Support For Spirit Dancer - Page 3

The_Lady_Snow · 07-27-2010, 05:55 PM

(((((((((Spirit)))))))))))

We have you in our thoughts....

WolfyOne · 07-27-2010, 06:13 PM

I talked to Spirit Dancer a couple of hours ago. She was on her way to see the doctor and is waiting for results from an MRA and MRI. She's numb on part of her face and has had a headache for 4 days now. When she called me the other day after getting out of the hospital, she called her mini stroke a TIA. Although she told me what those letters stand for, I can't remember. I'm quite concerned for her health as her blood pressure is quite high. She doesn't release stress well even when we tell her to breathe and take some time for herself. As much as she needs rest, she needs her community. It would be really nice if some of the Nashville BFPers could check on her, lend her a hand, stop by her place for some real live conversation. I know many of you in Nashville know her, know how private a person she is. Just know, she's not going to reach out for help, so ya'll are going to have to take the initiative. The hardest thing for some of us to do is ask for help when we need it the most. What's going on with her and her family isn't a disease you can catch, so don't leave her hanging when she needs our help the most.

Strappie · 07-27-2010, 06:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva

Many of You know our member Spirit Dancer....and some may be aware of the health problems her partner has been going through.

Well now, it seems the stress of going through THAT battle has created a battle of her own.....she has suffered a [minor] stroke (is a stroke EVER 'minor'???) and is to go into the hospital early tomorrow morning for a series of tests.

Her doctor has said that this may very well be stress~related.....many of You know that her plate is, indeed, quite full. MORE than full. And yet, she continues to give to all of us with her positive energy for us!

She has given me permission finally to tell You this because she needs Your energy now....Your prayers, if You pray....Your candles if You light them....Your intercessions if You request them on her behalf, for answers and healing and energy to take care of herself (for a change!).

On her behalf, I thank You in advance. She is in need of Planet Energy now......

First off... Diva thank you for letting us know about her.

SpiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiRiiiiiiiiiit

Honey god bless you and everything you do. I will say many prayers for you till you recover fully!!

Thinkin of you and yours!!

SnackTime · 07-27-2010, 06:54 PM

A candle is lit...

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers

Lady Pamela · 07-27-2010, 07:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WolfyOne

I talked to Spirit Dancer a couple of hours ago. She was on her way to see the doctor and is waiting for results from an MRA and MRI. She's numb on part of her face and has had a headache for 4 days now. When she called me the other day after getting out of the hospital, she called her mini stroke a TIA. Although she told me what those letters stand for, I can't remember. I'm quite concerned for her health as her blood pressure is quite high. She doesn't release stress well even when we tell her to breathe and take some time for herself. As much as she needs rest, she needs her community. It would be really nice if some of the Nashville BFPers could check on her, lend her a hand, stop by her place for some real live conversation. I know many of you in Nashville know her, know how private a person she is. Just know, she's not going to reach out for help, so ya'll are going to have to take the initiative. The hardest thing for some of us to do is ask for help when we need it the most. What's going on with her and her family isn't a disease you can catch, so don't leave her hanging when she needs our help the most.

Wolfy,

I just wanted to thank you for the update.

Kätzchen · 07-27-2010, 07:25 PM

((((((( SD ))))))))))

Sending lots of healing light,
love and sweetness, to help you!!!

violaine · 07-27-2010, 07:26 PM

lots of love to you, dear sweet spirit.

talk with you soon!

ox

ruthie14 · 07-27-2010, 07:40 PM

Saying a prayer for you spirit dancer! May you feel calm and peaceful in spite of your stressors.

Ruthie

Diva · 07-27-2010, 08:29 PM

Hey everyone......

I just got off the phone with SD.....

She has a consult with her surgeon first thing in the morning to see what the next step will be.

SD is so thankful to all of You for Your love and thoughtfulness, but she is requesting no more calls/texts for the next several days. It makes sense, actually.....she's having to 'tell the story' or update with each call and part of the issue is the stress she was already under, right? So while she knows You mean well, it makes her dwell more on it when she needs to be taking care of herself by staying calm. And she is having some vision issues now, as well, so reading the texts are difficult for her right now.

