What are your faults? - Page 10

RockOn · 03-27-2016, 04:15 PM

- tendency to cut and run, accept my losses

- when I have had enough, I do "aloof" very well (counselor told me about that years ago)

- intolerant of inconsiderate people (loud, rude, obnoxious, etc.)

- the passive-aggressives annoy me tremendously, I tend to want to pull a verbal fight out of them

... deeply ashamed of that one

- I was trusting to a fault years ago, now I have no trust resources left, I used them up ... wish it weren't true but today I always think I am being lied to (even when I am not)

okay, enough for now but I am sure there are lots more

girl_dee · 05-22-2017, 03:33 AM

i wear my heart on my sleeve, i need to keep it in my pocket

homoe · 05-22-2017, 06:25 AM

I'm to jaded...................

AmazonDC · 05-22-2017, 06:54 AM

I work entirely too much and forget skmetimes to take care of Me... need My grl here for that part.lol

Kätzchen · 05-22-2017, 06:58 AM

I think being cynical or jaded is a pretty nice 'fault' to have around, some days.

<<<<~~ somewhat cynical, somewhat jaded. 92 percent sweet and thoughtful (my other equally troubling 'fault').

Mel C. · 05-22-2017, 10:35 AM

I have a low self esteem which leads to being easily offended. Sometimes being offended leads to lashing out. Lashing out leads to feeling guilty and beating myself up, which causes low self esteem and the cycle begins all over again.

NavyButch · 05-22-2017, 02:56 PM

I trust way to easy and quickly- absolutely a fault- and something I work on constantly.

Logicaly · 05-22-2017, 03:11 PM

My confidence isn't always what it should be, making social interactions very hard for me some times. I have had a long struggle with social anxiety, it has much improved but it is always there, holding me back in some way.

akiza · 05-22-2017, 03:12 PM

some friends said that i'm distant true but i call that i'm introverted and shy and not wanting to talk much;defensive and angry true too but i've got reasons to be like that friends males who like to tell me stupids love declarations wtf? judgementals homophobic youngs in my high school yes,not nice because i refuse boyfriends no fuck buddy,dreamer,silencious and don't show much my feelings but emojis are nice lol ^^ when i exprime myself on line i've maybe forget others things ^^

Soft*Silver · 05-22-2017, 04:06 PM

well, I still have denial that I am physically limited, so I dream up projects to do and then need help finishing them. And sometimes there just isnt someone to help finish them so I will push myself to do it and end up hurting myself.

I use to be very athletic and buff...then the car accident happened and I gained weight, lost muscle, developed weakness, and battle balance issues. It makes me VERY angry to this day, even tho its been a decade since the accident

girl_dee · 05-22-2017, 04:24 PM

i tend to want to run and exit before i get hurt, and have missed and nearly missed out on some great connections because of misplaced fear

Glenn · 05-23-2017, 03:36 PM

I smoke so much that anyone who lives with me, including me, will probably be dead in a year

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cathexis · 05-23-2017, 06:19 PM

Cynical, distrusting, get scared often then lash out, wound too tight requiring major surgery to loosen up, a hermit, smoke, too fat, out of shape, didn't age well (ugly for the past 20 years), hide from people, push people away when they get too close, and low self esteem. Want anymore? Sure I could think of 'em.

Stronghealer · 05-23-2017, 06:22 PM

too many to name

Stronghealer · 05-23-2017, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Stronghealer

too many to name

procrastinator,love to hard,impatient with myself and others at times.

gotoseagrl · 05-23-2017, 08:39 PM

~ Being fearful of history repeating itself sometimes & of things in general
~ Worrying too much about what other people think
~ Being gullible sometimes even when I shouldn't be
~ Being more shy than most people
~ Trying too hard at certain things
~ Too passionate
~ Right-brained which fights with OCD of my left brain
~ Hypersensitive & tend to hyperfocus on certain things
~ I keep my running shoes on

Bèsame* · 05-23-2017, 10:18 PM

my mouth doesn't engage with my brain

Gayandgray · 05-23-2017, 10:40 PM

I tend to give my friends the shirt off my back if they need it, yet when I'm the one who needs help they are always too busy. I think I'm too damned giving.

