake, I can cook- where a dress and be our bitch! lol

This sounds tempting ...... but I saw a reference to needing to clean and, as it's a domestic chore, it rules me out I'm afraid

[clay]

getting back on track...lol......
I write......often...and it always comes from my heart....I never know what will come out...it is my hope to share some of those writings in here..along the way..I want this to be my writings...for her to discover when the Universe crosses her path with mine..
I go through many legal pads...as I sometimes will write a "piece" that may be a multiple of pages...sometimes it is a line or two..and a paragraph may come out..
Everything I write here is personal and may be about me..and my own opinion.
Gentleness is deeply rooted within me...and is also part of my Cherokee lineage...a gentle people! I want to be a sweet, gentle, kind, compassionate, loving soul. Life is far too precious to be anything else.
I had quite a health scare in November 2011. I was found to have a cancerous mass in my colon, found on a routine diagnostic test pre op for a hysterectomy. Long & short of it...I had major abdominal surgery the 9th of December. I was in ICU for a week then a surgical floor a week. I will, of course have to have blood work at intervals to be sure it hasn't returned, BUT my prognosis is excellent. With that said, I already knew the world turned on a dime...having that diagnosis be given to me...made that even more clearer. I am living life...as fully as I can. I am loving those who cross my path..and I am one who believes love can be of many levels..on many different planes. While I want to fall in love with THE one, I will also love others along the way.....in differing ways. As I have said I am in no hurry...as I want to do things the old fashioned way. I want to "pitch and woo" her...as in the days of old. By that same token, I want to have a love of my own. I enjoy being with someone..I enjoy all the "chaos" and all the busy ness of a love that comes with the territory......
I will write more later....sleepy now..g'night!

[Silverseastar]

As I read this thread with amusement at the delightful responses, OFOS seems to have flown the coop!

Or maybe it has a more mutable meaning?

[Sassy]

Originally Posted by guihong

At risk of a stupid question, what is OFOS?

(So glad someone else asked this so I didn't have to. Thanks.)

Meanwhile, I also had to google "Pitch and woo" ... But that just made me smile

It's just so educational around here

[Parker]

Originally Posted by Silverseastar

As I read this thread with amusement at the delightful responses, OFOS seems to have flown the coop!

Or maybe it has a more mutable meaning?

I believe it stands for Old Fashioned Old School.

[farmgirl]

Awwww, Clay you will find someone very special to fill your life and have that adventure with you! You are an amazing person, with a great heart. Hugss...Farm

[clay]

Originally Posted by Sassy

(So glad someone else asked this so I didn't have to. Thanks.)

Meanwhile, I also had to google "Pitch and woo" ... But that just made me smile

It's just so educational around here

Sassy.......I am a true southerner..and that is what I always heard growing up...and it is what I call courting and woo'ing a lady! One woos by flowers, dates, special little gifts, etc...in my world anyway! Glad to have passed something down to you....smiles...thanks for stopping by! Clay

[clay]

Originally Posted by farmgirl

Awwww, Clay you will find someone very special to fill your life and have that adventure with you! You are an amazing person, with a great heart. Hugss...Farm

Thanks, Farm...appreciate your kind words....you are pretty awesome yourself!! Jess, too! I heart you both...Clay

[Sassy]

Originally Posted by claybaby

Sassy.......I am a true southerner..and that is what I always heard growing up...and it is what I call courting and woo'ing a lady! One woos by flowers, dates, special little gifts, etc...in my world anyway! Glad to have passed something down to you....smiles...thanks for stopping by! Clay

*laughs* I'd heard of woo. I'd just never heard "pitch woo" ... To be completely honest, I had to Google it 'cause I wondered if adding "pitch" to it gave it some kind of connotation other than romance .... *ahem* ... blame that on my mind... goes straight to the gutter. Occupational hazard really... *laughs* Honest!

[Canela]

I came across this quote tonight and thought of you Mr OFOS--apparently you and 'ole blue eyes' share a similar philosophy when it comes to women. This makes you 'mega' cool IMHO.
Stay true to you Clay, there are plenty of OFOS femmes out there and you will find 'the one'. Hang in there. Take your time as you wade thru the applications--lol. (Jk)

***
'I may sound old-fashioned, but I want to think all women should be treated like I want my wife, daughters, and granddaughters to be treated. I notice today that good manners—like standing up when a woman enters the room, helping a woman with her coat, letting her enter an elevator first, taking her arm to cross the street—are sometimes considered unnecessary or a throwback. They're habits I could never break, nor would I want to. I realize today a lot more women are taking care of themselves than in the past, but no woman is offended by politeness.'
~Frank Sinatra

[clay]

Originally Posted by Canela

I came across this quote tonight and thought of you Mr OFOS--apparently you and 'ole blue eyes' share a similar philosophy when it comes to women. This makes you 'mega' cool IMHO.
Stay true to you Clay, there are plenty of OFOS femmes out there and you will find 'the one'. Hang in there. Take your time as you wade thru the applications--lol. (Jk)

***
'I may sound old-fashioned, but I want to think all women should be treated like I want my wife, daughters, and granddaughters to be treated. I notice today that good manners—like standing up when a woman enters the room, helping a woman with her coat, letting her enter an elevator first, taking her arm to cross the street—are sometimes considered unnecessary or a throwback. They're habits I could never break, nor would I want to. I realize today a lot more women are taking care of themselves than in the past, but no woman is offended by politeness.'
~Frank Sinatra

Thanks, my friend!!! This made me smile....and it is who I am...and I never want my politeness, respect, and courtesy for a woman to escape me. I actually DO stand when she enters a room!!!!
This quote is a gentle reminder to remain true to "my roots"...and yes, I know "The ONE" is out there..maybe I have already talked to her, or our paths have crossed...destiny & fate will....or maybe has....crossed our paths already......I know I am open to that possibility!!!!
Have an awesome day my friend!!
PLEASE pardon my delay in thanking you for this..I thought I had....<blushes> where DID MY manners go? smiles.

