Big Butch Love - Page 11

clay · 02-27-2012, 10:20 AM

Thank all you lovely femmes who love and appreciate a Big Butch!!! Makes ME "swoon"...umm do butches "swoon"...grin...maybe like go....thuddddddd....anyway either way, makes me feel special!!! Hugs to you all....love n kisses to all of you....Clay

istolurboxers38 · 03-22-2012, 11:34 AM

To be honest It shouldnt be a matter of size except the size of your heart and the personality of the person on the inside. Being big and fluffy makes you just more to love and if you have the personality it makes it so much better.

to all the big and fluffy butches

Miss Scarlett · 03-22-2012, 11:52 AM

That you do Honey and it's that amazing heart of yours that got my attention...and you're wonderful to cuddle with too!!! i am one very lucky femme indeed!!!

i love my Sexy Silver Butch!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by claybaby

Aww, smouldering...here I am...blushing...again..you ladies are so sweet! Thanks so much! Yes, I do write right from my heart!!
And ANY DAY/TIME is perfect for cuddling with a gorgeous femme....

Femmadian · 05-14-2014, 12:43 PM

Reviving this thread because... well, big butches...

What I love about big butches in particular:
-their presence (amplified to the Nth power)
-thick fingers

-that soft, warm belly to cuddle up to
-they just feel solid
-wide hips and the sexy walk that comes with it
-more to grab onto ;-)
-that sweet spot to lay my head where their chest, shoulder, and big, butch arm meet
-play-wrestling in bed with them... winning is fun but then, so is losing...
-not having to worry if I'm going to break them!
-feeling the full weight of them on top of me... or draped across me after certain activities

-the thickness of their thighs... it feels decadent to have them tangled up in/between mine
-wrapping my arms around them and pulling them closer (it feels great to have my arms totally full with a big, handsome butch and not be left wanting!)
-big, butch butt...

I like butches of all sizes, shapes, and stripes, but a big butch activates a certain primal, animal lust in me that I just can't deny. Thank Maude for big butches!

starryeyes · 05-14-2014, 02:32 PM

Big Butches=YUM!!! <3

CherylNYC · 05-14-2014, 06:49 PM

Ayup. I love big, strong butches.

Mel C. · 05-14-2014, 06:57 PM

It is refreshing to hear that there are femmes who appreciate us.

SaltyButch · 05-14-2014, 07:52 PM

I agree it's nice to know that there are women out there who appreciate us stocky fella's....I spent many years trying to lose weight so that someone might pay me attention, only to find out that some do like a little meat on the bones. All I can say is thank you for accepting me because it took me a long time to accept myself....and I finally do.

Leigh · 05-14-2014, 08:18 PM

As a BBW femme I know it seems like those of is with extra meat on our bones are invisible or something but it's not true - I love big butches, being able to snuggle upto them and the way they move in the world simply amazes me. Each and every one of you are appreciated, please never forget that :-)

CherylNYC · 05-14-2014, 08:41 PM

I recently had some VERY expensive work done on the suspension for my street bike. I matter-of-factly told the owner and technicians, "I'm 51 years old, and I know what I like. I like 'em BIG. My passengers will likely outweigh me by double.", I said. This was not a normal request, so I continued on to make sure I was fully understood. "I need a rear shock with a remote pre-load adjuster that will accommodate a passenger that's significantly larger than me. Because I like 'em big."

The regular straight dudes who work there likely hadn't heard a woman say anything like that before. They did a great job being professional, but I know they were having trouble figuring out how to react. My money is green, so they dutifully provided me with an Ohlins shock which they set up as requested. There's now a whole room full of mechanics who will see big, butch women just a little differently now.

I don't just accept big butches, I WANT one. It's OK if she doesn't want to ride on the back of my bike, but if she does she can consider it service.

Femmadian · 05-14-2014, 08:58 PM

Some other things to love:

-more force behind each movement, thrust, etc., just for their sheer size/weight
-being hugged from behind by one and feeling totally surrounded by butchness :-)
-"borrowing" a big butch's shirt around the house - so comfy!
-watching one fawn over something fluffy/furry. Butches making a fuss over animals in general is endearing, but there's something special about watching a particularly large butch reduced to a puddle in front of a furbaby
-the sight of a big butch on the back of a motorcycle

-ever had a butch with a nice, round rump model a really cute pair of boxer briefs for you?
-bear hugs

-big butch, big boots. 'Nuff said. :-)
-they look awesome nekkid (I mean, everyone does, but I think they look extra awesome)

Basically, there's a lot to love. I'm more aware of big butches in just plain physical terms because they simply occupy more physical real estate. I love to explore those hillsides (with permission, of course)...

My most recent ex (not on BFP) was about a size 20-ish (which I don't find all that large) and 6 ft 1. I can remember seeing her for the first time and thinking "my god, she's an Amazon." It's a miracle I was able to keep my hands off her as long as I did. Would I still have been attracted to her if she had been smaller or shorter? Sure, but that lethal combination of both length and girth is dynamite for this femme.