IrishAmazon · 05-23-2017, 11:02 PM

I am overly afraid of judgment.

So shy that just the thought of speaking to anyone because I want to makes me not only turning very beet red, and then turning tail, because no I can feel my heart jumping out of my chest.

I won’t talk about anything that actually has value to me. If it’s good it’s because it/you may leave and not come back, no matter how much I want you to know I won’t tell. Instead I will give you some other honest but much less personal complement. If it’s bad it is truly bad and I need to not be weak and deal, the worse it is the more I will regress from everything and everyone.

Someone told me quite a while back that I should speak less so people don’t know how stupid I am, I have yet to bounce back from that. I am afraid he was right.

girl_dee · 05-29-2017, 02:33 PM

i should come with a warning label.

05-22-2017, 06:58 AM	#185
Kätzchen Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Monogamously Attached ❤️ Join Date: May 2010 Location: Where it once rained daily but now it doesn’t. Posts: 15,092 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36,000 Thanked 32,003 Times in 9,945 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	I think being cynical or jaded is a pretty nice 'fault' to have around, some days. <<<<~~ somewhat cynical, somewhat jaded. 92 percent sweet and thoughtful (my other equally troubling 'fault'). __________________ Kätzchen _____ ______

05-22-2017, 03:11 PM	#188
Logicaly Member How Do You Identify?: Transgender Male Preferred Pronoun?: Male Relationship Status: She is the gamer girl to my gamer boy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California, Bay Area Posts: 683 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 395 Thanked 1,744 Times in 513 Posts Rep Power: 8641137	My confidence isn't always what it should be, making social interactions very hard for me some times. I have had a long struggle with social anxiety, it has much improved but it is always there, holding me back in some way. __________________ ~Logicaly~ Geeky guy extraordinaire Always and Forever

05-22-2017, 04:06 PM	#190
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,502 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,425 Thanked 15,619 Times in 3,976 Posts Rep Power*: 21474856	well, I still have denial that I am physically limited, so I dream up projects to do and then need help finishing them. And sometimes there just isnt someone to help finish them so I will push myself to do it and end up hurting myself. I use to be very athletic and buff...then the car accident happened and I gained weight, lost muscle, developed weakness, and battle balance issues. It makes me VERY angry to this day, even tho its been a decade since the accident __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

05-23-2017, 03:36 PM	#192
Glenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Northwest Wind and Lake Michigan Preferred Pronoun?: Paesano Relationship Status: Solo Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Indiana Dunes National Lakeshore Posts: 1,546 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,597 Thanked 3,732 Times in 1,096 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I smoke so much that anyone who lives with me, including me, will probably be dead in a year.

05-23-2017, 06:22 PM	#194
Stronghealer Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: the Bay Posts: 297 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 133 Thanked 349 Times in 98 Posts Rep Power: 7011896	:P too many to name

03-27-2016, 04:15 PM	#181
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,308 Times in 2,609 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	- tendency to cut and run, accept my losses - when I have had enough, I do "aloof" very well (counselor told me about that years ago) - intolerant of inconsiderate people (loud, rude, obnoxious, etc.) - the passive-aggressives annoy me tremendously, I tend to want to pull a verbal fight out of them ... deeply ashamed of that one - I was trusting to a fault years ago, now I have no trust resources left, I used them up ... wish it weren't true but today I always think I am being lied to (even when I am not) okay, enough for now but I am sure there are lots more

05-22-2017, 03:33 AM	#182
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	i wear my heart on my sleeve, i need to keep it in my pocket

05-22-2017, 06:25 AM	#183
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,586 Times in 14,918 Posts Rep Power: 21474889	I'm to jaded...................

