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Old 01-21-2012, 11:36 PM   #1
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I am an older femme - I am not trying to create issues but I have noticed we are not very welcome in certain quarters - where are the women and butches (I will not get intol the label game for older femmes )cougar like skate boarding is not a crime!!
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Old 01-22-2012, 08:59 AM   #2
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I am an older femme - I am not trying to create issues but I have noticed we are not very welcome in certain quarters - where are the women and butches (I will not get intol the label game for older femmes )cougar like skate boarding is not a crime!!


What quarters have you experienced this in? I'm no spring chicken and haven't experienced it here or anywhere else..

Or maybe I didn't notice, there are some folks who are into Older Femme younger _____ kinda relationships, fucks, trists, rolls in the hay, gatherings, in bars.....
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What quarters have you experienced this in? I'm no spring chicken and haven't experienced it here or anywhere else..

Or maybe I didn't notice, there are some folks who are into Older Femme younger _____ kinda relationships, fucks, trists, rolls in the hay, gatherings, in bars.....
Agreed, I haven't noticed any ageism going on anywhere either, I mean besides the obvious threads that are geared towards those who are under 30. But then again, unless someone specifically gives their name, i just post under the assumption they are at least 18. I am sorry you've experienced that
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nor have I.....all the sandboxes are welcoming...and they all play nicely!!
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Speaking for myself, it's about a femme's maturity, which has nothing to do with age. Not sure where you're feeling like you don't fit in but certainly, if people attempt to make you feel uncomfortable or unwelcome, it isn't your problem, it's theirs.
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Make that another who has not been subjected to ageism. I spend most of my time in the threads and very little in chat but have found both places very welcoming nonetheless. I agree with ButchEire...don't the let the actions of a few ruin your experience here.

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