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Old 10-03-2017, 08:04 PM   #241
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Yes absolutely.

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Yup, I'm a pretty decent person. I'd date me
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seriously? no i wouldn't it'll be an hell worse than my dayly struggle
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Yes, I would definitely date myself.
It would feel like winning the lottery.

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Old 10-12-2017, 12:25 AM   #245
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This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?
Would I date a butch, sexually dominant version of myself?

No. Because I need someone that *compliments* my strengths and weaknesses, that interlinks with the way I work, no a carbon copy of my personality traits, that wouldn't work. That's like two puzzle pieces of the same shape.

I'm a quiet living extrovert that likes gregarious introverts. It works better than two extroverts. Two extroverts don't ever shut the fuck up.

I like people who have strong points where I suck.

Two people who are very chill about the same things don't ever make decisions, and stubborn about the same things, never make compromises.

Having similar values/needs/wants in a relationship would be great, yes. And similar interests would be fantastic. But that's about the only places I would find it beneficial.

too much similarity - we'd fight too much.
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Old 01-08-2018, 10:13 PM   #246
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I'd give it a go, but more with a view to making friends than finding a partner. I'd be concerned that with identical weaknesses, as a couple we'd screw up twice as bad on the things that I screw up on. I think I need that sense of occasional delightful surprise you get from an Other. But at least I'd know I'm completely trustworthy, and affectionate. Plus there'd be little sense of mystery to a relationship. Could be fun to double-date with, we'd likely cause minor havoc now and then with our respective dates!

(this is a fun thread - some of the responses here have had me in stitches!)
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Old 01-08-2018, 11:55 PM   #247
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Would be intrigued, but would rather hang out or else with.

Go out on a date, naw ... she's too boisterous and loud. You never know what she's going to say next.
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Old 01-22-2018, 11:31 PM   #248
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Yes, I would date myself. I'm kinda fun to date.
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Old 01-23-2018, 01:54 AM   #249
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Would definitely depend on the type of activity.
Gambling or Scrabble: yes
Chatterbox type activities: absolutely not - would lose some friends

Movies or any other activity not requiring conversation: absolutely
A party: not on my word
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Old 05-01-2018, 09:52 AM   #250
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I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.
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I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.
^ this is epic! Thanks for the laugh!
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sure...I'm a good kisser and I'm tall enough!

(Not that height really mattered, but it would be nice)
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Old 05-15-2018, 03:39 PM   #253
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I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.
Brilliant, LOL!!!
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Old 10-28-2018, 04:33 PM   #254
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Brilliant, LOL!!!
While I do like/love me and consider myself my closest ally, trouble is, I like femmes and I'm just not femme enough for me. Being single, me and I have a friends-with-benefits thing that'll do for now, but if the right femme comes along, I am breaking up with me. "It's not you, it's me, Wheat."
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Old 10-28-2018, 05:06 PM   #255
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Heck no!

I am butch and I like femmes. I am stubborn and a workaholic. I am never at ease.
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