Would you? - Page 2

DapperButch · 01-24-2016, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

hmm, don't think I can do it. Just don't do the share well thing. Sorry.

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Really? It is world peace people!

Like, are people seriously saying that they would not be ok with their partner having sex with someone ONE TIME for WORLD PEACE?

I would even have sex with a cis male for world peace. I may vomit along the way and have bad memories to work through later, but I would do it!

PLUS, the world would be so grateful, and women would see me as hot for "sacrificing for the world", I could make up for anything nasty I had to do!

DapperButch · 01-24-2016, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

Ok, here's a twist on the question

Same deal, but someone you love will die in a burning wreck of an explosion if your partner doesn't have sex with them for 15 minutes (till they, not your partner, reaches their orgasm).

Do you let that person you love die in an explosion? Or does your partner have sex for 15 minutes?

I think it would be an even BETTER question if they have sex until your PARTNER orgasms.

I admit, that would be harder to do. Seeing my partner enjoying the experience, especially with someone I hate (but there really isn't anyone I know that I hate), then it would definitely move into more difficult emotional territory for me. But, yes, my answer is still the same.

Smiling · 01-24-2016, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

I think it would be an even BETTER question if they have sex until your PARTNER orgasms.

I admit, that would be harder to do. Seeing my partner enjoying the experience, especially with someone I hate (but there really isn't anyone I know that I hate), then it would definitely move into more difficult emotional territory for me. But, yes, my answer is still the same.

It's a dirty job, but somebody's gotta do it. Since I don't have a partner, I'd personally take one for the team.

And if I did have a partner, would I "let" them sleep with someone else? I don't think it's my decision to make for anyone else. Partner or no - it isn't about "ownership." You do what you've gotta do and then I'll do likewise. Either we can get past it or we can't; but world peace!

It's about the big picture, after all.

Orema · 01-24-2016, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

Ok, here's a twist on the question

Same deal, but someone you love will die in a burning wreck of an explosion if your partner doesn't have sex with them for 15 minutes (till they, not your partner, reaches their orgasm).

Do you let that person you love die in an explosion? Or does your partner have sex for 15 minutes?

Yes, I'd allow it.

Whether or not world peace is on the table, if death is the only option if I don't allow them to have sex, then yes—have at it. But I'm timing it.

I just can't let my partner die over my jealousy and I"m so jealous even I have to laugh at myself sometimes.

Katniss · 01-24-2016, 12:36 PM

Absolutely it would be ok with me. It's world peace for goodness sakes! Think about boarding a plane with no TSA screenings, not being worried about an idiot with a bomb in their backpack, shoe, or up their butt. Think of all the money saved on war that could be better spent on healthcare, sustainable energy, education, art and music! Matter of fact, for world peace even I'd sleep with my nemisis. Heck, make it a threesome and afterwards my real love and I can go get sea salt scrub downs, high 5 one another and split a cheesecake because we are now sexsuperheros!

As to an orgasm, that wouldn't bug me either. A few electrodes on the brain in the right place can achieve that too so why should I feel threatened?

Katniss

Kobi · 01-24-2016, 02:07 PM

To achieve world peace, would you let your significant other/ spouse sleep with your worst enemy?

Had to think this one over.

The premise is my partner sleeping with my worst enemy would achieve world peace. Logic dictates, that if this is true, then my partner and my worst enemy are both responsible for world disharmony. In this case, I would not only sanction the union, I would help them pack and move in together.

On the other hand, as a woman, I know the power of the p***y. As such, after negotiating an ironclad, irrevocable pre-coital agreement, it would be ok with me.

On the third hand, considering who I consider my worst enemy to be, I'm thinking my partners response to my agreeing, even for the sake of world peace, will be something along the lines of

Is there an easier question?

imperfect_cupcake · 01-24-2016, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

hmm, don't think I can do it. Just don't do the share well thing. Sorry.

So, what you are saying is, you'd prefer to let someone you love die (mum, dad, sibbling or best friend).

Ok. What if it's your partner? What if she will die? Would you prefer to let her die or to let someone else have sex with her for 15 minutes?