I will do my best to give You as much information as she gives me permission to relay and in a timely manner.

In the meantime, she knows You're all here, wishing her well. SnackTime is there and is being very helpful. He and I are in touch, too, to discuss how we can best serve her needs.

Thanks for Your understanding and continued prayers and support for our Spirit Dancer.

~Diva

Lady Pamela · 07-27-2010, 08:45 PM

Thank you Diva for taking the time to help keep us updated!

Thank you SnackTime for being there when we can't..and for keeping us updated as well.

Massive · 07-27-2010, 09:13 PM

Sending lots of healing over the pond to you SD. I hope all goes well and you get well soon.

SuperFemme · 07-27-2010, 09:18 PM

Sending all of todays WOO to Spirit Dancer.
We're keeping you in our hearts and willing you back to good health.
Hang in there and be good to you.

Lady_Wu · 07-27-2010, 11:45 PM

I am sending Spirit Dancer's partner healing light and will put her on my altar.
I have recovered well from two strokes, onemajor, one "minor". Twas not easy and I needed the support of friends and loved ones. But can be done, with enough determination and care.
May you both prosper; may you both regain health; may you both have peace!
Lady_Wu

Kätzchen · 07-28-2010, 12:21 AM

Tommi · 07-28-2010, 12:52 AM

May the power of the the sun brighten your eyes. In the darkness, listen to the rolling thunder move across your sky to remind you of an energy far beyond our understanding. Be still. Listen for the birds wakeful song, and feel the moonbeams kiss upon your cheek to say goodnight. Be at rest with yourself and your loved ones, and may the little one hear the music of the planet as her superhero soars.

miss entycing · 07-28-2010, 09:16 AM

Damon and I are sending you our thoughts and prayers, please be well my friend.
I'm here if you need me, always.

Apocalipstic · 07-28-2010, 09:35 AM

Thinking about you SD and sending healing vibes.

Snack, if you need help, call me. I am getting ready for a work trip, but will be back in town next Wednesday. Thank you for helping out!

Jess · 07-28-2010, 09:37 AM

Thanks for the updates folks.. we've been hesitant to call and add to her stress... sending out lots of prayers for the whole family

Leigh · 07-28-2010, 09:56 AM

Diva · 07-28-2010, 12:36 PM

UPDATE

Just got off the phone with SD.....

As suspected, she waited for the surgeon quite a while (he had a couple of 'surprise' surgeries).....

But she DID see him. There is no aneurysm! But there are 2 arteries that are causing the issue.....an enlarged left artery and a too~small right artery in her brain....that's what is causing the issue.

SO they are going to put a stint in her neck to relieve the right artery. She will go back to the surgeon tomorrow to determine when this will happen. She's got some new meds, too, that I think will do her some major good.

Ya know? There is just something about having knowledge that dispels fear.....and now that she KNOWS what is going on, SD's spirts are much better. She sounded so much stronger and more at peace.

She said to say "thank You, everyone".....she appreciates all of Your energy and well wishes so very much!

07-27-2010, 05:55 PM	#41
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07-27-2010, 06:13 PM	#42
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,407 Times in 4,139 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I talked to Spirit Dancer a couple of hours ago. She was on her way to see the doctor and is waiting for results from an MRA and MRI. She's numb on part of her face and has had a headache for 4 days now. When she called me the other day after getting out of the hospital, she called her mini stroke a TIA. Although she told me what those letters stand for, I can't remember. I'm quite concerned for her health as her blood pressure is quite high. She doesn't release stress well even when we tell her to breathe and take some time for herself. As much as she needs rest, she needs her community. It would be really nice if some of the Nashville BFPers could check on her, lend her a hand, stop by her place for some real live conversation. I know many of you in Nashville know her, know how private a person she is. Just know, she's not going to reach out for help, so ya'll are going to have to take the initiative. The hardest thing for some of us to do is ask for help when we need it the most. What's going on with her and her family isn't a disease you can catch, so don't leave her hanging when she needs our help the most. __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

