What Do You Miss?

LaneyDoll · 06-08-2011, 02:46 PM

I was chatting with a friend today and asked her "what do you miss most about being with someone?"

I think that, for me anyway, I miss having someone to go home to, to go to bed with (and wake up beside)-to just share a life with.

I had an ex once who would rub lotion on my feet, knees and elbows while we watched a movie together. I miss that little gesture-I am bad to forget to "lotion." lol

It is the little things that I find myself missing.

So, I wanted to ask the same question here...

What things do you miss about being in a relationship?

Pixie · 06-08-2011, 05:55 PM

For me I miss...

Coming home to find notes written on the mirror
Showering with someone....my back is never cleaner!!!
Being able to be with them and not even leave the house

I miss that heat during the night that makes you kick off the covers just so you don't have to unsnuggle

pajama · 06-08-2011, 06:13 PM

Because I'm really shallow....I miss the great sex whenever. This may be enhanced at the moment since I have not had sex, good or bad, in quite a while.....for me.

And then with this one partner, I miss our love of foods. Often our vacations were built around restaurants. I haven't had a partner that shares my love of food for many years. I am lucky though that The Boy has it, so at least I can share. It's just not the same as with a partner obviously.

That's about it.....yep....I'm pretty shallow.

A

Kobi · 06-08-2011, 06:45 PM

I miss:

~ having someone to share the events of the day with
~ having someone to bounce decisions off of
~ having someone to call when I will be late
~ having someone who remembers all the things I forget

tapu · 06-08-2011, 06:54 PM

Cooked food.

Miss Scarlett · 06-08-2011, 07:09 PM

Being held in strong arms with my head on his chest or shoulder and falling asleep that way...

tapu · 06-08-2011, 07:10 PM

Matched socks.

hpychick · 06-08-2011, 07:12 PM

I miss being woken up in the middle of the night by my partner, making love and falling back asleep, fully sated.

dixie · 06-08-2011, 07:44 PM

I miss... cute little cards and random romantic gestures....and great sex. Can't forget great sex.

tapu · 06-08-2011, 07:48 PM

Morning coffee. Just the way I like it.

gotoseagrl · 06-08-2011, 08:44 PM

my vd D ... badly.

DoReMiFemme · 06-08-2011, 08:45 PM

Aimless philosophical conversations that last until the small hours of the morning.

Morning breath.

Someone to make the bed for.

Hack · 06-08-2011, 08:55 PM

Watching her sleep.

The way she cocks her head and grins when she senses me sneaking up behind her in the kitchen, opening up her neck for a kiss.

Lying in bed on a Sunday with no plans.

tapu · 06-09-2011, 06:35 AM

Opening everything.

(?Now what all could that mean?)

Tommi · 06-09-2011, 07:49 AM

My old Sony, evern though the MacBook is faster.
Cool whip, cocoa? and banana'a

Witty zippy "isms."

Aural ping pong

photoshop creating

I miss my Mom too.

tapu · 06-09-2011, 01:46 PM

Having two dogs.

tapu · 06-09-2011, 01:49 PM

Having two cars.

tapu · 06-09-2011, 01:50 PM

Having two mama's around.

tapu · 06-09-2011, 01:50 PM

Ah. And having two incomes.

avec_amore · 06-09-2011, 02:20 PM

Someone to cook for
Inside jokes
Spooning with someone (instead of the couch cushions : /)
Having a date to concerts (i'm going to Peter Gabriel alone next week...)
The smell of "hym" and "hys" things with my things in the closet and bath
*sigh*

06-08-2011, 02:46 PM	#1
LaneyDoll Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Girly girl femme Preferred Pronoun?: She; Ma'am; Miss ;) Relationship Status: Pitbull protected. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 2,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,892 Thanked 7,689 Times in 1,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	What Do You Miss? I was chatting with a friend today and asked her "what do you miss most about being with someone?" I think that, for me anyway, I miss having someone to go home to, to go to bed with (and wake up beside)-to just share a life with. I had an ex once who would rub lotion on my feet, knees and elbows while we watched a movie together. I miss that little gesture-I am bad to forget to "lotion." lol It is the little things that I find myself missing. So, I wanted to ask the same question here... What things do you miss about being in a relationship? __________________ There are beauties who stop traffic and then there are beauties who grow obsessively in the hearts of the susceptible.