I think confidence is key if you can unlearn and unpack some of the negative messaging society imprints on you about larger bodies. I know it's hard and it's a constant battle but I have to say, seeing a larger butch with confidence is a huge turn on. It's important to remember (for anyone) that the more time you spend fidgeting with and putting down your own body, that's time you could be giving someone else to appreciate it in all its glory. :-)

From one big-butch-loving femme, please feel free to show off a bit more.

Femmadian · 05-14-2014, 09:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CherylNYC

I don't just accept big butches, I WANT one.

THIS.

Mel C. · 05-14-2014, 09:40 PM

Hmmmm..seriously, I had NO idea

MysticOceansFL · 05-14-2014, 10:08 PM

Thanks to the femme's who prefer the bigger butches but what do you consider "bigger" just asking cause I'm not past 150 pounds, would I be considered as such?

Leigh · 05-15-2014, 02:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mel C.

Hmmmm..seriously, I had NO idea

Well you definitely know now don't you? *grin*

VintageFemme · 05-15-2014, 05:11 AM

I'm a pretty small girl. Barely five foot and pretty petite so when those big strong stocky butch arms hold me close and hold me tight, well there just isn't a lot in this world that feels better. Big butch love, yes please.

Wrang1er · 05-15-2014, 05:55 AM

I am thankful for the women that love us. I am not tall, but I have the big part covered.

Thank you!

clay · 05-15-2014, 07:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CherylNYC

I don't just accept big butches, I WANT one. It's OK if she doesn't want to ride on the back of my bike, but if she does she can consider it service.

Thank YOU, Cheryl!! You have always been a fave of mine....and you always say just the right things to us big butches!
Someone will be very blessed to deserve you!
You are AWESOME, my beautiful friend! and will ALWAYS be my fave crush

-Red-Flag- · 05-15-2014, 08:19 AM

I love this thread, I know first hand there are some Femmes out there that love them a big butch. For that I'm grateful.

Cheryl, can I ride on the back

Leigh · 05-15-2014, 10:20 AM

There is nothing hotter than a big butch

02-27-2012, 10:20 AM	#201
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,096 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 96,039 Thanked 31,685 Times in 7,714 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	Thank all you lovely femmes who love and appreciate a Big Butch!!! Makes ME "swoon"...umm do butches "swoon"...grin...maybe like go....thuddddddd....anyway either way, makes me feel special!!! Hugs to you all....love n kisses to all of you....Clay __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

05-14-2014, 12:43 PM	#204
Femmadian Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Isla Nublar Posts: 385 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,296 Thanked 2,413 Times in 362 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	Reviving this thread because... well, big butches... What I love about big butches in particular: -their presence (amplified to the Nth power) -thick fingers -that soft, warm belly to cuddle up to -they just feel solid -wide hips and the sexy walk that comes with it -more to grab onto ;-) -that sweet spot to lay my head where their chest, shoulder, and big, butch arm meet -play-wrestling in bed with them... winning is fun but then, so is losing... -not having to worry if I'm going to break them! -feeling the full weight of them on top of me... or draped across me after certain activities -the thickness of their thighs... it feels decadent to have them tangled up in/between mine -wrapping my arms around them and pulling them closer (it feels great to have my arms totally full with a big, handsome butch and not be left wanting!) -big, butch butt... I like butches of all sizes, shapes, and stripes, but a big butch activates a certain primal, animal lust in me that I just can't deny. Thank Maude for big butches! __________________

05-14-2014, 02:32 PM	#205
starryeyes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?: Guess... Relationship Status: Seat taken Join Date: May 2011 Location: Rocky Mountain High Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,199 Thanked 10,057 Times in 2,078 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Big Butches=YUM!!! <3 __________________ "It's ok to make mistakes. It's ok to fall down. Get up! Look sickening....and make them eat it!" - Latrice Royale Starry

05-14-2014, 06:49 PM	#206
CherylNYC Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: I'm a woman. Behave accordingly. Relationship Status: Single, not looking. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NYC Posts: 1,467 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,474 Thanked 7,150 Times in 1,206 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Ayup. I love big, strong butches. __________________ Cheryl

05-14-2014, 08:18 PM	#209
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	As a BBW femme I know it seems like those of is with extra meat on our bones are invisible or something but it's not true - I love big butches, being able to snuggle upto them and the way they move in the world simply amazes me. Each and every one of you are appreciated, please never forget that :-) __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

03-22-2012, 11:34 AM	#202
istolurboxers38 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: redneck femme Preferred Pronoun?: her, she, babygirl Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: vancouver washington Posts: 31 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18 Thanked 95 Times in 23 Posts Rep Power: 919135	To be honest It shouldnt be a matter of size except the size of your heart and the personality of the person on the inside. Being big and fluffy makes you just more to love and if you have the personality it makes it so much better. to all the big and fluffy butches

05-14-2014, 06:57 PM	#207
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,840 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	It is refreshing to hear that there are femmes who appreciate us.

