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03-01-2012, 04:24 PM
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"You should grow your hair out longer" lol
I've gotten two compliments on my haircut from random strangers this week. I'm used to a few compliments here and there.... and then there's my coworker this week who's a sweet, korean lady about 25 years older than me. I laughed cause she said, "You should grow your hair out longer, I like longer hair. Grow it out please!".
She's too sweet and too naive for me to get into a discussion about what being butch is all about. She's the kind of woman that hears a curse word from someone and audibly gasps in horror. Still... she's quirky and fun and I'm cool with it lol. Just sharing randomness lol. 
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03-01-2012, 04:31 PM
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03-01-2012, 04:35 PM
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You know Cuddles, seriously. I have dated a couple butches with long hair. Short hair does not make the butch. Long hair does not make the femme or visa versa. Diversity is the key. Wear it like you wanna...be yourself. Above all else...be happy. p.s. Randomness is fun
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03-01-2012, 04:54 PM
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I wear wigs for a short hair 'look'... I posted a picture of me with a very short wig on FB and I had 3 emails then a phone call... all to find out if I had really cut my hair. 'NO' LOL... when Betty Boop, Mrs. Brady, June Cleaver (Leave it to Beaver) and the Mom, from Father Knows Best. (the list could go on forever) All become butch icons, then maybe... MAYBE, ... short hair will make someone butch.
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03-01-2012, 04:55 PM
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at least she's not saying you should be married lol (the heterosexual way). or asking why not, and why no kids lol.
we must not forget the butch helped make the mullet a hot trend LOL. i do know quite a few butches with longer hair. mine is about on my shoulders. but no mullet lol. good for you on the cool haircut, cuddles. looking good! |
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03-01-2012, 04:56 PM
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Poor Cuddles, in all fairness, short hair is more a butch trend. Now, I'm gonna get my hand slapped for NOT being diverse, and I do know there are butch folks with LONG hair, but....still. I get your post.
And I love you sister Pricessbelle! muah.
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03-01-2012, 04:58 PM
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And can i just say, because i probably, most likely, i'm almost positive at this...stand alone with this statement BUT I loved the mullets. I thought they were sexy, still do. 
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03-01-2012, 05:04 PM
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ooo no princessbelle! say it ain't so! lol
i'm sure there are lots of butches that can make a mullet look sexy, indeed. the percentage is for sure high, ... more butches with short hair. surely to goodness. |
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03-01-2012, 05:06 PM
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hahaha this thread is funny!!! I love all the replies...and yes one should wear their hair the way they are most comfortable with. I wear mine short on sides and tops..and longer in back. In fact, mine is "longer" than my GF's...and we neither one are "defined" Butch OR Femme by hair length..being BUTCH or Femme is much deeper than damn hair length....jus' sayin'....carry on....rotflmao
PS THANK YOU Belle! I HATE that word "mullet" but like the "business in front and party in back" haircuts! grins
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03-01-2012, 05:12 PM
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I was sort of thinking the same thing... Cause this femme like the #3 guard on her clippers and don't forget the neck... While her butch wears her hair just about to the middle of her back... (when I'm not cutting on it..heheh) But the sun is shining, I'm not at work, and I understood that the butch in question was talking about what is butch for her/him....
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03-01-2012, 05:18 PM
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I have extremely short hair but it has nothing to do with my identity. I simply hate having more than the minimum amount of hair.
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03-01-2012, 05:42 PM
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I prefer short hair on a butch but if they can rock the longer hair then, yeah, go for it. Anything but the Mullet, please. I just cannot handle the Mulls.
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03-01-2012, 05:43 PM
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lather.rinse.repeat.
do we really *always* have to split hairs?
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03-01-2012, 05:49 PM
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workin on a combover.. back to front... grinz
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03-01-2012, 05:52 PM
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I should have said "what being butch is all about TO ME (as in my personal preference for ME)"... my apologies.
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03-01-2012, 05:53 PM
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Wow, this thread certainly caught my attention, especially the OP
.gif "Say What?") I have no words to describe what is playing in my mind right now  Will I lose my butch card for having long hair?
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03-01-2012, 05:55 PM
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03-01-2012, 06:20 PM
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thank you, cuddles. for sharing with us. always. i love a sense of humor.
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03-01-2012, 06:24 PM
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03-01-2012, 06:36 PM
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