Single Butches & Femmes Cafe - Page 10

Mr Nice Guy · 01-21-2012, 05:23 PM

Single and hanging out. Oh I forgot to say hi.... "Hi"

ScandalAndy · 01-21-2012, 05:46 PM

me too! single, hanging out, and looking for adventure!

SweetJane · 01-21-2012, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

Stopping by to say hi to everyone! Hope your Saturday is going great for you all.

Had an awesome time at lunch today with a couple of femme goddesses from here on the Planet. Love love LOVE being able to feel that connection, love my femme sisters! I really had not realized just how valuable that time is to me.

And the fact that I could bring up a scary, personal topic of a *sexual* nature to them, and not have them freak out about me, was awesome. Having to almost shout the question over the 50 frat boys in the restaurant, it was priceless! *grinning* Love having femme sisters to hang with!

I, too, enjoying hanging with the "family." I had a late lunch with a butch-femme couple I know today and it was great hearing how they met and they even answered some of my intimate questions, too. It's great when you can connect like that....

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 01-22-2012, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ElusiveButch

Single and hanging out. Oh I forgot to say hi.... "Hi"

Hi back at you, ElusiveButch! Hope your Sunday is going well!

APG

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 01-22-2012, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ScandalAndy

me too! single, hanging out, and looking for adventure!

Waving hi to you!! Glad to see you here. Now just how do you define "adventure"? (I know everyone's definition is different)

Mr Nice Guy · 01-23-2012, 06:34 AM

Hi APG and Lady's. Hope you all have a good week.

ScandalAndy · 01-23-2012, 06:36 AM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

Waving hi to you!! Glad to see you here. Now just how do you define "adventure"? (I know everyone's definition is different)

It's open-ended! Adventure is trying things I haven't tried before, or doing familiar things with new people, or making a discovery.

For example: I've been to my favorite sushi restaurant a bajillion times, but maybe the next time I go there will be a puddle to jump in before i get to the door, or i will go with someone who has never had sushi before, or the restaurant will have a special on some random thing I've never tried, or I will have a conversation with the people at the table next to me and make new friends, or on the way to the car afterwards I will find a treasure in the parking lot (I once found a penny with an irish harp on it that I am in love with).

ADVENTURE!

Leigh · 01-23-2012, 11:28 AM

Good morning to all of my single friends, I hope everyone has the best Monday that it can be

Mr Nice Guy · 01-23-2012, 12:12 PM

Crap! Sorry about typo. Ladies I meant. Thank you autocorrect.

clay · 01-23-2012, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ScandalAndy

It's open-ended! Adventure is trying things I haven't tried before, or doing familiar things with new people, or making a discovery.

For example: I've been to my favorite sushi restaurant a bajillion times, but maybe the next time I go there will be a puddle to jump in before i get to the door, or i will go with someone who has never had sushi before, or the restaurant will have a special on some random thing I've never tried, or I will have a conversation with the people at the table next to me and make new friends, or on the way to the car afterwards I will find a treasure in the parking lot (I once found a penny with an irish harp on it that I am in love with).

ADVENTURE!

aww that sounds like so much fun! I love to be silly and "make adventures" happen with a "spur of the moment" component to them.
I make one of my dear friends really frustrated with me..because I never ever make any sort of plans..I just "fly by the seat of my pants" so to speak..and amazingly ...everything I always want or need always happens or comes to me..I am truly so blessed in this life...and I have so many awesome angels walking with me.... Anyway I digress..
Carry on with your incredible adventures..been in any swamp bogs and tree brambles lately........hugs and have an awesome day my friend!! Clay

Leigh · 01-23-2012, 12:18 PM

*gives clay a huge hug* we still love you

Sweet_Amor_Taino · 01-23-2012, 12:30 PM

I could have not expressed it any better I agree ! I would like a femme who has or is close to retirement so we could enjoy time and travel together and not worry about showing up everydsay and the coorperative ladder.

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Originally Posted by AtLast

But, 'cept we are out here- more old school butches (yet very much appreciate youthful ideas and know other generations are forming their futures- had my chance to do so, now it is theirs), that is. LOL, but, I am ancient and simply at a point in my life in which where someone is in terms of their working life matters. Close to or at retirement, or semi-retirement is on my list of "essentials."

It is hard to meet "special" people throughout life, I believe. But also for someone my age, most have had the "love of their life" and have "divorced" after many years or their partner has died.

And I am not an old grumpy butch ready to kick it in. I like to think I am still viable and can turn a few femme heads... ;?).... Recently, I have become much more hopeful about possible romance again. You nevah' know!