06-08-2011, 05:55 PM	#2
Pixie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Equal Opportunity Friend Preferred Pronoun?: Girl Relationship Status: in service Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Sacramento! Posts: 2,868 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,691 Thanked 4,104 Times in 1,332 Posts Rep Power: 15274783	For me I miss... Coming home to find notes written on the mirror Showering with someone....my back is never cleaner!!! Being able to be with them and not even leave the house I miss that heat during the night that makes you kick off the covers just so you don't have to unsnuggle __________________ Unexplored glimmering in the rough How does a diamond hide? -Pixie-

06-08-2011, 06:45 PM	#4
Kobi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic. Posts: 9,234 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,840 Thanked 34,659 Times in 7,651 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I miss: ~ having someone to share the events of the day with ~ having someone to bounce decisions off of ~ having someone to call when I will be late ~ having someone who remembers all the things I forget __________________

06-08-2011, 07:12 PM	#8
hpychick Member How Do You Identify?: Feminine with a hammer Preferred Pronoun?: Girly Stuff Relationship Status: Jesse's Girl. She asked! I said yes! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minneapolis! Or as I like to call it - Many Happiness! Posts: 1,364 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,387 Thanked 1,417 Times in 499 Posts Rep Power: 15817344	I miss being woken up in the middle of the night by my partner, making love and falling back asleep, fully sated. __________________ *~~greeting the world one cup of coffee at a time~~* http://www.waterfyi.com/wp-content/u...nn-300x168.jpg

06-08-2011, 08:44 PM	#11
gotoseagrl Senior Member How Do You Identify?: old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?: mermaid, very lucky babygirl Relationship Status: Saltwater mermaid ♡ Join Date: May 2010 Location: CA Posts: 2,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,192 Thanked 6,116 Times in 1,726 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	my vd D ... badly. __________________ Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence

06-08-2011, 06:13 PM	#3
pajama Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Klingon Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Just South of Nashvegas Baby Posts: 3,115 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,546 Thanked 7,480 Times in 1,809 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Because I'm really shallow....I miss the great sex whenever. This may be enhanced at the moment since I have not had sex, good or bad, in quite a while.....for me. And then with this one partner, I miss our love of foods. Often our vacations were built around restaurants. I haven't had a partner that shares my love of food for many years. I am lucky though that The Boy has it, so at least I can share. It's just not the same as with a partner obviously. That's about it.....yep....I'm pretty shallow. A

06-08-2011, 06:54 PM	#5
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,112 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Cooked food.

06-08-2011, 07:09 PM	#6
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,949 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Being held in strong arms with my head on his chest or shoulder and falling asleep that way...

06-08-2011, 07:10 PM	#7
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,112 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Matched socks.

06-08-2011, 07:44 PM	#9
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,385 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I miss... cute little cards and random romantic gestures....and great sex. Can't forget great sex.

06-08-2011, 07:48 PM	#10
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,112 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Morning coffee. Just the way I like it.

06-08-2011, 08:45 PM	#12
DoReMiFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Femme. Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Hey Lady! Join Date: May 2011 Location: The Desert, CA Posts: 206 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 486 Thanked 533 Times in 159 Posts Rep Power: 14218582	Aimless philosophical conversations that last until the small hours of the morning. Morning breath. Someone to make the bed for.

06-08-2011, 08:55 PM	#13
Hack Just a guy. How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: male Relationship Status: Sparkle's consort Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: MA Posts: 1,458 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 807 Thanked 3,784 Times in 960 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Watching her sleep. The way she cocks her head and grins when she senses me sneaking up behind her in the kitchen, opening up her neck for a kiss. Lying in bed on a Sunday with no plans.

06-09-2011, 06:35 AM	#14
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,112 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Opening everything. (?Now what all could that mean?)

06-09-2011, 07:49 AM	#15
Tommi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Usually "Hello" Relationship Status: Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach. Posts: 8,151 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,621 Thanked 21,337 Times in 5,968 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	My old Sony, evern though the MacBook is faster. Cool whip, cocoa? and banana'a Witty zippy "isms." Aural ping pong photoshop creating I miss my Mom too.

06-09-2011, 01:46 PM	#16
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,112 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Having two dogs. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-09-2011, 01:49 PM	#17
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,112 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Having two cars. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-09-2011, 01:50 PM	#18
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,112 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Having two mama's around. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-09-2011, 01:50 PM	#19
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,112 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Ah. And having two incomes. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-09-2011, 02:20 PM	#20
avec_amore Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: female ones Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Denver (for now...) Posts: 38 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 61 Thanked 52 Times in 13 Posts Rep Power: 194055	I miss... Someone to cook for Inside jokes Spooning with someone (instead of the couch cushions : /) Having a date to concerts (i'm going to Peter Gabriel alone next week...) The smell of "hym" and "hys" things with my things in the closet and bath sigh

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