What is on your mind - Page 237

princessbelle · 11-19-2010, 05:45 AM

Back to work for me today. Still can't, for the life of me, figure out why i wasn't born rich. I truely believe there was a mistake somewhere in the cosmos.

On the brighter side...I do love my job and the weather this weekend is suppose to be great and I have SO much to be thankful for.

Happy Thanksgiving week all.

UofMfan · 11-19-2010, 07:58 AM

**Paradise**

JakeTulane · 11-19-2010, 09:34 AM

The peace and clarity that meditation can bring. Sharing thoughts and feelings that should be spoken and not held back, regardless of the outcome.

PinkieLee · 11-19-2010, 09:41 AM

What's on my mind right now...

How bad I am fighting the urge to put up my Christmas tree this weekend

I know, I know.... I should at least wait until the day after Thanksgiving!

WolfyOne · 11-19-2010, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett

Trying to figure out what I will be doing for Thanksgiving. My Dad and stepmother will be going out of town and I am never invited to my brother's house. My other 2 brothers live out of town and will be celebrating with their in-laws.

So far I have it narrowed down to the community potluck at our LGBT Community Center or a pilgrimage to Maggie Valley. I am leaning towards Maggie. The mountains are so soothing and if I am going to be alone that's the perfect place.

Although the mountains may be soothing, Thanksgiving is a holiday to be shared with family and/or friends. It's a time to give thanks for the many blessings we enjoy as a nation. Solitude is great if you want a weekend away to regenerate or meditate. I say you should go to the community center and be around like minded people. Enjoy conversation, make more friends.....mingle.

Gemme · 11-19-2010, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by PinkieLee

What's on my mind right now...

How bad I am fighting the urge to put up my Christmas tree this weekend

I know, I know.... I should at least wait until the day after Thanksgiving!

Do it! We won't have a tree at all, so that means you can put yours up sooner.

Wryly · 11-19-2010, 03:48 PM

I put up my little table-top tree on Tuesday.

Sachita · 11-19-2010, 04:53 PM

yawn
must be a sleep emoticon

sharonsuburbia · 11-19-2010, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

yawn
must be a sleep emoticon

i want to go dancing - i want hym to offer the cig i do not smoke anymore - i was to dance into a corner and let my hair down - i want to let hym undo top button and smile with my eyes - i want hym when i open my eyes at sunrise

Laerkin · 11-19-2010, 05:04 PM

...that I haven't been on BFP in forever and I'm excited to have a quiet night in so I can troll all my favorite threads and get caught up.

YAY for Friday night at home (FINALLY)!

Leigh · 11-19-2010, 09:44 PM

Too much is on My mind again, it wont shut off

Just_G · 11-19-2010, 10:11 PM

*installing a new water heater tomorrow.

*spending the day with not only my sister, but also my pops!

*re-arranging my living room and hanging my big screen on the wall.

*out with the old, in with the kind of new.

*business needs to pick up so I can get a paycheck and get the hell out of this house to do something fun...all this cleaning and re-arranging of all the rooms is getting really boring! (though I do love feeling productive!)

*my Jayhawks won tonight..gonna be a GREAT season!

*I sure miss my BFFF, my Nizzle, and my dummy! (and so many other BFP folks!)

*I am not a holidays kind of person, but I am going to do my best to get out some of my stored Christmas things to try to get in the holiday spirit. Gotta at least hang the pups' stockings, right?!

Damn, I have a lot on my mind!

little_ms_sunshyne · 11-19-2010, 10:24 PM

Funny how things happen so randomly...Nice to meet people that just make you smile...SIGH...tonight turned out to be a great night after all

Diva · 11-19-2010, 10:31 PM

~ Nizzle thinks her Shizzle should have the beer bottle Christmas tree this year!!!!!

Just_G · 11-19-2010, 11:07 PM

I am thinking my Nizzle has fallen off her rockerizzle...you KNOW that Frank the tank would knock that over and I would have a biggo mess!

Hell, I have to hang the stockings from the curtain rods on the windows so she can't reach them!

I have to babystep my way in to this Christmas decor thing...lol

Diva · 11-19-2010, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_G

I am thinking my Nizzle has fallen off her rockerizzle...you KNOW that Frank the tank would knock that over and I would have a biggo mess!

Hell, I have to hang the stockings from the curtain rods on the windows so she can't reach them!

I have to babystep my way in to this Christmas decor thing...lol

Shizzle.....two words: SUPER GLUE.

Ever helpful,
Nizzle

Jet · 11-19-2010, 11:27 PM

Does anyone have any conceivable idea of how painful it is to have a friend shut you down because you're transgendered? I have a friend who I have kept in contact with for a long time. She Id's as a lesbian and wants nothing to do with discussing or accepting my ID as male/TG. I told her she had no right to do that. None, because she's not in my skin and can't begin to know what this is about or what it's like. I don't judge anybody at all for how they ID or live their life. It's none of my business, yet I am constantly dealt shit. Why? I'm done-absolutely fucking done with her. You don't have to get it..but you do have to respect it with me.