05-14-2014, 07:52 PM	#208
SaltyButch Member How Do You Identify?: Old School Butch Preferred Pronoun?: he/she/hey you..... Relationship Status: open to the possibilities Tournaments Won: 5 Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: mississauga ontario canada Posts: 345 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 432 Thanked 1,635 Times in 301 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I agree it's nice to know that there are women out there who appreciate us stocky fella's....I spent many years trying to lose weight so that someone might pay me attention, only to find out that some do like a little meat on the bones. All I can say is thank you for accepting me because it took me a long time to accept myself....and I finally do.

05-14-2014, 08:41 PM	#210
CherylNYC Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: I'm a woman. Behave accordingly. Relationship Status: Single, not looking. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NYC Posts: 1,467 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,474 Thanked 7,150 Times in 1,206 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I recently had some VERY expensive work done on the suspension for my street bike. I matter-of-factly told the owner and technicians, "I'm 51 years old, and I know what I like. I like 'em BIG. My passengers will likely outweigh me by double.", I said. This was not a normal request, so I continued on to make sure I was fully understood. "I need a rear shock with a remote pre-load adjuster that will accommodate a passenger that's significantly larger than me. Because I like 'em big." The regular straight dudes who work there likely hadn't heard a woman say anything like that before. They did a great job being professional, but I know they were having trouble figuring out how to react. My money is green, so they dutifully provided me with an Ohlins shock which they set up as requested. There's now a whole room full of mechanics who will see big, butch women just a little differently now. I don't just accept big butches, I WANT one. It's OK if she doesn't want to ride on the back of my bike, but if she does she can consider it service. __________________ Cheryl

05-14-2014, 08:58 PM	#211
Femmadian Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Isla Nublar Posts: 385 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,296 Thanked 2,413 Times in 362 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	Some other things to love: -more force behind each movement, thrust, etc., just for their sheer size/weight -being hugged from behind by one and feeling totally surrounded by butchness :-) -"borrowing" a big butch's shirt around the house - so comfy! -watching one fawn over something fluffy/furry. Butches making a fuss over animals in general is endearing, but there's something special about watching a particularly large butch reduced to a puddle in front of a furbaby -the sight of a big butch on the back of a motorcycle -ever had a butch with a nice, round rump model a really cute pair of boxer briefs for you? -bear hugs -big butch, big boots. 'Nuff said. :-) -they look awesome nekkid (I mean, everyone does, but I think they look extra awesome) Basically, there's a lot to love. I'm more aware of big butches in just plain physical terms because they simply occupy more physical real estate. I love to explore those hillsides (with permission, of course)... My most recent ex (not on BFP) was about a size 20-ish (which I don't find all that large) and 6 ft 1. I can remember seeing her for the first time and thinking "my god, she's an Amazon." It's a miracle I was able to keep my hands off her as long as I did. Would I still have been attracted to her if she had been smaller or shorter? Sure, but that lethal combination of both length and girth is dynamite for this femme. I think confidence is key if you can unlearn and unpack some of the negative messaging society imprints on you about larger bodies. I know it's hard and it's a constant battle but I have to say, seeing a larger butch with confidence is a huge turn on. It's important to remember (for anyone) that the more time you spend fidgeting with and putting down your own body, that's time you could be giving someone else to appreciate it in all its glory. :-) From one big-butch-loving femme, please feel free to show off a bit more. __________________ Last edited by Femmadian; 05-14-2014 at 09:04 PM. Reason: i can haz proofreading skills?

05-14-2014, 09:40 PM	#213
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,840 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hmmmm..seriously, I had NO idea

05-14-2014, 10:08 PM	#214
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,035 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Thanks to the femme's who prefer the bigger butches but what do you consider "bigger" just asking cause I'm not past 150 pounds, would I be considered as such? __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

05-15-2014, 05:11 AM	#216
VintageFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Outside Posts: 2,299 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,828 Thanked 7,640 Times in 1,657 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I'm a pretty small girl. Barely five foot and pretty petite so when those big strong stocky butch arms hold me close and hold me tight, well there just isn't a lot in this world that feels better. Big butch love, yes please. __________________ Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity

05-15-2014, 05:55 AM	#217
Wrang1er Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me, myself and I Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Here Posts: 1,526 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 7,085 Times in 1,355 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I am thankful for the women that love us. I am not tall, but I have the big part covered. Thank you!

05-15-2014, 08:19 AM	#219
-Red-Flag- Member How Do You Identify?: .Butch. Join Date: May 2010 Location: .Maine. Posts: 1,254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,777 Thanked 3,609 Times in 929 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I love this thread, I know first hand there are some Femmes out there that love them a big butch. For that I'm grateful. Cheryl, can I ride on the back __________________ You will always be fond of me. I represent all the sins you never had the courage to commit.--Oscar Wilde Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.--Oscar Wilde I want to fill my mouth with your name.— Pablo Neruda

05-15-2014, 10:20 AM	#220
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	There is nothing hotter than a big butch __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"