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Old 04-13-2011, 08:31 PM   #21
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Default other than the basics of love respect honesty...

never make tv the only thing that stays on in the bedroom

keep alcohol and drugs to a minimum in regard to intimacy. Its an issue if its the only way you can face being who you are and being with who you are with (meaning, the same sex)

keep your own house clean. I mean that literally. I dont want to hear one more time about how bad a butch is about keeping up a house. Bullshit. I am not interested in becoming someone's house slave and then having a white glove judgement determine my femininity. You want me to keep your sink clean? Show me how well you keep it clean yourself. Tit for tat.

if you plan on loving me, dont tell me later you didnt understand what I meant when i said I love horses and big dogs. At this point in my life, that is grounds for skinning you alive and wearing you for chaps (oh wait..is this one for the other thread?)

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Create together...
Date nights...
Dance in the living room...
Prepare meals together...
Remember it is okay to disagree but it doesn't need to turn into a full on war...
If you find talking about something hard right a letter...
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Appreciate the person you are with...
Respect one another...
Remember that every day isn't always a good day and that is okay...
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Sing your favorite songs together
Take long drives
Be considerate of each others thoughts and feelings
Share your thoughts and feelings
Be honest
Don't use their past against them
Schedule at-home date nights, cook dinner together and then cuddle and watch a movie
Buy flowers
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Make promises you keep.
Make yourself easy to love.
Make the one you love feel safe and secure.
No matter what, make the one you love know she is a priority.
Talk about everything, and be brutally honest, even if it's difficult.
Treat her like a queen, and love her in all ways , always.
Build a bond together that noone or no thing can come between .
Apologize for your mistakes, make amends and do better next time. Then make amends again.
Take responsibility for your actions .
Validate her feelings by listening, stop what your doing, even when you're busy and pressed for time.
Always make time for her needs , even if your tired ,injured or bored.
Just a few things I always try to do when I love someone. It doesn't guaranty she won't still choose to walk away, but I don't think it hurts anything.

Exactly what JAGG said!

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Take time to understand what she's trying to say even if the words are not perfect sometimes to emotions and feeling make it hard to get em all right all the time... (well for me) assume the best, if you can't then just ask.

Commitment is putting her first above anyone else except for a child. If it is best for you then it should be best for both of you.
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Sometimes you just say it loud for all to hear
so I will hijack this for a moment cause I know desd will thread stalk me


SHANNON I LOVE YOU NOW AND ALWAYS
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SHANNON I LOVE YOU NOW AND ALWAYS

I love you too baby, always and forever xoxox

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Work for it.

Not that a relationship should be something that you toll at, nor is it something that you clock in and out for, but it's not something you can opt to show up for either.

You're in it 24/7 or not at all. Be present.

Take into consideration the consequences of your actions (or lack thereof) on your partner and adjust your behavior accordingly.

Breaking it down biblically, do unto others. Treat him or her as you would like to be treated.

Show respect. Earn respect. It's a mutually beneficial cycle.

LISTEN and HEAR what is being said, whether it's about an opinion on where to hang a picture or whether it's about future goals for the relationship.

Clean up after yourself. Chances are, you don't live with your mom still. Don't make your partner your parent.

Give yourself and your partner some leeway. Neither of you are perfect. Allow for idiocyncrasies and mistakes and adjust your behavior accordingly.

Never say no to requests for sweets and/or junk food.
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Forever is such a very long time. I like 5 year plans. I am currently on year two of the third 5 year plan.

I have commitment issues.
Oh yeah tell me about commitment issues I can't even spell it with out breaking out in hives
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Great thread, Sassy!


~Give Your partner respect.
~Give Your partner space.
~Give Your partner the best of Yourself.
~Give Your partner time.
~Give Your partner the benefit of the doubt.
~Give Your partner the last piece of pie.
~Give Your parnter consideration.
~Give Your partner safety.
~Give Your partner Your friendship.
~Give Your partner spontaneity.
~Give Your partner emotional support without being suffocating.
~Give Your partner advice in a loving way.
~Give Your parnter unconditional love.
~Give Your partner Your ferocity.
~Give Your partner Your open mind.
~Give Your partner Your heart of hearts.
~Give Your parnter forgiveness....whether they ask for it or not.
~Give Your partner laughter.
~Give Your partner peace.
~Give Your partner Your energy.
~Give Your partner Your word.
~Give Your partner honesty and Your truth.
~Give Your partner heart protection.
~Give Your partner Yourself.



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oh yes you can so...you committed to your horse..so quit bellering..if you can commit to a horse, you can commit to a girl.

you are too cute, cowboi


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oh yes you can so...you committed to your horse..so quit bellering..if you can commit to a horse, you can commit to a girl.

you are too cute, cowboi
Nanner nanner she told you!
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Laugh together.
Be willing to compromise.
Be willing to negotiate changes in your relationship if needed, if you want to stay together.

Never let your partner forget you love them.
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Try to see things from your partner's point of view. Try to respond to and anticipate her needs. Love her as she is and not how you would like her to be. Love her for WHO she is and not how she makes you feel. Celebrate all the amazing and beautiful things about her. Give her the space she needs. Give her the time she needs. Love her enough to let her go if that is what is best for her.
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oh yes you can so...you committed to your horse..so quit bellering..if you can commit to a horse, you can commit to a girl.

you are too cute, cowboi
Well shucks Ma'am I try and poor Desd she is stuck with BOTH of us
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Lord help you if you leave me at the altar due to a hive break out
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Pffft bring it on!
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Pffft bring it on!
Even when I crack my neck hmmm PSSST
I think we are hijacking this thread
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I think we are hijacking this thread
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Make promises you keep.
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Make the one you love feel safe and secure.
No matter what, make the one you love know she is a priority.
Talk about everything, and be brutally honest, even if it's difficult.
Treat her like a queen, and love her in all ways , always.
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Apologize for your mistakes, make amends and do better next time. Then make amends again.
Take responsibility for your actions .
Validate her feelings by listening, stop what your doing, even when you're busy and pressed for time.
Always make time for her needs , even if your tired ,injured or bored.
Just a few things I always try to do when I love someone. It doesn't guaranty she won't still choose to walk away, but I don't think it hurts anything.


The only things I would add would be support the dreams and goals the one you love has. Honor the accomplishments and mourn the losses with them.
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