What TO DO in a relationship..... - Page 34

girl_dee · 01-21-2018, 03:03 PM

laugh, a LOT.................

kittygrrl · 01-21-2018, 06:06 PM

i was talking to a friend today ..he said he needed a playmate.....i've been thinking about this and i realized sex has become so much more then a game, a fun romp ..exercise...it's not enough anymore ..eventually or maybe from the very beginning it was always meant for something much more meaningful...it's never too late to learn.... you are sharing some of the most profound truths the universe can give you..it will illuminate your deepest desires for connection, and grace...there is more to life then mere notes..it's a symphony of music..you share lying next to him..unique and perfect only the two of you will ever understand.....

Lovely · 01-23-2018, 01:20 PM

Be authentic and true to yourself and what you bring and can give in a relationship.

clay · 01-23-2018, 01:52 PM

For me, I can only be involved with ONE woman at a time.

That is what I wish for in my relationships, to be one of a pair...she & I.

Is that so very much to ask for? I will NOT settle for anything more...or less...

homoe · 01-23-2018, 03:33 PM

If you're a butch write your gal little love notes or poems and tuck them somewhere she is sure to fine them............

sidebar: I suppose this is the modern equivalent of sending a text?? I'm old school give me a pen and paper over some electronics gizmo any day!

~ocean · 01-23-2018, 04:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe

If you're a butch write your gal little love notes or poems and tuck them somewhere she is sure to fine them............

sidebar: I suppose this is the modern equivalent of sending a text?? I'm old school give me a pen and paper over some electronics gizmo any day!

I like the sidebar better

the text can get deleted or sent to cyber space ~ but a sweet note or a sexy note you can treasure

Lyte · 01-23-2018, 04:52 PM

Amen to "old school" ... hand written is best.

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe

If you're a butch write your gal little love notes or poems and tuck them somewhere she is sure to fine them............

sidebar: I suppose this is the modern equivalent of sending a text?? I'm old school give me a pen and paper over some electronics gizmo any day!

ardentfemme · 01-24-2018, 01:01 AM

Wow, y'all are really out here romancing women all over the place with handwritten notes! That's amazing.

I think the last handwritten note I got was from my mom - in my lunch box back in grade school! :P

cathexis · 01-24-2018, 03:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe

If you're a butch write your gal little love notes or poems and tuck them somewhere she is sure to fine them............

sidebar: I suppose this is the modern equivalent of sending a text?? I'm old school give me a pen and paper over some electronics gizmo any day!

Those little love notes sound cute.

girl_dee · 01-25-2018, 07:28 PM

never let the other think for a moment they are not deeply loved.

CherryWine · 01-25-2018, 08:58 PM

Frequently discover/learn about new things together.

girl_dee · 02-24-2018, 05:15 PM

be the others person’s rock. Be THAT person in their life

cathexis · 02-25-2018, 01:27 AM

make absolutely certain you've go the other partner(s)' back, and trust them to have yours.

kittygrrl · 02-25-2018, 11:45 AM

live in the moment

girl_dee · 03-03-2018, 08:48 PM

have each other's back - Thanks Cathexis-
have integrity, your partner will like that about you
be kind, to each other and others

kittygrrl · 03-03-2018, 09:21 PM

Talk about money, before and during a relationship. Have a plan, set goals. Discuss monthly budget and be accountable. Make it fun.

BullDog · 03-03-2018, 09:25 PM

Have respect for one another, no matter what the status of your relationship is (future, current, past, unknown) or how well you are currently getting along.

kittygrrl · 03-04-2018, 12:23 PM

fight fairly...it's not easy sometimes but very necessary..most important ..keep calm, no name calling, don't accuse instead, take turns expressing how you see it, strive for accommodation..you can't win unless you both win

MsTinkerbelly · 03-04-2018, 04:23 PM

Spend some time actually getting to know someone before you pack it all up and move across the country for them....so much heartache could be avoided.

Listen. I don’t mean wait for your turn to talk, actually listen to what your partner (or friend, family) is saying before you formulate your response.

Put your device down and spend time doing things together.

girl_dee · 03-12-2018, 01:46 PM

Sexy texting is pretty hot!

