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07-06-2014, 11:06 AM
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Superlative Soul Sister
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Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?:
She, her, shawty Relationship Status:
Single 
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On my mind: I have the week off and am staying home. Want to make a creative visualization collage to help me break some bad habits and re-establish some good ones.
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07-06-2014, 12:18 PM
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Mentally Delicious
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Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?:
Mme. Relationship Status:
Married to JD. 
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On my mind is how much it PISSES ME OFF to see straight women being interchanged with Femmes in the "desire olympics", especially when done by Butches who, in other spaces, purport to love them some Femmes. (and no, this is not about anyone here and not even a specific context)
Like, we've had this conversation a million times and I can't understand it. I can hear the loud exclamations in my head if Femmes started drooling over photos of George Clooney or Denzel Washington and were like "OMG, this Butch is so hot!!!" I mean, FOR REAL??
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07-06-2014, 12:27 PM
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Senior Member
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a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?:
Guess... Relationship Status:
Seat taken 
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Needing to clean my house before I go on a work trip.... But it's sooooo hard to get motivated on a Sunday!!! Lol
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07-06-2014, 01:28 PM
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Infamous Member
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Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status:
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I'm confused. If I am reading this right, you are pissed off because in the "desire olympics" it appears Butches interchange straight women and Femmes. And, you think Butches would be pissed off if Femmes started drooling over biological men like George or Denzel. But, it is ok for Femmes to see Butches as a garden salad of female, male, trans, two sexed, inter sexed and whomever I forgot, AND who may be lesbian, queer, straight and whatever I may have forgotten? I dont know if it is "for real" but it sounds a lot like the proverbial double standard. |
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07-06-2014, 01:43 PM
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Mentally Delicious
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Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?:
Mme. Relationship Status:
Married to JD.
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Yes, FOR REAL. I've rewritten and deleted this response about a dozen times because I'm angry. I'll be back to respond to this when I cool down.
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07-06-2014, 02:16 PM
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Long-time Member
How Do You Identify?:
WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?:
Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status:
♡ married 1/1/2019♡ 
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Medusa - Since the thread is about what is on your mind, no explanation is necessary, but I would love to hear more about what you are thinking if you want to share. Added: Is the issue calling straight men (like george and denzel) "butch"as if they are examples of what butch "should" be? If so, I totally understand why that would piss people off. |
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07-06-2014, 02:35 PM
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Mentally Delicious
How Do You Identify?:
Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?:
Mme. Relationship Status:
Married to JD.
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Mel- Thank you for getting it. Sincerely. Yes, my issue is with using a random celeb straight woman as an example of "Femme", not with following your desires to whatever gender they happen to inhabit. That is one of the things I have always appreciated about you, that you willingly and openly talk about your desires without a caveat or an ounce of shame. And I think finding examples of "hot" in each group is a good way to put it!! I think the thing for me as a Femme is that our invisibility is really specific. Maybe not as much as it was 10 or 20 or 30 years ago in some cases (because the world seems to be "getting it" on some tiny level about how gender isn't always about sex) but even today, I am asked what my "husband" does for a living when encountering strangers. It's the "assumed accessory" thing. So as a Femme when I rub up against "Lady Gaga is a Femme" or "Beyonce is a Femme" or "Damn, I wish the Femmes I know were as fine as ... insert a celeb who is not Queer, Lesbian, Gay, or for that matter who IS STRAIGHT, THIN, WHITE, or RICH" it makes me want to scream, "NO. NO. NOOOOOO." Most days I just dance over it but yanno, sometimes you just wish people would evolve already. I appreciate you, Mel. Thank you for the respectful dialog.  ~M
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07-13-2014, 09:03 PM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?:
Masculine ones plz Relationship Status:
Single but haven't given up on finding the One 
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on my mind
Way to much right now. Even through the extreme pain I am in my damn mind won't shut off for even a second. Most importantly it is all crap that I can do nothing absolutely nothing about. Except for one that is which is to finally hey around to giving people my new number. That really is a pain in the ass chore but hey I have enjoyed the peace and quiet of no one having my number for a few days
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07-19-2014, 10:47 AM
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Timed Out - TOS Drama
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Ugggg
I better get ready to leave for the funeral. 
