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Old 01-07-2014, 05:55 AM   #121
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I was asked by a hetero guy, at a meeting last year, during a discussion about sexuality and identity, if all lesbians are aggressive.

"No, we just save it all up for you Jason!" was my reply. There was no point in belabouring the point on how I actually identify.


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Actually, sometimes I hate men Especially when they do #10!
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I always get asked which one likes to be the man in the relationship and which one the woman????????
Just another myth men come up with. LOL

I usually just so neither to being a man and both to being a woman. It leaves them all confuckleminded. lmao
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Not really a myth, but I still somehow have people asking me in 2018 if I neeeed to use gay sex toys to have quality sex with a woman. Like as if they don't think cunnilingus, fingering or even scissoring is adequate enough! Pretty ridiculous, anyway that was my mini-rant
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Old 07-04-2018, 03:14 PM   #125
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Not really a myth, but I still somehow have people asking me in 2018 if I neeeed to use gay sex toys to have quality sex with a woman. Like as if they don't think cunnilingus, fingering or even scissoring is adequate enough! Pretty ridiculous, anyway that was my mini-rant
And how would you differentiate `gay sex toys` from `straight sex toys` ?

Surely a sex toy can be used by any sexual orientation ?
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...the term "lesbian sex".

When I'm having sex I never think "Hey, this is really good lesbian sex" just as when I eat breakfast and think "These are seriously good lesbian eggs", you know?

It's just sex.

I also hate when anyone asks "Who's on top?" It shows how people only see sex through the antiquated view of gender - that someone's gotta be the girl, and someone's gotta be the boy.

I've also gotten some grief from being "too femme" from others. Mostly in college where the my wearing a sundress or having long hair was seen as some kind of "betrayal to the cause". I caved too - shaving my head, wearing less obviously "feminine" clothing - but I found I didn't like the hypocrisy of people who didn't like being told how to live their lives...telling me how I should live mine.

...just my two cents worth.
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