Butch Femme Planet  

Go Back   Butch Femme Planet > FUN > The Fluffy Stuff: Flirting, Humor, Chat

Notices

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 05-28-2018, 12:07 PM   #13941
Reach
Member

How Do You Identify?:
On the strong side of the masculine spectrum
Preferred Pronoun?:
Butch
Relationship Status:
Single
 
Reach's Avatar
 

Join Date: Apr 2018
Location: On the farm
Posts: 115
Thanks: 314
Thanked 331 Times in 103 Posts
Rep Power: 4123837
Reach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST ReputationReach Has the BEST Reputation
Default

How my work ethic does not change even on day's off. That is not necessarily a good thing.
Reach is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Reach For This Useful Post:
Old 05-28-2018, 12:18 PM   #13942
VintageFemme
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
Queer Femme
Relationship Status:
Spinster
 

Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Texas
Posts: 1,887
Thanks: 2,965
Thanked 6,205 Times in 1,309 Posts
Rep Power: 21474844
VintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST ReputationVintageFemme Has the BEST Reputation
Default Autumn

It's just too hot to be outside and I fear this may be a record heat Summer for us. I don't remember the last time it was this warm this soon. I Googled coolest weather city in the Summer yesterday LoL Seattle and Portland win. I should seriously think about relocating. Sorry for the whinefest, it's just a little hellish around here. {117 days until Autumn}
__________________
Wishmaker • Queer Feminist • Hopeful Pessimist • Photographer
www.faireunvoeu.com
VintageFemme is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to VintageFemme For This Useful Post:
Old 05-28-2018, 02:06 PM   #13943
Bèsame*
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
Femm
Preferred Pronoun?:
She
Relationship Status:
********
 
Bèsame*'s Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Missing the beach
Posts: 10,984
Thanks: 23,582
Thanked 29,942 Times in 7,403 Posts
Rep Power: 21474852
Bèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST Reputation
Default



this is on my mind
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
kisses

A kiss is a whisper in your mouth.
Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.
Bèsame* is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Bèsame* For This Useful Post:
Old 05-31-2018, 03:48 PM   #13944
Kobi
Infamous Member

How Do You Identify?:
Biological female. Lesbian.
Relationship Status:
Happy
 
39 Highscores

Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic.
Posts: 9,209
Thanks: 9,827
Thanked 34,329 Times in 7,614 Posts
Rep Power: 21474854
Kobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST ReputationKobi Has the BEST Reputation
Default


Some days, people are a giant pita. My new housekeeper cancelled the day before she was to start. Then the chiropractor made an adjustment booboo that necessitated a second trip. And then the USPS delivered my package to the wrong address.

I miss the days when people showed up as scheduled, did the work right the first time, and didnt make foolish errors.

__________________




Kobi is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 05-31-2018, 07:58 PM   #13945
Gemme
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, as in 'She's a GEM'
 
Gemme's Avatar
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: The roads are narrow here
Posts: 32,903
Thanks: 166,017
Thanked 94,039 Times in 22,134 Posts
Rep Power: 21474877
Gemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Taking stock of my life has been on my mind today. Sure, there are dark parts that I wish weren't there.... liars/users/abusers/etc... but overall, I'm good.

I have a roof over my head, food in my belly and clothes on my back. Of course, it could be better. I could win the lottery or suddenly find myself in the midst of a windfall. That would be great but it's seriously highly unlikely to happen so I can't sit around and wait for it.

Instead, I've made a plan that will help me get myself where I want to be financially/physically/emotionally/etc in time. It will be a journey to get there, but like everything else in this world, the journey is what makes it what it is.

Also, I'm thinking about whether taking someone to court would matter in the scheme of things.

Basically, deep stuff.
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
I'm misunderestimated.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Gemme is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 14 Users Say Thank You to Gemme For This Useful Post:
Old 06-02-2018, 05:41 AM   #13946
RebelDyke
Member

How Do You Identify?:
OSB, Butch lesbian, NOT ftm, or male
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, or Sir
Relationship Status:
Washington State is beautiful this time of year.
 
RebelDyke's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Chicago and Washington State
Posts: 241
Thanks: 265
Thanked 336 Times in 167 Posts
Rep Power: 3309294
RebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST ReputationRebelDyke Has the BEST Reputation
Default

I will never understand why people lie.

The whole push you away. Only to pull you back in and when they get caught. Their famous line is. It wasnt me. In fact. They gaslight. It was them. Its never me. I wouldnt do that because it is crazy

The lies we spin today are remembered in the futures of tomorrow. It's what you're doin in your tangled web. And I must say. Your past is damn ugly and twisted with all those lies. I dont know how you sleep at night with all these games.

Life is too short. Go out and enjoy peace. Enjoy nature. Look to the stars. Love unconditionally. You will be happier.

