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Old 01-30-2018, 12:40 PM   #3681
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There's an lot of stuff going on for me, right now, so I'm lighting candles for me..... and for anyone else who needs extra support. Please hold good thoughts and positive energy, for me, today and in the coming days.
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Old 01-30-2018, 12:52 PM   #3682
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PLEASE, PLEASE, light a candle and pray for our special needs dog, Baxter! His skin cancer is back and he has surgery this coming Tuesday. He and his litter mate, Bo, turned 9 last month and both are epileptic. Our 12 yr old girl, Bailey, had to go on pain meds for severe arthritis. Please send healing energy to my poor babies.
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I need more than a candle. I need a freakin' bonfire.
I pray to whatever powers that be that this chapter of my life will conclude tonight without an epilogue. In fact, I'd like to just throw the whole damn book into the bonfire.

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Please keep Shystonefem in your good thoughts and prayers. She is having radiation treatment for thyroid cancer tomorrow (Monday morning). Thank you!
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Please keep Shystonefem in your good thoughts and prayers. She is having radiation treatment for thyroid cancer tomorrow (Monday morning). Thank you!
bulldog ty for letting us know ~ I have shy in a positive light in my heart & mind ~ tell her we r all behind her sending her strength . Do you Know where shy is getting her treatment ?
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Thank you so much everyone.

Thank you for the big hugs dee.

Thank you for your kind words, ocean. She went to the hospital and they gave her a radiation pill to take. She is home now. She sounded good. Tomorrow is supposed to be the worst, but hopefully, she is on the upward slope now to get rid of the cancer and get her thyroid better regulated. If not, they will remove it. I think she will feel better than she has in years once the doctors get everything under control.
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Thank you so much everyone.

Thank you for the big hugs dee.

Thank you for your kind words, ocean. She went to the hospital and they gave her a radiation pill to take. She is home now. She sounded good. Tomorrow is supposed to be the worst, but hopefully, she is on the upward slope now to get rid of the cancer and get her thyroid better regulated. If not, they will remove it. I think she will feel better than she has in years once the doctors get everything under control.

thanks for keeping us posted, sending more good vibes for her and hers.
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OMG.... Thank you Bully, thank you Dee, thank you Ocean and everyone else. I got this! I am going to kick cancer's ass but the good thoughts are amazing and something that I am so grateful for!

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Please keep Shystonefem in your good thoughts and prayers. She is having radiation treatment for thyroid cancer tomorrow (Monday morning). Thank you!
Big hugs to you both. I will light a candle.
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I'm just here to light candles of support for myself and others, today. I've been feeling discouraged, but yet I try to hold space in my heart for any positive outcome (in my situation and for others who may need extra support, too).

Thank you !

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A candle for my birth mother. Been told she has 3 months or less to live. And one for me to help me deal with this.
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I'm here to light candles of support for myself and others, and for my closest BFF who had surgery today, to determine the type of cancer that doctor's think she has.

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Coming in quietly and lighting candles for all that need them.]
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I'm here to light candles of support for myself and others, and for my closest BFF who had surgery today, to determine the type of cancer that doctor's think she has.

My BFF/ sister-in-law made it through surgery, but we won't know the outcome until next week. So I'm here again today, to light candles for her, and for others too.

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Lighting a candle for my partner. She's the caretaker for her dad and uncle and they both passed away within days of each other.
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My BFF (sil) received news that she is cleared of cancer. They got everything out and her subsequent tests came back negative, so that's good news for our family.

I'm here again today to light candles for Orema and her partner....

And maintaining candles for myself and others, as well.
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I'm just here again today to light a few candles and maintain vigil for my BFF (sister-in-law) who's having a terrible struggle with her health (Lupus, etc), and for others in our community.

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