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Old 01-25-2018, 06:06 PM   #141
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Que? What's the problem with buying 'em and wearing 'em, dear? (blinks, puzzled). If it involves a bit of a change of style, my advice, from being involved with the Goth and Steampunk scenes, is to first of all wear the new item around home, get used to it, it is a thing that YOU wear now. Then, one day you'll just step outside wearing the item without a thought.

This method has got me out of my flat looking like one of those mad old biddy Victorian lady explorers complete with pith helmet, and travel thus on public transport to a Steampunk get-together. Wear with confidence, and no-one will say a durned thing negative, is my experience.

Hope that helps!
Great advice. I think homoe should go for it.
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Old 01-25-2018, 06:18 PM   #142
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If only I had the guts to buy these! They fit my sense of style perfectly for casual wear.
My favorite shoes are a pair I bought during my 50th birthday celebration at Disneyworld. They're Crocs, hot pink and the holes are actually Mickey Mouses. At 50 I finally figured out I didn't really care what other people thought. I still smile every time I put them on which is frequent.

Get yourself those shoes! What are you waiting for?
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I buy and wear whatever i like. I dont let age or others opinions stop me from buying and wearing the shoes i wear.
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Old 01-28-2018, 10:40 PM   #144
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I started wearing guys shoes before I knew I was gay or butch... long before. I've always worn guys athletic shoes cuz they're made better. Cleats... hightops... whatever... always the guys version.

Nowadays... even if I weren't butch I'd figure out a way to wear mens shoes... unisex ... and all that. They're still made better than women's and are more comfortable when you have to be on your feet all day.
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I started wearing guys shoes before I knew I was gay or butch... long before. I've always worn guys athletic shoes cuz they're made better. Cleats... hightops... whatever... always the guys version.

Nowadays... even if I weren't butch I'd figure out a way to wear mens shoes... unisex ... and all that. They're still made better than women's and are more comfortable when you have to be on your feet all day.
I wish I could wear men's shoes but I can't, my feet are way small, so boys shoes work!
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Old 02-07-2018, 09:48 PM   #146
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I wish I could wear men's shoes but I can't, my feet are way small, so boys shoes work!
I bet that is frustrating. There must be a lot of styles you want to wear but can't. Are you that far off from a men's size?
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I bet that is frustrating. There must be a lot of styles you want to wear but can't. Are you that far off from a men's size?
yes I wear a 4.5 wide in boys sizes. I'm like 1.5 or 2 sizes off from mens.
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yes I wear a 4.5 wide in boys sizes. I'm like 1.5 or 2 sizes off from mens.
That sucks. That's like a woman's 6 I guess. Sorry, bud.
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yes I wear a 4.5 wide in boys sizes. I'm like 1.5 or 2 sizes off from mens.
I can't wear men's shoes either and it is definitely frustrating. Boy's shoes, in my opinion, aren't very comfortable. Then again, the manufacturer probably doesn't think that a big old butch (me) will be wearing them.
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I bought a pair of ADIDAS shoes today, and omg they fit perfectly!

Cost me under 80 bucks!
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