JDeere · 01-24-2016, 09:36 PM

World peace will never happen so my answer is still NO even to the one that IC posted.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-24-2016, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

I think it would be an even BETTER question if they have sex until your PARTNER orgasms.

I admit, that would be harder to do. Seeing my partner enjoying the experience, especially with someone I hate (but there really isn't anyone I know that I hate), then it would definitely move into more difficult emotional territory for me. But, yes, my answer is still the same.

I'd like to point out that having an orgasm is a physical reaction and doesn't mean the other person is enjoying it. Many people can be forced to have an orgasm who don't want to or find what they are doing to be vile. Rape victims can be forced to have orgasms. They find it quite traumatic.

There was a twilight zone type program in the UK called the black mirror. In it the Priminister had to have sex with a pig until he orgasmed on public tv to prevent the death of a woman who was beloved by the nation. He did it. He vomited and sobbed after, but in the story he did it.

If my partner decided to sleep with someone vile to save people from dying I would do anything within my power to make them feel better after.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-24-2016, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

World peace will never happen so my answer is still NO even to the one that IC posted.

JD would you watch your parents/best friend/your partner herself be blown up
Or
You partner have sex for 15 minutes

JDeere · 01-24-2016, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

JD would you watch your parents/best friend/your partner herself be blown up
Or
You partner have sex for 15 minutes

Yes I would rather die or have them die before I let them sleep with someone.

Again world peace will NEVER happen.

Again my opinion and feelings even if it's not part of the norm but I am not going to change how I feel just because I get crap for my posts.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-24-2016, 10:05 PM

I didn't say world peace. I said you'd watch a family member die or your partner die.

You said you'd rather watch a family member die or watch them die or die yourself.

Disagreement is not shit, JD. It's just disagreement.

JDeere · 01-24-2016, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

I didn't say world peace. I said you'd watch a family member die or your partner die.

You said you'd rather watch a family member die or watch them die or die yourself.

Disagreement is not shit, JD. It's just disagreement.

Disagreement is fine but I refuse to be berated like Tru is getting. That type of crap isn't cool, that's why I posted what I posted.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-24-2016, 10:19 PM

Berated??

Show me the berating. Explicitly. Show me what is being done to berate tru.

DapperButch · 01-24-2016, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

I'd like to point out that having an orgasm is a physical reaction and doesn't mean the other person is enjoying it. Many people can be forced to have an orgasm who don't want to or find what they are doing to be vile. Rape victims can be forced to have orgasms. They find it quite traumatic.

There was a twilight zone type program in the UK called the black mirror. In it the Priminister had to have sex with a pig until he orgasmed on public tv to prevent the death of a woman who was beloved by the nation. He did it. He vomited and sobbed after, but in the story he did it.

If my partner decided to sleep with someone vile to save people from dying I would do anything within my power to make them feel better after.

Yes, didn't think of it this way, absolutely. When you mentioned rape victims, it made me think of child abuse victims and how that issue really messes with one's head. It is physiological.

JDeere · 01-24-2016, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

Berated??

Show me the berating. Explicitly. Show me what is being done to berate tru.

Its obvious, however I am not going to argue on an open thread. I will discuss it in a private message.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-24-2016, 10:30 PM

I don't see it.
I'm see people disagreeing, stating they don't understand and why.

berate: to yell and scold at someone in an angry way.

I don't see that going on. I see emphatics being used. I don't see anger or scolding.

But, perhaps I'm just not as sensitive as you and thus just don't perceive it that way.

I personally beg to differ there is any berating. *shrug*

If you think there is any inappropriate posting, report it.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-24-2016, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

Yes, didn't think of it this way, absolutely. When you mentioned rape victims, it made me think of child abuse victims and how that issue really messes with one's head. It is physiological.

For sure.

Like I said, if someone I was partnered with chose to save the world by sleeping with someone vile, I'd do my very best to make them feel better afterwards. Cause it would really suck to have done that. And loving them, I'd want to help them recover and heal from it.

It totally makes me think of that black mirror episode

Kobi · 01-25-2016, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

World peace will never happen so my answer is still NO even to the one that IC posted.

Thank you for saying this. It is grounded in reality and I, for one, appreciate that.

