The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 225

Mel C. · 08-12-2017, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by introverted1

Thanks, everybody. I don't have anything to distract me any longer. That's the issue, I'm guessing. But, it's necessary to not have distractions, sometimes.

Try coming into chat. We can distract you.

introverted1 · 08-13-2017, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C.

Try coming into chat. We can distract you.

Hey, maybe I'll try that tonight. Thanks, Mel.

easygoingfemme · 08-13-2017, 06:42 PM

I just popped in to chat and it was so very empty... there goes my distraction

LaDivina · 08-13-2017, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme

I just popped in to chat and it was so very empty... there goes my distraction

It isn't empty now......

Mel C. · 08-13-2017, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by introverted1

Hey, maybe I'll try that tonight. Thanks, Mel.

The best time to go is after 8PM Eastern.

candy_coated_bitch · 08-13-2017, 11:12 PM

*peeks in* I just turned 40 this year and have always wondered what goes on in here.

Gemme · 08-14-2017, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch

*peeks in* I just turned 40 this year and have always wondered what goes on in here.

Well, first there's the virgin 40 year old sacrifices....

Mel C. · 08-14-2017, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch

*peeks in* I just turned 40 this year and have always wondered what goes on in here.

We'll tell you but first you have to get rid of the photo bucket error message in your signature line.

TempestuousFemme · 08-14-2017, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by introverted1

Gosh, not a lot going on here.

I'm missing my mom so bad, now that the two month mark is out. Her apartment is emptied, her mail is coming to my condo, and I'm just marking time, waiting for her last bills to trickle in.

Now, I have lots of time to think. And feel. Nothing to do but wait. The tying up loose ends of eighty-eight years of existence is my duty to her.

This has been my favorite quote since I was twenty years old, but it's really hitting home today.

"There are places in the heart that do not yet exist...and, so into them enters suffering, in order that they may have existence."

Leon Bloy

I totally understand where you're coming from. It's been 5 months since I lost my partner. Every bill, piece of mail, made me cry. I am also trying to make a new life for myself. I wasn't sure what to do with myself after she died. I spent so many years taking care of her. Losing someone you love is never easy. Hang in there, and be patient with yourself. If you ever need a friend I'm on KIK, just drop me a message there.

candy_coated_bitch · 08-14-2017, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C.

We'll tell you but first you have to get rid of the photo bucket error message in your signature line.

LMAO! I'll get rid of it eventually. Maybe soon.

candy_coated_bitch · 08-14-2017, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Well, first there's the virgin 40 year old sacrifices....

If I were at all virginal I might be nervous.

Gemme · 08-15-2017, 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch

If I were at all virginal I might be nervous.

Oh, you qualify. This is your first time being 40, no?

CowboyJ · 08-25-2017, 10:25 AM

Just thought I would drop by and say hi to everyone, I have been gone for a very long time (parent stuff). So long I forgot my password

. I hope everyone is having a blessed and successful summer! Hope to be back more often to contribute

))).

Ladies, lovely as ever

Mel C. · 08-25-2017, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by CowboyJ

Just thought I would drop by and say hi to everyone, I have been gone for a very long time (parent stuff). So long I forgot my password

. I hope everyone is having a blessed and successful summer! Hope to be back more often to contribute

))).

Ladies, lovely as ever

Welcome back!

JDeere · 10-13-2017, 01:45 AM

Hey Lofters! What's going on?

I see I miss things. But everyone have a good Friday!

girl_dee · 10-13-2017, 05:11 AM

Happy Friday the 13th!!!

Gayandgray · 10-13-2017, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee

Happy Friday the 13th!!!

Oh wow I didn't even realize today is Friday the 13th!!!!!!!

Mel C. · 10-13-2017, 08:59 AM

I graduated from being in my 40's to my 50's. Good thing I haven't aged out of the loft.

girl_dee · 10-13-2017, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Mel C.

I graduated from being in my 40's to my 50's. Good thing I haven't aged out of the loft.

The Loft was a chat room for the over 40's crowd on Gay . Com.

i was there as an illegal minor

but they let me in anyway.

Next thing yaknow i will be aging out of the Loft!!

PS you totally do not look 50!

C0LLETTE · 10-13-2017, 02:07 PM

i am now 72. I do miss an environment which recognizes that 55 is not 70 and the slide after 70 is nothing like 60 - 70 .

You have no idea how tiresome it is to hear younger ppl ( even 60 year olds) going on abt age being just a number.

if you are one of those "plagued elders', come contact me directly and i will explain so many things to you....most of which never occurred to you till AARP sent you an email to join up.

Some of it:
There's the first moment when the kid at the grocery counter calls you Ma'am";

the moment when you realise you can't recognise a single song at a community gay dance;

the moment when you realise those 20-somethings on the dance floor might sleep with you, once ( Just to see what it's like or maybe cause they have a tiny social conscience screw loose. ).

Sooooo....Age gracefully my darlings; accept it and the wisdom it brings as it comes and only have sex with women older than you. You'll like it. They'll like it too.

And there are some amazing 80 y/o bodies out there, or so i'm told.

08-13-2017, 11:12 PM	#4486
candy_coated_bitch Pixie Stick How Do You Identify?: The arteest formerly known as musicfemme. Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Happily taken. Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Northampton, MA Posts: 11,293 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,723 Thanked 32,098 Times in 6,125 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	peeks in I just turned 40 this year and have always wondered what goes on in here. __________________ My Etsy Shop My Patreon My Website

08-25-2017, 10:25 AM	#4493
CowboyJ Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FtM Preferred Pronoun?: He or Him Relationship Status: Ask Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Kansas Posts: 38 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30 Thanked 69 Times in 21 Posts Rep Power: 2324952	Missed Everyone Just thought I would drop by and say hi to everyone, I have been gone for a very long time (parent stuff). So long I forgot my password . I hope everyone is having a blessed and successful summer! Hope to be back more often to contribute ))). Ladies, lovely as ever __________________ "Love is misunderstood to be an emotion; actually, it is a state of awareness, how we see ourselves and how we see our relationships with others." -David R. Hawkins

10-13-2017, 01:45 AM	#4495
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Hey Lofters! What's going on? I see I miss things. But everyone have a good Friday! __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

10-13-2017, 02:07 PM	#4500
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,261 Times in 4,345 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	i am now 72. I do miss an environment which recognizes that 55 is not 70 and the slide after 70 is nothing like 60 - 70 . You have no idea how tiresome it is to hear younger ppl ( even 60 year olds) going on abt age being just a number. if you are one of those "plagued elders', come contact me directly and i will explain so many things to you....most of which never occurred to you till AARP sent you an email to join up. Some of it: There's the first moment when the kid at the grocery counter calls you Ma'am"; the moment when you realise you can't recognise a single song at a community gay dance; the moment when you realise those 20-somethings on the dance floor might sleep with you, once ( Just to see what it's like or maybe cause they have a tiny social conscience screw loose. ). Sooooo....Age gracefully my darlings; accept it and the wisdom it brings as it comes and only have sex with women older than you. You'll like it. They'll like it too. And there are some amazing 80 y/o bodies out there, or so i'm told. __________________ ______________________________ ______________________________

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08-13-2017, 06:42 PM	#4483
easygoingfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Lil' Miss Sassy Pants Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: My place by the river Posts: 3,361 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,709 Thanked 14,118 Times in 3,006 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I just popped in to chat and it was so very empty... there goes my distraction

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10-13-2017, 08:59 AM	#4498
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,840 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I graduated from being in my 40's to my 50's. Good thing I haven't aged out of the loft.