ScandalAndy · 01-23-2012, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by claybaby

aww that sounds like so much fun! I love to be silly and "make adventures" happen with a "spur of the moment" component to them.
I make one of my dear friends really frustrated with me..because I never ever make any sort of plans..I just "fly by the seat of my pants" so to speak..and amazingly ...everything I always want or need always happens or comes to me..I am truly so blessed in this life...and I have so many awesome angels walking with me.... Anyway I digress..
Carry on with your incredible adventures..been in any swamp bogs and tree brambles lately........hugs and have an awesome day my friend!! Clay

heheheheh, no brambles and swamp-swimming for me lately. Worst I've done is gotten stranded north of Seattle at a hotel with no transportation, then two weeks later I got myself stuck at the aquarium in Baltimore while my friends were 20 mins outside the city. OOOPS!!! Luckily, both situations turned out okay in the end.

I'm also getting much better at handling stressful situations!

clay · 01-23-2012, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ScandalAndy

heheheheh, no brambles and swamp-swimming for me lately. Worst I've done is gotten stranded north of Seattle at a hotel with no transportation, then two weeks later I got myself stuck at the aquarium in Baltimore while my friends were 20 mins outside the city. OOOPS!!! Luckily, both situations turned out okay in the end.

I'm also getting much better at handling stressful situations!

lol@you...I would just imagine that wherever you may be and whatever you may be doing...there is ALWAYS some sort of "adventure" going on..you live life on YOUR terms..on YOUR turf....and YOU are UBER COOL to the MAXXXX...love to read all about your wanderings and adventures lady!! I am so glad you are getting better handling stressful situations....

Leigh · 01-23-2012, 12:54 PM

Gotta love living life to the max

msW8ing · 01-27-2012, 01:25 PM

Popping in to wish everyone a happy weekend.

gaea · 01-27-2012, 02:41 PM

Heres Hoping everyone a glorious weekend

Heavenleahangel · 01-27-2012, 03:52 PM

TGIF!!! Thats all I gotta say about that!

fever · 01-28-2012, 12:15 AM

Strange how things come in cycles. I was hibernating for a few weeks, now I am back at a pal's house watching movies, sleeping on the couch, listening to her snore, and tomorrow going dancing with another friend. It feels good to take off the muckluks (sp) and put on my dancing shoes!!!

Enjoy your weekend everyone!

uniquetobeme · 01-28-2012, 09:54 AM

Hello everyone. I'm kinda new to the planet and wanted to say hi. Thanks for this thread. I like to read entire threads before I post but some of them are sooooo long, pages and pages! LOL. Luckily, this wasn't too long :-)
I hope everyone has a wonderful day today :-).

01-21-2012, 05:46 PM	#182
ScandalAndy Member How Do You Identify?: human femme spitfire Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: it's official! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: east coast USA Posts: 1,167 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,758 Thanked 3,220 Times in 753 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	me too! single, hanging out, and looking for adventure! __________________ The joy of discovery is certainly the liveliest that the mind of man can ever feel. - Claude Bernard (1813-78)

01-23-2012, 11:28 AM	#188
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Good morning to all of my single friends, I hope everyone has the best Monday that it can be __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-23-2012, 12:18 PM	#191
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	gives clay a huge hug we still love you __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-23-2012, 12:54 PM	#195
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Gotta love living life to the max __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-27-2012, 01:25 PM	#196
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,498 Times in 655 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Popping in to wish everyone a happy weekend. __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

01-21-2012, 05:23 PM	#181
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Single and hanging out. Oh I forgot to say hi.... "Hi"

01-23-2012, 06:34 AM	#186
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hi APG and Lady's. Hope you all have a good week.

01-23-2012, 12:12 PM	#189
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Crap! Sorry about typo. Ladies I meant. Thank you autocorrect.

01-27-2012, 02:41 PM	#197
gaea Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west coast Posts: 3,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,630 Thanked 14,363 Times in 3,381 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Heres Hoping everyone a glorious weekend __________________ Gaea "Building a lifetime together one day at a time" Courage: the willingness to risk who you are for who you want to be and what you have for what you want You're not who your past says you are, you are who you choose to be today moving forward.

01-27-2012, 03:52 PM	#198
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,069 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675552	TGIF!!! Thats all I gotta say about that! __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach

01-28-2012, 12:15 AM	#199
fever Member How Do You Identify?: stonefemme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near Vancouver, B.C. Canada Posts: 592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 1,280 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 17783435	Good Evening Strange how things come in cycles. I was hibernating for a few weeks, now I am back at a pal's house watching movies, sleeping on the couch, listening to her snore, and tomorrow going dancing with another friend. It feels good to take off the muckluks (sp) and put on my dancing shoes!!! Enjoy your weekend everyone!

01-28-2012, 09:54 AM	#200
uniquetobeme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: In an awesome relationship Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 98 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 464 Thanked 306 Times in 85 Posts Rep Power: 2537684	Hello everyone. I'm kinda new to the planet and wanted to say hi. Thanks for this thread. I like to read entire threads before I post but some of them are sooooo long, pages and pages! LOL. Luckily, this wasn't too long :-) I hope everyone has a wonderful day today :-). __________________ Unique