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07-20-2014, 09:49 PM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?:
She Relationship Status:
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I'm very tired but my brain won't shut down.
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07-20-2014, 10:05 PM
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Member
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femme 
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You. And how much I miss you at times. Right now being one of those times.
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07-21-2014, 07:34 PM
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Mentally Delicious
How Do You Identify?:
Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?:
Mme. Relationship Status:
Married to JD.
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What's on my mind??? The dog just scared the living hell out of me and I'm contemplating wringing her neck (not really).
I was at the back of the house playing an audiobook and organizing some clothes in the closet. Where I was standing in the closet I had full view of Gracie as she lay on the edge of the bed. All of the sudden, she stands up on the bed and starts barking and growling with bared teeth and pointing down the hallway as if someone is there. And of course there was nothing out there but my heart is still pounding!!! LOL
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07-21-2014, 07:56 PM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Queer..femme.. .babygirl...girl Preferred Pronoun?:
Female Ones... Relationship Status:
Enjoying life but ready to meet someone Join Date: Nov 2009
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what is on my mind is how wonderful it felt to be completely stress free and relaxed this weekend during a BDSM self identified womens camping event. There was a wide variety in attendance.. trans, gay, queer, bi, femme, butch, leather dyke, boy, boi, girl, grl, Daddy, Sir, Maam, Mistress, he, she, they... you name it there was representation...
It was so wonderful to be able to be that open and free... I saw people I hadnt seen in a year and some I had seen just last month.. I am so super stoked to get out and meet people more often now. I also met some wonderful people from California.. so I want to get to visit them soon as well..
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07-22-2014, 01:45 PM
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Member
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I don’t want contact. 
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Time. I feel like I'm constantly running out of time. I need more time in the day, or something. I don't know how to explain it, but more time or less things to do would both be amazing.
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07-22-2014, 08:30 PM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
She/her Relationship Status:
That's Need to Know 
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Even though my kids are going to be gone most of next month, I still have SO much to do. I really hope I can do it all without feeling overwhelmed.
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07-25-2014, 10:45 PM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?:
Masculine ones plz Relationship Status:
Single but haven't given up on finding the One
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Right now Friday night
Late night decisions are on my mind. Do I fall asleep listening to It on Audible or do I fall asleep with a Netflix horror movie on in the background. Also I can't believe I finally have a girl that wants to watch horror movies with me...now to figure out the distance thing or learn patience. The later as some of you know has never been one of My better qualities*chuckle*
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07-26-2014, 08:26 AM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?:
female pronouns Relationship Status:
Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS 
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SS don't read......
SS if you have started to read, STOP!!!!, you can read after the wedding lol
What isn't on my mind nowadays  lolMy girl  , our wedding, getting everything done (8 weeks away), a letter that had to be sent in the province I live to validate her US divorce, which if for whatever reason we don't get anything back from them/or they don't validate, we can't marry (that letter is sitting in a post office waiting to be claimed UGH!!!!), hotel room misbookings on the management end, the script for the ceremony and our input, a surprise I wanna try to do for my girl at the wedding, my surgery (remove a cyst/abscess from my eyelid that I have had for 3 months), will I still have this job (contract) at the end of the year (hope to become permanent), so many things are on my mind but will stop at that.......
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08-05-2014, 12:05 AM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?:
Masculine ones plz Relationship Status:
Single but haven't given up on finding the One
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On my mind
The same thing for the last few bed times. I miss the pups even thier bed hogging ways at bed time. Riley curled up at my feet on top of the covers and peppa between my legs under the covers. That is until she decides there just isn't enough room and she moves to stretch put by her momma causing Riley to move between my legs so I can pet her head until she falls asleep. I try to fool myself by surrounding my body wih a body pillow on ine side and a smaller pillow on the other side. Just not the same!! I miss those damn dogs
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08-06-2014, 02:56 PM
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Senior Member
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Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?:
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So, I'm throwing this surprise birthday party for someone....the party planning? No problem...now the gift is another story...I mean, I'm beginning to sweat because it's this weekend and I still haven't even figured out a present for this picky prick...
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08-06-2014, 03:06 PM
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Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
femme *blows a kiss off my finger tips ** Preferred Pronoun?:
~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status:
~ single & content ~ 
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