I am not sure what the original question was supposed to gauge i.e. jealously levels; altruism levels; perceived "ownership" of a partner, their bodies and their decisions; people, especially women being expected to sacrifice themselves or others for the good of humankind; or to what lengths are you willing to go if world peace was even a reality.

If world peace was so simple as to be attained by one sexual encounter, given the sexual freedoms and sexual slavery we have today, we should be oozing peacefulness. But, people being people complicate even the simplest of things. And, love and sex have caused more wars than they have solved. Hence the reason I would want an iron clad, irrevocable contract.

But, back to fantasy land, if world peace was even possible, and if we changed the variable necessary to achieve it, one has to wonder if people would be so quick to jump on the bandwagon.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-25-2016, 02:51 PM

I view these questions in line with "if you were a tree, what kind of tree would you be and why"

Obviously, I'm not a tree and I can never be turned into one. But its an imteresting question and I love playing the game "what if." Its a game I play often with partners:
"What if you could only communicate with a nose flute? How would you do that?"
People I generally get on with and have fun with come up with all kinds of different and creative answers.
People I tend not to click with tend to answer "thats stupid. Why would that even happen? Why are you even asking me this? It's nonsense."

It's a thought experiment. And people explain their choices.

01-24-2016, 12:36 PM	#25
Katniss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dame, doll, twist, dish Preferred Pronoun?: Ladylike ones Relationship Status: ***** Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: We drink sweet tea here Posts: 2,903 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,654 Thanked 10,391 Times in 2,094 Posts Rep Power**: 21474850	Absolutely it would be ok with me. It's world peace for goodness sakes! Think about boarding a plane with no TSA screenings, not being worried about an idiot with a bomb in their backpack, shoe, or up their butt. Think of all the money saved on war that could be better spent on healthcare, sustainable energy, education, art and music! Matter of fact, for world peace even I'd sleep with my nemisis. Heck, make it a threesome and afterwards my real love and I can go get sea salt scrub downs, high 5 one another and split a cheesecake because we are now sexsuperheros! As to an orgasm, that wouldn't bug me either. A few electrodes on the brain in the right place can achieve that too so why should I feel threatened? Katniss

01-24-2016, 02:07 PM	#26
Kobi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic. Posts: 9,234 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,840 Thanked 34,659 Times in 7,651 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	To achieve world peace, would you let your significant other/ spouse sleep with your worst enemy? Had to think this one over. The premise is my partner sleeping with my worst enemy would achieve world peace. Logic dictates, that if this is true, then my partner and my worst enemy are both responsible for world disharmony. In this case, I would not only sanction the union, I would help them pack and move in together. On the other hand, as a woman, I know the power of the p***y. As such, after negotiating an ironclad, irrevocable pre-coital agreement, it would be ok with me. On the third hand, considering who I consider my worst enemy to be, I'm thinking my partners response to my agreeing, even for the sake of world peace, will be something along the lines of Is there an easier question?

01-24-2016, 09:36 PM	#28
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	World peace will never happen so my answer is still NO even to the one that IC posted.

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imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I didn't say world peace. I said you'd watch a family member die or your partner die. You said you'd rather watch a family member die or watch them die or die yourself. Disagreement is not shit, JD. It's just disagreement.

01-24-2016, 10:19 PM	#34
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Berated?? Show me the berating. Explicitly. Show me what is being done to berate tru.

01-24-2016, 10:30 PM	#37
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I don't see it. I'm see people disagreeing, stating they don't understand and why. berate: to yell and scold at someone in an angry way. I don't see that going on. I see emphatics being used. I don't see anger or scolding. But, perhaps I'm just not as sensitive as you and thus just don't perceive it that way. I personally beg to differ there is any berating. shrug If you think there is any inappropriate posting, report it.

01-25-2016, 02:51 PM	#40
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I view these questions in line with "if you were a tree, what kind of tree would you be and why" Obviously, I'm not a tree and I can never be turned into one. But its an imteresting question and I love playing the game "what if." Its a game I play often with partners: "What if you could only communicate with a nose flute? How would you do that?" People I generally get on with and have fun with come up with all kinds of different and creative answers. People I tend not to click with tend to answer "thats stupid. Why would that even happen? Why are you even asking me this? It's nonsense." It's a thought experiment. And people explain their choices.