07-27-2010, 08:29 PM	#49
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,180 Times in 5,238 Posts Rep Power: 0	Update Hey everyone...... I just got off the phone with SD..... She has a consult with her surgeon first thing in the morning to see what the next step will be. SD is so thankful to all of You for Your love and thoughtfulness, but she is requesting no more calls/texts for the next several days. It makes sense, actually.....she's having to 'tell the story' or update with each call and part of the issue is the stress she was already under, right? So while she knows You mean well, it makes her dwell more on it when she needs to be taking care of herself by staying calm. And she is having some vision issues now, as well, so reading the texts are difficult for her right now. I will do my best to give You as much information as she gives me permission to relay and in a timely manner. In the meantime, she knows You're all here, wishing her well. SnackTime is there and is being very helpful. He and I are in touch, too, to discuss how we can best serve her needs. Thanks for Your understanding and continued prayers and support for our Spirit Dancer. ~Diva

07-27-2010, 08:45 PM	#50
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07-27-2010, 09:13 PM	#51
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07-27-2010, 06:54 PM	#44
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07-27-2010, 07:25 PM	#46
Kätzchen Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Monogamously Attached ❤️ Join Date: May 2010 Location: Where it once rained daily but now it doesn’t. Posts: 15,091 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36,000 Thanked 31,997 Times in 9,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	((((((( SD )))))))))) Sending lots of healing light, love and sweetness, to help you!!!

07-27-2010, 07:26 PM	#47
violaine Timed Out How Do You Identify?: atypical Preferred Pronoun?: plague words and phrases Relationship Status: love wise guys of the avian world Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wekiva springs basin Posts: 3,236 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,934 Thanked 3,294 Times in 1,301 Posts Rep Power: 0	lots of love to you, dear sweet spirit. talk with you soon! ox

07-27-2010, 07:40 PM	#48
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Saying a prayer for you spirit dancer! May you feel calm and peaceful in spite of your stressors. Ruthie

07-27-2010, 09:18 PM	#52
SuperFemme Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Married (one of 18,000) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atascadero, CA Posts: 4,933 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,309 Thanked 7,109 Times in 2,327 Posts Rep Power: 0	Sending all of todays WOO to Spirit Dancer. We're keeping you in our hearts and willing you back to good health. Hang in there and be good to you.

07-27-2010, 11:45 PM	#53
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07-28-2010, 12:21 AM	#54
Kätzchen Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Monogamously Attached ❤️ Join Date: May 2010 Location: Where it once rained daily but now it doesn’t. Posts: 15,091 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36,000 Thanked 31,997 Times in 9,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	For our Friend, ((((( Spirit Dancer ))))))

07-28-2010, 12:52 AM	#55
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07-28-2010, 09:16 AM	#56
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07-28-2010, 09:35 AM	#57
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,383 Times in 2,840 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Thinking about you SD and sending healing vibes. Snack, if you need help, call me. I am getting ready for a work trip, but will be back in town next Wednesday. Thank you for helping out! __________________

07-28-2010, 09:37 AM	#58
Jess Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: decidedly indifferent Preferred Pronoun?: other Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Patrick Springs, VA Posts: 2,812 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,247 Thanked 5,703 Times in 1,684 Posts Rep Power: 0	Thanks for the updates folks.. we've been hesitant to call and add to her stress... sending out lots of prayers for the whole family

07-28-2010, 09:56 AM	#59
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07-28-2010, 12:36 PM	#60
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,180 Times in 5,238 Posts Rep Power: 0	UPDATE Just got off the phone with SD..... As suspected, she waited for the surgeon quite a while (he had a couple of 'surprise' surgeries)..... But she DID see him. There is no aneurysm! But there are 2 arteries that are causing the issue.....an enlarged left artery and a too~small right artery in her brain....that's what is causing the issue. SO they are going to put a stint in her neck to relieve the right artery. She will go back to the surgeon tomorrow to determine when this will happen. She's got some new meds, too, that I think will do her some major good. Ya know? There is just something about having knowledge that dispels fear.....and now that she KNOWS what is going on, SD's spirts are much better. She sounded so much stronger and more at peace. She said to say "thank You, everyone".....she appreciates all of Your energy and well wishes so very much!