01-21-2018, 06:06 PM	#662
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: je ne sais quoi Preferred Pronoun?: baby grrl Relationship Status: a few laughs Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the real Posts: 8,802 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,381 Thanked 21,370 Times in 6,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	i was talking to a friend today ..he said he needed a playmate.....i've been thinking about this and i realized sex has become so much more then a game, a fun romp ..exercise...it's not enough anymore ..eventually or maybe from the very beginning it was always meant for something much more meaningful...it's never too late to learn.... you are sharing some of the most profound truths the universe can give you..it will illuminate your deepest desires for connection, and grace...there is more to life then mere notes..it's a symphony of music..you share lying next to him..unique and perfect only the two of you will ever understand..... __________________ "All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca

01-23-2018, 01:20 PM	#663
Lovely Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Jan 2018 Location: Canada Posts: 27 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 75 Thanked 73 Times in 21 Posts Rep Power: 429505	What to do Be authentic and true to yourself and what you bring and can give in a relationship.

01-23-2018, 01:52 PM	#664
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,095 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 96,026 Thanked 31,683 Times in 7,714 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	For me, I can only be involved with ONE woman at a time. That is what I wish for in my relationships, to be one of a pair...she & I. Is that so very much to ask for? I will NOT settle for anything more...or less... __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

02-25-2018, 11:45 AM	#674
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: je ne sais quoi Preferred Pronoun?: baby grrl Relationship Status: a few laughs Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the real Posts: 8,802 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,381 Thanked 21,370 Times in 6,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	live in the moment __________________ "All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca

03-03-2018, 09:21 PM	#676
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: je ne sais quoi Preferred Pronoun?: baby grrl Relationship Status: a few laughs Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the real Posts: 8,802 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,381 Thanked 21,370 Times in 6,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Talk about money, before and during a relationship. Have a plan, set goals. Discuss monthly budget and be accountable. Make it fun. __________________ "All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca

01-21-2018, 03:03 PM	#661
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01-23-2018, 03:33 PM	#665
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01-24-2018, 01:01 AM	#668
ardentfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: ~daydreaming~ Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: West Coast is the Best Coast Posts: 81 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 65 Thanked 304 Times in 74 Posts Rep Power: 6329324	Wow, y'all are really out here romancing women all over the place with handwritten notes! That's amazing. I think the last handwritten note I got was from my mom - in my lunch box back in grade school! :P

01-25-2018, 07:28 PM	#670
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	never let the other think for a moment they are not deeply loved.

01-25-2018, 08:58 PM	#671
CherryWine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian femme Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: The Deep South Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,060 Thanked 10,084 Times in 2,186 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	Frequently discover/learn about new things together.

02-24-2018, 05:15 PM	#672
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	be the others person’s rock. Be THAT person in their life

02-25-2018, 01:27 AM	#673
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,710 Times in 1,603 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	make absolutely certain you've go the other partner(s)' back, and trust them to have yours.

03-03-2018, 08:48 PM	#675
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	have each other's back - Thanks Cathexis- have integrity, your partner will like that about you be kind, to each other and others

03-03-2018, 09:25 PM	#677
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,781 Times in 4,469 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Have respect for one another, no matter what the status of your relationship is (future, current, past, unknown) or how well you are currently getting along. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

03-04-2018, 12:23 PM	#678
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: je ne sais quoi Preferred Pronoun?: baby grrl Relationship Status: a few laughs Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the real Posts: 8,802 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,381 Thanked 21,370 Times in 6,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	fight fairly...it's not easy sometimes but very necessary..most important ..keep calm, no name calling, don't accuse instead, take turns expressing how you see it, strive for accommodation..you can't win unless you both win __________________ "All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca

03-04-2018, 04:23 PM	#679
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,958 Times in 5,020 Posts Rep Power: 0	Spend some time actually getting to know someone before you pack it all up and move across the country for them....so much heartache could be avoided. Listen. I don’t mean wait for your turn to talk, actually listen to what your partner (or friend, family) is saying before you formulate your response. Put your device down and spend time doing things together.

03-12-2018, 01:46 PM	#680
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Sexy texting is pretty hot!

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