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09-19-2015, 02:55 PM
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Senior Member
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I have learned . . .
that no matter how much I may love cake, cake does not love me.
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Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity
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09-19-2015, 03:30 PM
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by my name Preferred Pronoun?:
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single 
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If u get that feeling something just isn't quite right it ISN'T. Question what is being told to you if you feel something is off.
Ask questions of potential dates to get to know them.
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I am ME take me as I am or leave me be.. |
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09-19-2015, 04:35 PM
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Senior Member
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old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?:
mermaid, *very* lucky babygirl Relationship Status:
Saltwater mermaid ♡ 
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~ To wait
~ Not to settle ~ Some things take forever, while others come sooner than expected
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Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence 
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09-19-2015, 05:35 PM
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I seem to be drawn to things or want things that are not good for me.
Now just how fucked up is that? I say a whole lot fucked up! LOL! (may as well laugh about it) 
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09-19-2015, 07:02 PM
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Infamous Member
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cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?:
wild woman Relationship Status:
No, thank you. 
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Location: in my heart I'm going to Carolina...but I'm in MA for now
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I have learned to not expect anything from anyone....its far less disappointing
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09-19-2015, 07:16 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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To leave well enough alone but I don't always do that.
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Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein |
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12-13-2015, 08:25 AM
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baby grrl Relationship Status:
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learned..
if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, its a duck
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"All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca |
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12-13-2015, 08:37 AM
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Infamous Member
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also...
wickedness will never lead to happiness........................................h ave I said this before? perhaps, but it bears repeating,
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"All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca |
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12-13-2015, 09:10 AM
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learned..
character-constancy over time
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"All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca |
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12-13-2015, 09:55 AM
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Learned
I have learned that I should not have expectations of other people and I do mean all other people. I have lost too many relationships with friends, lovers, and family to my expectations.
Now I say what I need and if they can't handle it then they can move on. |
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12-13-2015, 10:04 AM
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Learning I do not HAVE to work myself outside on the weekends so hard until I drop ... I actually took an hour nap last weekend plus did not work until 8 or 9 p.m. either day.
I am hopeful ... I did fairly well yesterday. We'll see how it goes today. I have come to realize I am too driven when it comes to getting things accomplished and I set the bar impossibly high. Learning how to allow myself to relax some on the weekends, take a little break and sit down. Getting there! (I think)
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12-13-2015, 10:06 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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What you say, is not always what is heard. Communication needs to work, before assumptions are made.
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 kissesA kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back. |
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12-13-2015, 10:31 AM
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GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?:
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that going slowly in building friendship can lead to
delicious surprises built on solid ground. Greco
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"If you are losing faith in human nature go out and watch a marathon." Kathrine Switzer "Me gusta andar, pero no sigo el camino pues lo seguro no tiene misterio." Facundo Cabral
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12-13-2015, 12:17 PM
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I have learned that my gut is ALWAYS right. I still haven't learned to listen to it all of the time, but I am getting wayyy better at that.
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Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~Lao Tzu |
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12-13-2015, 12:25 PM
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Letting go and getting lost in mindless, nonsensical chatter & laughter to tears at the end of each day makes it possible to get through anything.
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Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence
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12-13-2015, 02:43 PM
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You never get what you deserve. You get what you can negotiate. Learn to stack the deck in your favor for the things you want in life.
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12-13-2015, 04:47 PM
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cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?:
wild woman Relationship Status:
No, thank you.
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Location: in my heart I'm going to Carolina...but I'm in MA for now
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A lot....and yet...never enough...
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12-13-2015, 05:02 PM
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Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~Lao Tzu |
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12-13-2015, 05:22 PM
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#279 |
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Infamous Member
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learned..
some things are worth fighting for, some are not, having the wisdom to know the difference..
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"All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca |
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12-24-2015, 12:11 AM
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Member
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RUN!
You(I)can't run off to Texas or New York or Canada...you're(I'm)married!
 Leave me alone,plz |
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