Right? Isn't that what they say?
RebelDyke is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to RebelDyke For This Useful Post:
Old 06-02-2018, 05:42 AM   #13947
JDeere
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
******
Preferred Pronoun?:
******
Relationship Status:
********
 
JDeere's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jul 2014
Location: ********
Posts: 15,108
Thanks: 27,478
Thanked 24,990 Times in 8,071 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855
JDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST Reputation
Default

That its gonna be another hot ass day outside. But I remind myself that this happens every year.
JDeere is online now   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to JDeere For This Useful Post:
Old 06-02-2018, 05:56 AM   #13948
Gemme
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, as in 'She's a GEM'
 
Gemme's Avatar
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: The roads are narrow here
Posts: 32,903
Thanks: 166,017
Thanked 94,039 Times in 22,134 Posts
Rep Power: 21474877
Gemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST ReputationGemme Has the BEST Reputation
Default

It's gonna be miserable for the first few hours of the day. I'm going to do my best to limit my time outside, but really only because my hair is on point and I don't want it to get ruined by the humidity.

__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
I'm misunderestimated.
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Gemme is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to Gemme For This Useful Post:
Old 06-02-2018, 08:49 AM   #13949
homoe
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
butch
Relationship Status:
Single
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle
Posts: 25,390
Thanks: 14,876
Thanked 22,925 Times in 10,083 Posts
Rep Power: 21474870
homoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputationhomoe Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Kobi View Post

Some days, people are a giant pita. My new housekeeper cancelled the day before she was to start. Then the chiropractor made an adjustment booboo that necessitated a second trip. And then the USPS delivered my package to the wrong address.

I miss the days when people showed up as scheduled, did the work right the first time, and didnt make foolish errors.

.......AMEN!
homoe is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to homoe For This Useful Post:
Old 06-02-2018, 12:41 PM   #13950
Bèsame*
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
Femm
Preferred Pronoun?:
She
Relationship Status:
********
 
Bèsame*'s Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Missing the beach
Posts: 10,984
Thanks: 23,582
Thanked 29,942 Times in 7,403 Posts
Rep Power: 21474852
Bèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST ReputationBèsame* Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by RebelDyke View Post
I will never understand why people lie.

The whole push you away. Only to pull you back in and when they get caught. Their famous line is. It wasnt me. In fact. They gaslight. It was them. Its never me. I wouldnt do that because it is crazy

The lies we spin today are remembered in the futures of tomorrow. It's what you're doin in your tangled web. And I must say. Your past is damn ugly and twisted with all those lies. I dont know how you sleep at night with all these games.

Life is too short. Go out and enjoy peace. Enjoy nature. Look to the stars. Love unconditionally. You will be happier.

Right? Isn't that what they say?
What? You took the words right out of my mouth!
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
kisses

A kiss is a whisper in your mouth.
Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.
Bèsame* is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-03-2018, 07:38 AM   #13951
Chad
Infamous Member

How Do You Identify?:
OFOS Stone butch
Preferred Pronoun?:
He
Relationship Status:
Confirmed bachelor
 
Chad's Avatar
 

Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: Texas
Posts: 5,267
Thanks: 10,706
Thanked 17,220 Times in 4,857 Posts
Rep Power: 21474850
Chad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST ReputationChad Has the BEST Reputation
Default On my mind

Home repair.

Looks like the fire alarm on my high ceiling is malfunctioning. I am pondering trying to fix it on my own or call an electrician.

The main issue is that I hate climbing the extension ladder when I am alone. I am not a young buck anymore. Ugh.

I am pondering the situation.

Chad is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Chad For This Useful Post:
Old 06-03-2018, 09:54 AM   #13952
Kätzchen
<<< ❤ >>>

How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Relationship Status:
Taking good care of me
 
Kätzchen's Avatar
 

Join Date: May 2010
Location: Pearly skies
Posts: 11,989
Thanks: 36,243
Thanked 22,244 Times in 7,140 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856
Kätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST Reputation
Default

My son's, my mom, family stuff. Mostly my mom and my boy's.
Kätzchen is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to Kätzchen For This Useful Post:
Old 06-03-2018, 07:40 PM   #13953
uglyboi
Member

How Do You Identify?:
As a one eyed pirate
Preferred Pronoun?:
Who Me?
Relationship Status:
Smooched Up
 
uglyboi's Avatar
 

Join Date: May 2011
Location: Close to Marty Albert Simon O'Donnell's house
Posts: 400
Thanks: 292
Thanked 1,197 Times in 322 Posts
Rep Power: 18722095
uglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputationuglyboi Has the BEST Reputation
Default Casper

I believe at times Beasley thinks I'm a ghost because sometimes she tells me that she can see right through me.
uglyboi is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to uglyboi For This Useful Post:
Old 06-03-2018, 07:49 PM   #13954
Kätzchen
<<< ❤ >>>

How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Relationship Status:
Taking good care of me
 
