I'm 57 NOT dead!!! LOL!!!

[DaniJay]

I love the "ButchFemme Dance". I'm trying to find where the over 50 Femms that still enjoy flirting, the "dance", but can also enjoy rich conversation.....where are you all hiding?

[lipstixgal]

Right here I'm in my fifties and femme loving the butch-femme dance too!! welcome and enjoy your stay...we have a singles thread and can use some more butches on there!!

[DaniJay]

Nice to meet you Gail. how do I find this "singles thread"? Sounds like a good place if the Femmes out number the Butches....LOL

[lipstixgal]

Originally Posted by DaniJay

Nice to meet you Gail. how do I find this "singles thread"? Sounds like a good place if the Femmes out number the Butches....LOL

Its always out there but its under relationships etc on butch-femmeplanet forums...come visit us we need butches!!

[Licious]

*looks in* Okay, here I am out of hiding. 54, Femme. *waves*

[morningstar55]

hey there dani....... please to meet you ...... boise huh??
and 57?? ....... im not dead either... lol lol and im ahh 50ty ahhh 29 .... no wait .. 39 .. well anyways.
i started a fun thread tonight....... hope you enjoy it and maybe chime in with a song ..heh.

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=2983

[*Anya*]

I am so glad to have found this! I feel like RipVanWinkle. I came out- dated, fell in love-in my 20's, had 18 years living together, it's over & needed a few years to heal from it, woke up, rubbed my eyes all of a sudden- WTF, I am in my 50's! Still don't know how that happened! I find it very difficult to start over at this age. Decided I would just be alone for the rest of my life but last week on the Today show, thy interviewed a 91 year-old woman that just married her 82 year-old BF she met online! I said to self: "You are not 90, get going"! I still hate getting older though.

[CherylNYC]

Originally Posted by *Anya*

I am so glad to have found this! I feel like RipVanWinkle. I came out- dated, fell in love-in my 20's, had 18 years living together, it's over & needed a few years to heal from it, woke up, rubbed my eyes all of a sudden- WTF, I am in my 50's! Still don't know how that happened! I find it very difficult to start over at this age. Decided I would just be alone for the rest of my life but last week on the Today show, thy interviewed a 91 year-old woman that just married her 82 year-old BF she met online! I said to self: "You are not 90, get going"! I still hate getting older though.

I understand feeling strange about re-entering the dating pool in a totally different stage of life, but do you really hate getting older? There's only one other option because either we get to be older, or we don't.

I'm about to turn 50 this summer, and I'm very excited about it. I plan to enthusiastically celebrate my first half century partly because I had a close call last year, but I was planning to celebrate long before I had my accident.

My knees aren't cooperating with me quite as readily as they did a few decades ago, but I'm really glad I'm here to celebrate.

[*Anya*]

Originally Posted by CherylNYC

I understand feeling strange about re-entering the dating pool in a totally different stage of life, but do you really hate getting older? There's only one other option because either we get to be older, or we don't.

I'm about to turn 50 this summer, and I'm very excited about it. I plan to enthusiastically celebrate my first half century partly because I had a close call last year, but I was planning to celebrate long before I had my accident.

My knees aren't cooperating with me quite as readily as they did a few decades ago, but I'm really glad I'm here to celebrate.

What is the alternative indeed?!

I wrote my post shortly after joining the Planet last June.

A lot has happened since that time for me. I did date for a short time but wound up falling in love with a butch on the Planet and we are still together.

Life can be good regardless of age.

[CherylNYC]

Originally Posted by *Anya*

What is the alternative indeed?!

I wrote my post shortly after joining the Planet last June.

A lot has happened since that time for me. I did date for a short time but wound up falling in love with a butch on the Planet and we are still together.

Life can be good regardless of age.

Whoops! I didn't notice the date on your post. I should be more careful about that when old threads get resurrected.

Oh, and Mazel Tov!

[Sachita]

Here I am! I admit that I get a little weird right before my birthday. But I enjoy being in my 50's. No one ever guesses my age when meeting me and I can run circles around people half my age. Age truly is just a number but being "golden" comes with other added benefits- I see things differently, enjoy life more, don't put up with shit and I love so much deeper then I did when I was younger and just discovering love.

I normally date younger but certainly not closed to someone in their 50's if they are active and enjoy doing outdoor things.

"One of the benefits of being a mature, well-educated woman is that you are not afraid of expletives.And you have no fear to put a fool in his place. That’s the power of language and experience. You learn a lot from Shakespeare." ~ Dame Judi Dench

[clay]

Originally Posted by CherylNYC

I understand feeling strange about re-entering the dating pool in a totally different stage of life, but do you really hate getting older? There's only one other option because either we get to be older, or we don't.

I'm about to turn 50 this summer, and I'm very excited about it. I plan to enthusiastically celebrate my first half century partly because I had a close call last year, but I was planning to celebrate long before I had my accident.

My knees aren't cooperating with me quite as readily as they did a few decades ago, but I'm really glad I'm here to celebrate.

Great post, Cheryl! I am about to embrace a whole new decade in my life..and I absolutely LOVE "aging with grace" and embrace life wholeheartedly! To me, age is just a number. My GF is always kidding me cabout "robbing the vradle" as she is 9 years younger. It just works, for me, anyway. I may have immobility issues, had my Big "C" scare last December, and I have to get tests every 3 months, for life, BUT I am NOT giving in. I kicked cancer's ass last December, and I aim to keep on kicking it. No matter what I am dealt, I still enjoy life, embrace it, and want to live. I enjoy so many things that I did when younger,. just with the aid of a scooter sometimes, but hey, THAT can be a whole lot of fun, too!!!
So, yea, I totally agree with you..the alternative to "not aging" vs. dying...umm yes, I will take life and aging...ANY day!
My GF calls me her sexy, silver butch..and I LOVE it!!!
Celebrate on, my awesome friend...I am there with you....thanks for the post!!!

[intrigue_in916]

Originally Posted by DaniJay

I love the "ButchFemme Dance". I'm trying to find where the over 50 Femms that still enjoy flirting, the "dance", but can also enjoy rich conversation.....where are you all hiding?

I think 57 is a good age, your still able to intrigue a femme. this femme lives in cali.

[Darbonaire]

Not dead at all.......looking forward to what lies ahead day to day......yippee !!!!

[deedarino]

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