Miss Scarlett · 11-20-2010, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Jet

Does anyone have any conceivable idea of how painful it is to have a friend shut you down because you're transgendered? I have a friend who I have kept in contact with for a long time. She Id's as a lesbian and wants nothing to do with discussing or accepting my ID as male/TG. I told her she had no right to do that. None, because she's not in my skin and can't begin to know what this is about or what it's like. I don't judge anybody at all for how they ID or live their life. It's none of my business, yet I am constantly dealt shit. Why? I'm done-absolutely fucking done with her. You don't have to get it..but you do have to respect it with me.

(((((Jet))))) There are far too many here on the site that have had similar experiences. I know this will not do much to ease your pain, anger, frustration and disappointment with your friend but this is about her not you. Perhaps she just needs time?

Soft*Silver · 11-20-2010, 12:17 PM

my leaves got raked today and my car is having her oil changed and a new turn signal light bulb replaced. One of my nephews is helping out....how wonderful it is to be around family!

Leigh · 11-20-2010, 01:45 PM

Too much, but mostly whats happening in life

11-19-2010, 05:45 AM	#4721
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,503 Times in 5,201 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Back to work for me today. Still can't, for the life of me, figure out why i wasn't born rich. I truely believe there was a mistake somewhere in the cosmos. On the brighter side...I do love my job and the weather this weekend is suppose to be great and I have SO much to be thankful for. Happy Thanksgiving week all. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

11-19-2010, 04:53 PM	#4728
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11-19-2010, 09:44 PM	#4731
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Too much is on My mind again, it wont shut off __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

11-19-2010, 10:11 PM	#4732
Just_G Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Switch, Comedian...G...whichever. Preferred Pronoun?: He....with an e! Relationship Status: I'll take kinky & twisted for $200, Alex!! Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the middle Posts: 2,281 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 874 Thanked 6,165 Times in 1,450 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	installing a new water heater tomorrow. spending the day with not only my sister, but also my pops! re-arranging my living room and hanging my big screen on the wall. out with the old, in with the kind of new. business needs to pick up so I can get a paycheck and get the hell out of this house to do something fun...all this cleaning and re-arranging of all the rooms is getting really boring! (though I do love feeling productive!) my Jayhawks won tonight..gonna be a GREAT season! I sure miss my BFFF, my Nizzle, and my dummy! (and so many other BFP folks!) I am not a holidays kind of person, but I am going to do my best to get out some of my stored Christmas things to try to get in the holiday spirit. Gotta at least hang the pups' stockings, right?! Damn, I have a lot on my mind! __________________ Happy are those who dream and are ready to pay the price to make them come true!

11-19-2010, 11:07 PM	#4735
Just_G Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Switch, Comedian...G...whichever. Preferred Pronoun?: He....with an e! Relationship Status: I'll take kinky & twisted for $200, Alex!! Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the middle Posts: 2,281 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 874 Thanked 6,165 Times in 1,450 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I am thinking my Nizzle has fallen off her rockerizzle...you KNOW that Frank the tank would knock that over and I would have a biggo mess! Hell, I have to hang the stockings from the curtain rods on the windows so she can't reach them! I have to babystep my way in to this Christmas decor thing...lol __________________ Happy are those who dream and are ready to pay the price to make them come true!

11-19-2010, 07:58 AM	#4722
UofMfan Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: A very happy Mr. Grumpy Cat Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Neither here or there Posts: 7,987 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 27,733 Thanked 18,942 Times in 4,709 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Paradise

11-19-2010, 09:34 AM	#4723
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11-19-2010, 09:41 AM	#4724
PinkieLee Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: I need ya boo, gotta see ya boo Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Big Money Texas Posts: 4,708 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,309 Thanked 13,087 Times in 3,051 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	What's on my mind right now... How bad I am fighting the urge to put up my Christmas tree this weekend I know, I know.... I should at least wait until the day after Thanksgiving!

11-19-2010, 03:48 PM	#4727
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094253	I put up my little table-top tree on Tuesday.

11-19-2010, 05:04 PM	#4730
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11-19-2010, 10:24 PM	#4733
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,242 Times in 2,540 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Funny how things happen so randomly...Nice to meet people that just make you smile...SIGH...tonight turned out to be a great night after all

11-19-2010, 10:31 PM	#4734
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,180 Times in 5,238 Posts Rep Power: 0	*~ Nizzle thinks her Shizzle should have the beer bottle Christmas tree this year!!!!!*

11-19-2010, 11:27 PM	#4737
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,646 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	Does anyone have any conceivable idea of how painful it is to have a friend shut you down because you're transgendered? I have a friend who I have kept in contact with for a long time. She Id's as a lesbian and wants nothing to do with discussing or accepting my ID as male/TG. I told her she had no right to do that. None, because she's not in my skin and can't begin to know what this is about or what it's like. I don't judge anybody at all for how they ID or live their life. It's none of my business, yet I am constantly dealt shit. Why? I'm done-absolutely fucking done with her. You don't have to get it..but you do have to respect it with me. Last edited by Jet; 11-19-2010 at 11:29 PM.

11-20-2010, 12:17 PM	#4739
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11-20-2010, 01:45 PM	#4740
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Too much, but mostly whats happening in life __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"