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There are always going to be people who hate Queers. There are always going to be people who hate POC. There are always going to be people who hate fat people, French-speakers, people who voted for Nader, people who wear white socks, etc etc etc. It's not going to go away. And because I know it's not going to go away - I am a "pick your battles" kind of girl. I just think that there are bigger and more harmful haters out there than some sad little virgin living in his mommy's basement. I'll focus on the haters who are in a position to do actual damage. I'd go bald if I was stressed over a game that maybe a couple hundred douchebags on the internet will play. And when I am not focusing on the bigger badder haters I will try and match Kobi's score in that "running over children and little old ladies" game.
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Thank You Nat for getting the information. I wrote Tom an email, as a parent, a lesbian, a gay teen *once upon a time* and as a fellow human being. I was polite in my email and not threatening. I am hoping for to create communication with him. He is pretty smart, this young man and so young still. I also watched a video interview about him. He seems (god I hope) to be sweet. Let's just hope he is unaware. Julie
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I see a law suit. Big lawsuit. LAMDA needs to step up to the plate.
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Thanks, Nat for all of that information!
I was just coming in here to post a small portion of that: Tom Fulp, Founder tom@newgrounds.com Ryan Pridgeon, creator of Gay Bus I certainly WILL be writing.....and I'm going to post this on FB, too. Thanks again, Nat! |
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Also if this kid is in the UK he may be breaking the law:
http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2010/03/23...s-into-effect/ From may 23rd of this year: A new law criminalising stirring up homophobic hatred comes into effect today. The law, which covers England and Wales, will punish offenders with up to seven years in jail or a fine. It brings protections for gay people in line with laws against racial and religious hatred. Stonewall claimed that a new offence was necessary after it discovered a range of “extreme” websites with anti-gay material. Homophobic song lyrics could also be covered by the law. Stonewall chief executive Ben Summerskill said: “The newly-extended criminal offence of incitement to hatred will go some way towards addressing the hatred and violence directed towards lesbians, gay men and bisexuals in Britain at a time when homophobic attacks are on the increase. “It sends a strong signal that such behaviour is unacceptable in a civilised society. Just like race, a person’s sexual orientation is an intrinsic characteristic for which no citizen should ever feel under threat of verbal or physical violence.” It is unlikely the new law will be used frequently. Similar laws against inciting racial hatred have only been used around 20 times in the 30 years since they came into force. The legislation will not make it a crime to criticise or tell jokes about homosexuality. Both religious leaders and comedians had expressed concern that they would be criminalised under it. While Stonewall and government supporters claimed the initial legislation would not impede freedom of speech, the House of Lords passed an amendment to protect those who criticise homosexuality or urge gays to turn straight from prosecution. The amendment, tabled by Tory peer and former home secretary under Margaret Thatcher Lord Waddington, allows the “discussion or criticism” of sexual practices.
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IF, I'm going to presume you meant make a meal FOR not OF my brain I did and lets hope my fed brain makes sense. I am of the same generation as you. Have done the fighting, the paving of the way, breaking down barriers as both a woman and a lesbian. The scars run deep. Then again so do the survival skills. I understand your concern for the well being of our youth. It is a tragedy for suicide to be the only option one feels they have available to them. And, I agree, the community needs to advocate against those things which breed and accentuate hate in any form. I am also a realist. I'm not exactly sure where the concept of and manifestations of hatred come from, but I know it is a reality of life. Regardless of who we are and what we stand for, someone somewhere will find something not to like about us. And they will behave in unpleasant ways including developing silly games (btw I agree, he is a geek and he seems latent to me). Part of our "job" as the more senior and experienced members of a community is to bolster our youth, help them during the difficult time of identity formation, help them learn to negotiate life on their terms as who and what they are, to help them develop and maintain self esteem, pride, acceptance of self. Another part of our "job" is to teach them the realities of life, picking battles wisely, developing a thicker skin, dealing with the hatred without losing the sense of self as a worthy and worthwhile person. We need to help them learn to survive the hatred they might encounter and thrive in spite of it. And I think it is an invaluable thing to learn. I'm thinking a game like this is a good educational tool. Take something potentially harmful and turn it into something helpful, a starting place for a discussion which needs to be had with our youth. This doesnt mean dont write and call and complain. It does mean, in my head, it is a game and like many games for computers and game systems, violence under the guise of entertainment is the norm not the exception. Whether it is running over kids and old ladies in carmegeddon or shooting pigeons in a couple of games, or batting beheaded penguins, war games, dog mutilation - our arcade is not for the faint of heart. As much as I would like to be there to protect our youth 24/7, it just isnt going to happen. At some point, we have to teach them to take care of themselves and to be ok doing so.
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Thank you for your words. I think we just look at it differently on a level which is not so different. I am not worried about our gay youth seeing it, as much as I am worried about the message that it sends to those who are ignorant and if it fosters the OKAY for some people to bash gays. While it is just a video, it sends a message. Even with everything I have seen in my life and everything I have experienced. I am still not thick skinned. I hope I never am. I hope I continue to believe the world is kind and in it are kind people. I choose to wear my rose colored specs - they make everything so much prettier. I don't want our children thick skinned either. I want them to be able to experience the beauty of life. They should not have to experience the hatred. Maybe I am still naive in this thinking... (shrugs *literally* my shoulders). p.s. About your brain. I liked your post and your words -- so I am not going to share with you, what I wanted you to do with your brain earlier (lol).
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To me it's a tacit nod of approval and incitement of hate crimes and bullying against lgbtq people. The fact somebody made the game doesn't surprise me, but I am definitely interested in knowing if any of the companies involved in that game's availability are okay with having their services used in this manner.
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IF, It is not naive at all. Your exuberance and focus on what should be is very admirable. I am glad there are people like you in the world. LOL thank you for sparing my brain from whatever you were thinking of suggesting I do with it
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I have a friend who is ad-work....and she just sent this information to the editor of www.afterelton.com to start a campaign.
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A quote from the Author of the game himself....
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WOW! I had no idea I was an activist!!!! YEA ME!!! Do I get a tiara for that? The neat thing is....he thinks I'm done! Wonder what he'd do if he knew this activist looks like his mother.... |
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