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Old 10-24-2018, 03:39 PM   #281
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"don't get out over your skis"



I've NEVER heard of this saying or idiom or whatever it is, but I love it......
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that if they aren’t kinky, it won’t work.
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Old 10-24-2018, 11:32 PM   #284
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That it's ok to be kinky, that I need to stop believing that what other people think about me defines me, and that I really am capable of handling things. Who better?
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Old 01-12-2019, 08:28 PM   #285
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I learned that breaking up is a natural part of the cycle of a relationship.
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My potential/future relationships are negotiable.

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Above remains current and valid... although new insight to my own self preservation is becoming quite insightful.

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way easier to be the a'hole in a relationship...no one tries to guilt you, forever and forever, into trying again.
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It's often better to just lay down and take it,
rather than fight about what it all means, and
who's going to come out on top.
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true but unfortunately sometimes you just have to lie there till they think you're dead, which means you can't moan and wince when they take a last few kicks.
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Things arent always what they seem.
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Hmmmmmm

We are all imperfect humans, and the best we can hope for is to find that one person who knows you, and loves you BECAUSE of your imperfections, NOT in spite of them.
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