05-22-2017, 06:54 AM	#184
AmazonDC Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: DC Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: colorado Posts: 499 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 346 Thanked 1,485 Times in 430 Posts Rep Power: 13453157	I work entirely too much and forget skmetimes to take care of Me... need My grl here for that part.lol

05-22-2017, 10:35 AM	#186
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,840 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I have a low self esteem which leads to being easily offended. Sometimes being offended leads to lashing out. Lashing out leads to feeling guilty and beating myself up, which causes low self esteem and the cycle begins all over again.

05-22-2017, 02:56 PM	#187
NavyButch Timed Out - Identity Issues How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Sir, Captain Join Date: Apr 2017 Location: Ashore Posts: 232 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 655 Thanked 742 Times in 195 Posts Rep Power: 0	I trust way to easy and quickly- absolutely a fault- and something I work on constantly.

05-22-2017, 03:12 PM	#189
akiza Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: khaleessi lol ^-^ just go with aki,ana,kit or princess Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2017 Location: Congo-brazzaville Posts: 774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 318 Thanked 622 Times in 284 Posts Rep Power: 0	some friends said that i'm distant true but i call that i'm introverted and shy and not wanting to talk much;defensive and angry true too but i've got reasons to be like that friends males who like to tell me stupids love declarations wtf? judgementals homophobic youngs in my high school yes,not nice because i refuse boyfriends no fuck buddy,dreamer,silencious and don't show much my feelings but emojis are nice lol ^^ when i exprime myself on line i've maybe forget others things ^^

05-22-2017, 04:24 PM	#191
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	i tend to want to run and exit before i get hurt, and have missed and nearly missed out on some great connections because of misplaced fear

05-23-2017, 06:19 PM	#193
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,710 Times in 1,603 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Cynical, distrusting, get scared often then lash out, wound too tight requiring major surgery to loosen up, a hermit, smoke, too fat, out of shape, didn't age well (ugly for the past 20 years), hide from people, push people away when they get too close, and low self esteem. Want anymore? Sure I could think of 'em.

05-23-2017, 08:39 PM	#196
gotoseagrl Senior Member How Do You Identify?: old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?: mermaid, very lucky babygirl Relationship Status: Saltwater mermaid ♡ Join Date: May 2010 Location: CA Posts: 2,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,192 Thanked 6,116 Times in 1,726 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	~ Being fearful of history repeating itself sometimes & of things in general ~ Worrying too much about what other people think ~ Being gullible sometimes even when I shouldn't be ~ Being more shy than most people ~ Trying too hard at certain things ~ Too passionate ~ Right-brained which fights with OCD of my left brain ~ Hypersensitive & tend to hyperfocus on certain things ~ I keep my running shoes on __________________ Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence

05-23-2017, 10:18 PM	#197
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: ☀️☀️☀️ Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 14,777 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 28,404 Thanked 39,538 Times in 10,208 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	my mouth doesn't engage with my brain __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

05-23-2017, 10:40 PM	#198
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,857 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,579 Thanked 12,910 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I tend to give my friends the shirt off my back if they need it, yet when I'm the one who needs help they are always too busy. I think I'm too damned giving. __________________

05-23-2017, 11:02 PM	#199
IrishAmazon Member How Do You Identify?: Hey Lady! Preferred Pronoun?: Ms. Relationship Status: Dancing in the sunshine and rain. Join Date: Jun 2015 Location: Northern Nevada Posts: 124 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 441 Thanked 436 Times in 114 Posts Rep Power: 5292844	I am overly afraid of judgment. So shy that just the thought of speaking to anyone because I want to makes me not only turning very beet red, and then turning tail, because no I can feel my heart jumping out of my chest. I won’t talk about anything that actually has value to me. If it’s good it’s because it/you may leave and not come back, no matter how much I want you to know I won’t tell. Instead I will give you some other honest but much less personal complement. If it’s bad it is truly bad and I need to not be weak and deal, the worse it is the more I will regress from everything and everyone. Someone told me quite a while back that I should speak less so people don’t know how stupid I am, I have yet to bounce back from that. I am afraid he was right. __________________ IrishAmazon

05-29-2017, 02:33 PM	#200
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	i should come with a warning label.