What have you learned? - Page 4

Just_G · 03-16-2012, 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cajun_dee

Amen to THIS.

And I didn't mean that in a bad way....I have simply found that when people say they are "X", then they are always going to be "X"....they might change their ways for a while, but they always end up going back to "X". Does that make sense?

(and this is just MY personal experience I am speaking of)

girl_dee · 03-16-2012, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just_G

And I didn't mean that in a bad way....I have simply found that when people say they are "X", then they are always going to be "X"....they might change their ways for a while, but they always end up going back to "X". Does that make sense?

(and this is just MY personal experience I am speaking of)

i knew exactly what you meant, and i agree and that is my experience too

firegal · 03-17-2012, 12:33 AM

Well it time for me to learn about me AGAIN.

rediscover thine self! I have been so self absorbed in things that just were putting me in a place of emptyness and pain.

So its not so much about what ive learned but looking forward to the process of me LEARNING!

Terry

Corkey · 03-17-2012, 01:26 AM

I have learned when the time comes and I stop learning I will be ashes.

Okiebug61 · 03-17-2012, 07:31 AM

I've learned that loving someone is not only something in the opened eyed present but in the blind future. Thankfully she loves the same way.

kittygrrl · 03-17-2012, 11:44 AM

I've learned, I don't miss coffee, a healthy smoothie gives me tons more energy..coffee is a drug

Ginger · 03-17-2012, 06:58 PM

Today I learned how satisfying it is to sleep, what a beautiful place sleep can be.

kittygrrl · 03-18-2012, 12:50 PM

... there is no such thing as forever..or should i amend that with forever can have very different contexts depending on who is using it..people will lie to you, and lie to themselves..make sure you are clear & honest if you decide to use that term in your relationships to avoid disappointment altogether don't use it at all (imo)here & now is where your focus should be, evaluate & make sure it's what you need not want you wish it to be

girl_dee · 03-18-2012, 07:28 PM

i've learned that you can become colder more jaded each time something hits you right in the face. Sometimes i wish i could learn never to let anything hurt me, ever again, then i could say i learned to shut off my hurt.

Martina · 03-18-2012, 07:46 PM

i've learned that people don't mean half the shit they say.

scootebaby · 03-18-2012, 07:51 PM

I have learned...

there has to be ugly in the world to help us appreciate the beauty more

some ppl need to try to run you down to make themselves look/feel better.

that people who really wanna know you will take the time to do so

i want to be a better person.

girl_dee · 04-07-2012, 06:34 AM

i've learned that life is just not all puffy clouds and rainbows. Those things are part of it, but living the reality of daily life, not a fantasy, is what i need in my life. i've learned i don't do well with not having a future laid out, goals, budgets, and a plan to meet those goals. i won't go through life coasting and not knowing, i need concrete plans and the action behind the plan. i've learned i need someone in my life who leads by example, not just empty words, i've learned i lose faith in people when they say one thing and do another, i've learned i need people in my life who make life happen for themselves, not let life happen to them. i have learned that i thrive with someone who gets all of this, wants to live a real life with me, and not play in a virtual bubble of playing house.

~ocean · 04-07-2012, 06:35 AM

i have learned always to trust my own instincts

)))

bkisbutchenuff · 04-07-2012, 07:04 AM

I have learned ... people do not present themsleves honestly - but as they want you to believe they are...
Also - I have learned that so many people are selfish and self centered...
I refuse to be that way or to give up hope!

ruffryder · 04-16-2012, 07:39 PM

Never make someone your priority, if you're only their option.

Okiebug61 · 04-17-2012, 03:48 PM

I have learned that my patience is actually getting better as I get older. :-)

girl_dee · 04-17-2012, 05:45 PM

i am learning that i self impose stress and then don't handle it well

Metro · 04-17-2012, 06:38 PM

"Be weird. Be random. Be who you are. Because you never know who would love the person you hide."

@thecoolhunter on Twitter

sara-bera · 04-17-2012, 06:40 PM

Take nothing for granted. Ever.

MrSunshine · 04-17-2012, 07:05 PM

Life really is short. It's over in the blink of an eye.

03-17-2012, 12:33 AM	#63
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03-17-2012, 01:26 AM	#64
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03-17-2012, 07:31 AM	#65
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03-18-2012, 12:50 PM	#68
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03-18-2012, 07:51 PM	#71
scootebaby Timed Out How Do You Identify?: yes dear Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: south florida Posts: 2,494 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,264 Thanked 6,737 Times in 1,777 Posts Rep Power: 0	I have learned... there has to be ugly in the world to help us appreciate the beauty more some ppl need to try to run you down to make themselves look/feel better. that people who really wanna know you will take the time to do so i want to be a better person. Last edited by scootebaby; 03-18-2012 at 07:55 PM. Reason: forgot one :)

03-17-2012, 11:44 AM	#66
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03-18-2012, 07:28 PM	#69
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03-18-2012, 07:46 PM	#70
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,367 Times in 4,171 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	i've learned that people don't mean half the shit they say.

04-07-2012, 06:34 AM	#72
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04-07-2012, 06:35 AM	#73
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04-16-2012, 07:39 PM	#75
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