[smouldering]

Just stopping by to say hello *smiles* Clay do you have that oh so sexy Southern Accent too?

[clay]

Originally Posted by smouldering

Just stopping by to say hello *smiles* Clay do you have that oh so sexy Southern Accent too?

ahhh reckin' I do, ma'am! <smiles>

[smouldering]

Originally Posted by claybaby

ahhh reckin' I do, ma'am! <smiles>

That will definitely win ya some points there I hope you've had a good day!

[clay]

Originally Posted by smouldering

That will definitely win ya some points there I hope you've had a good day!

aww thanks my friend!!
I am told it is deep and nice...a sloowwww drrrraaawwwlllll....lol...

[smouldering]

Originally Posted by claybaby

aww thanks my friend!!
I am told it is deep and nice...a sloowwww drrrraaawwwlllll....lol...

Oooh I think now you're just trying to tease us! *giggles* sounds nice!

[jac]

Clay buddy... you're day is going to shine and that special soul is going to meet up with yours and BLAM... love eternal. You're an amazing person and I totally enjoy trailing your posts... yeh stalkerish style. Hey, what can I say... I love to read the good stuff...lol. Your genuine dude, and I look forward to the day you post that you found her, got her and have her for life..

[clay]

Originally Posted by stone4play

Clay buddy... you're day is going to shine and that special soul is going to meet up with yours and BLAM... love eternal. You're an amazing person and I totally enjoy trailing your posts... yeh stalkerish style. Hey, what can I say... I love to read the good stuff...lol. Your genuine dude, and I look forward to the day you post that you found her, got her and have her for life..

hey Stoney:
Thanks buddy! Appreciate your post!! And kind words...likewise for you buddy....<grin >...is that jet engines I hear in the background...hmmm...<weg>....
BTW..."stalk away"....I am flattered!
I look forward to that also!!! Have a great weekend,Stoney!!!

[clay]

and I am sittting on my patio...a bright, sunny afternoon/evening...and 75 degrees.
Wearing a huge smile...imagining MY Femme has entered my life...and I am planning a "date" for us tonight.....
I have made plans for us....picked up a bouquet of fresh spring mix flowers....gaily colorful..to present her when I pick her up...a blanket in the back, along with a picnic basket...filled with various cheeses, strawberries...big, plump juicy ones....dark chocolate to dip them in..as dark chocolate goes well on EVERYTHING.....baked bie, smoked oysters, smoked herring, cocktail crackers, and a nice Merlot........a book of sensual poems....stories...massage oil....and extra jackets...for that slight chill that will surely come as the sun sets...and I have her head in my lap...feeding her...letting her suck the goodness off my fingertips...so tantalizingly slow....and I will feed her...gather her close, and whisper sweet nothings into her ear...offer her sips of wine along...to be finished off with fat strawberries...the kind that just "drips off your lips" juicy...dipped in the dark chocolate....as I bend to taste the remnants of the chocolate and juice off her lips...slowly...teasingly...playfully...as our eyes burn into one another...I use the massage oils...to massage her hands...slowly...looking deeply into her eyes...and ever so slowly...up and down..one long finger...at...a...time...smiles..
we are hidden from public in between the dunes and the beach is fairly empty...the fine salt mist....the roaring in the background of the waves...crashing on the shore...she lies back against my chest, between my legs...her hair just under my chin..as I silently inhale the scent of her hair...my chin on her head...and I read...in a deep, low, sensual tone...the poetry...her arms lying one on each of ny thighs...the softness of her....against me...the hardness of my thighs..as she plays along them...absently.....a sliver of moon peeks over the horizon...we are lost in time...here...she & I...and I am reminded of how wonderful it is to have someone...to court her...to date her.....to spend quality time with...and the intimacy of her skin through my jeans...and my shirt...just the scent of her hair...how wonderful to be able to inhale that..and suspend her essence there...in time...knowing that I am adored..and that love is starting to grow here.....and that she is real...and she is so powerful...she holds the very essence of me...inside of her....and that we will...in time...consummate this love that is blossoming...growing...seeding inside our hearts...
Yes, this is a part of the things I will do for her..when she enters my life...for I don't want a relationship that starts with "instant chemistry" or instant love..I want that seed to start deep inside us...to be tended with care..to sprout slowly....as that is from whence "being in love" comes for me...
I await you, my darling...I know you are out here...maybe already in my life in some way...and we are just waiting..to go on this date..so the seed can be watered...tended..and start......
I am going to "keep on keeping it real"...for this is who I am...I already like you...are you ready to go to the beach?