Kätzchen's Avatar
 

Join Date: May 2010
Location: Pearly skies
Posts: 11,989
Thanks: 36,243
Thanked 22,244 Times in 7,140 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856
Kätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST ReputationKätzchen Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by uglyboi View Post
I believe at times Beasley thinks I'm a ghost because sometimes she tells me that she can see right through me.
I hope you and your wife, Beasley, are doing well, it's good to see you out on the boards.
Kätzchen is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-04-2018, 09:10 AM   #13955
Dominique
Member

How Do You Identify?:
Female/Lesbian/half the athlete I used to be
Preferred Pronoun?:
she/her
Relationship Status:
Dates
 
Dominique's Avatar
 

Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: So proud to be a Pittsburgher
Posts: 1,467
Thanks: 2,539
Thanked 3,684 Times in 1,152 Posts
Rep Power: 21474846
Dominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST ReputationDominique Has the BEST Reputation
Default Purging possessions

I'm heading towards a minimalistic lifestyle. I'm on my second round of "pitching" things and it's slightly easier. BUT NOT EASY. If it was, I'd be done by now. The whole process is emotionally draining. If i could just open a drawer and throw it all away, but NO! I have to (for some strange reason) look at almost everything and reminisce.
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


As long as there was coffee in the world, how bad could things be??
Dominique is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 8 Users Say Thank You to Dominique For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2018, 01:51 PM   #13956
Medusa
Mentally Delicious

How Do You Identify?:
Queer High Femme, thank you very much
Preferred Pronoun?:
Mme.
Relationship Status:
Boo'd Up with JD
 
Medusa's Avatar
 

Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Boots of Leather
Posts: 10,319
Thanks: 5,875
Thanked 41,828 Times in 7,708 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855
Medusa has disabled reputation
Default

Never say "never", especially in matters of the heart
__________________
.
.
Love, thy will be done.
Medusa is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 7 Users Say Thank You to Medusa For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2018, 02:58 PM   #13957
2qt
Member

How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, her..
Relationship Status:
Single
 
2qt's Avatar
 
1 Highscore

Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Mothership
Posts: 809
Thanks: 747
Thanked 1,773 Times in 526 Posts
Rep Power: 14132641
2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation2qt Has the BEST Reputation
Default

That I sometimes struggle to understand why, how or what.....
2qt is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to 2qt For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2018, 08:25 PM   #13958
JDeere
Practically Lives Here

How Do You Identify?:
******
Preferred Pronoun?:
******
Relationship Status:
********
 
JDeere's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jul 2014
Location: ********
Posts: 15,108
Thanks: 27,478
Thanked 24,990 Times in 8,071 Posts
Rep Power: 21474855
JDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST ReputationJDeere Has the BEST Reputation
Default

Getting all the stuff packed into boxes and moved into the bathroom so we can have new carpet put in.
JDeere is online now   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to JDeere For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2018, 08:50 PM   #13959
Happyfemme
Member

How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
She
Relationship Status:
Single
 

Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: United States
Posts: 1,160
Thanks: 13,610
Thanked 3,611 Times in 1,065 Posts
Rep Power: 19461128
Happyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST ReputationHappyfemme Has the BEST Reputation
Default

I am wondering if the fact that my now ex partner and I were not able to make things work may be due, in part, to the fact that she does not perform gender in a masculine or butch way. She did have some qualities related to more butch type activities but she does not identify as butch. I very strongly identify as femme and find that the energy and balance of a butch femme relationship works so well for me. I enjoy even the small things like someone opening the door, helping me with heavy items, ordering both of our dinners at the restaurant, and the butch confidence and dominance within certain aspects of the relationship. I know everyone is different so this is just my thoughts about the matter. Thank you for reading my post.
Happyfemme is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 8 Users Say Thank You to Happyfemme For This Useful Post:
Old 06-04-2018, 10:53 PM   #13960
FireSignFemme
Senior Member

How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Relationship Status:
Taken
 
2 Highscores

Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: WA
Posts: 2,241
Thanks: 22,714
Thanked 5,123 Times in 1,511 Posts
Rep Power: 21474841
FireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST ReputationFireSignFemme Has the BEST Reputation
Default

I've been working on decluttering too. It feels like there needs to be some sort of 12 Step program around this because I'm finding it incredibly difficult to do. Well it's all done now... It's just I keep wanting to go back to certain boxes and retrieve stuff, I'm really having to white knuckle it to refrain from doing so. I watched this show once where some sort of psychic healer person was helping a woman declutter and they had to go over each piece and do this whole letting go ritual of saying goodbye to everything item by item. Oh and they had to thank the stuff they released/gave back to the universe too. One... item... at... a... time. Well I'm not Methuselah. I figure I've got maybe 30 good years left on this planet – I don't want to waste 10 of it on this crud. Nope I have to get rid of this stuff. Even then I'll still have all that stuff of mine in my son's storage unit to go through.
FireSignFemme is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to FireSignFemme For This Useful Post:
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -6. The time now is 11:36 AM.


ButchFemmePlanet.com
All information copyright of BFP 2018