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Describe Mr/Mrs Wonderful
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Something fun on a Monday night.... No holds barred.... describe your perfect partner.... |
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Hmmm. That's hard I guess the basics for me would be someone who is on my level that I can connect physically spiritually and emotionally. Someone. I trust without reservation.
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Lets see... describe my perfect partner...
Ummm...definitely has to be butch. 2. SHORT hair. 3. A good sense of humor. 4. Must be able to type a complete sentence including knowledge of the use of nouns, verbs, adjectives and adverbs. 5. Has a job in the medical field or is a chef or cop. 6. Will give me my space when I need it. 7. Affectionate. |
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A good sence of humor is a must.
Can cook. Dosent mind some of the stupid stuff I do and can laugh at it right along with me cause being dyislex can be doawn right crazy at times. Me mindfull if the rest of my idiocys..think absent minded proffessor. Like fur kids. Be adventurious. Good kisser dosent hurt. Understan I have a fetish for hawiian shirts. |
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wrote this earlier...seems like a good spot to put it...
The perfect (for me) femme...
-Is true to her sense of self, faithful & honest -Appreciates my cheeziness, but doesn't fall for it -Is sweet & silly & loving.......& passionate -She has a huge heart, loves affection, is understanding, & giving -Loves sweet kisses, "us" time, & life's simple pleasures....& fits perfectly in my arms -She is independent, stubborn, & fiesty...but can come home to being taken care of & loved up on -She is smart, sexy, & beautiful(inside & out) & has the ability to just say "thank u" when I tell her -She loves her family.....& tolerates my friends -She knows my story, faults, dreams, & fears...& loves me anyway -She can reach the depths of my soul with just one look -& she actually has an answer every time I ask what she is thinking
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...simply loves me wonderfully.
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Mrs. Wonderful...
She's wonderfully delicious...
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07-24-2013, 04:26 AM | #10 |
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Isn't covered in tattoos Drop dead gorgeous Likes sparring with words Is an enthusiastic masochist Has passion for her 'subject(s)' Empathic Isn't bothered about towering over me when she wears heels Likes my jokes Can crack a funny line An ability to dance is a bonus Being able to sing and harmonise with me a distinct bonus Happy to skin anchovies and peel shrimp for me Likes cats...love me, love Her Royal Greyness, we're a package. A sense of her own style Oh and has a great 'rack' please |
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07-24-2013, 05:37 AM | #11 |
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i am my own Ms Wonderful....
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Someone who has their life on the same level as mine. Someone with the same goals, values, integrity. Someone achieving their dreams.
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My Ms./Mr. Wonderful would be a smart, fun, sane, stone butch leather top. And I mean butch, NOT male. She would have to be scrupulously honest, financially solvent, and not actively addicted to any substances or to alcohol. She would have to be an interesting person, and well informed, too. I'm not opposed to a mildly paternalistic butch, but she would have to be a feminist. Ideally she would be a very sexual person who would be able to match me in that department. She should be larger than me in at least one dimension, but that isn't particularly hard. Being a snappy dresser isn't imperative, but it certainly helps. I'm a sucker for a butch in a well fitting suit. Motorcycle riders get extra points with me, too. Finally, and most importantly, she would have to be someone who could be my rock solid best friend. I want to be with someone who I know I can depend on, just as she would be able to depend on me.
I understand that this is a tall order. I may be submitting my list early for my next life.
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I will start by saying that I am not searching for a partner.
If I met Ms. Wonderful to me she would be a OFOS femme. She would be educated, have common sense, career minded, and driven. She would be positive, kind, generous, and generally sweet with a great sense of humor. She would not need me for anything but she would choose to spend time with me. She would have a solid sense of self, confident, and have solid morals and values similar to mine. |
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and yeah, rock solid friendship *sigh*. put one in for me. I'm fairly certain I'm a spinster from here in and I've made my peace with that. But if I do hafta come back, I'll early order now too. |
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I don't know. Really don't at this point. Kind and funny. Reasonable. If people aren't smart, they tend not to be attracted to me. So that is usually there.
An observer of boundaries. Playful but not immature. Not walking around oblivious to others. Basically kind and fun. What's the point otherwise? If you still have extraordinary ego needs at our age, OMFG no. Be relatively secure and enjoy time alone with yourself. Don't be constantly shopping for validation. Like pets. Be on the left politically. Do not be controlling or opinionated about little things I do. Couples like that live a nightmare existence IMO. Have a fucking life of your own. Don't be boring. Quiet is fine. Even random riffs on stupid stuff. But have some interesting reactions to life. Read books. Care about people and the planet. In your job or somewhere in your life, show that you are doing something about it. Respect my time. I am not going to run your errands or do your paperwork. I mean, shit. Be considerate with decent manners. Not bone selfish. Be able to support yourself including provisions for care when you age or become disabled. Basically BE a grown up who has the playfulness and wonder of a child somewhere inside.
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Be kind, honest, intelligent, good sense of humor, have a positive outlook on life, be a complement to my gender/sexual identity (e.g. femme, submissive, etc). Beyond that we just have to see how well we get along. I don't like having a long list of requirements. I would rather be pleasantly surprised.
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-Witty. Likes banter, a lot. -Is busy themselves so never pressures me for time. -Likes to buy me little gifts when they visit (my favourite oranges/ cat nip for guv/ a little octopus clip they saw somewhere, little things that show they were thinking of me and they know who I am and what I like). -Likes to go with me (organise them, but doesn't need to pay for them) on little city break trips or day drives into the mountains/beaches for tea (4pm meal) - we both work really hard and need to get out on regular little breaks. - doesn't drink much, doesn't smoke pot or take hard drugs. - loves cats - loves long talks, we just click that way, always have something fun to talk and banter or discuss. - likes film, has similar netflix taste as me lol. - into some science-y stuff so we can go do fun sciencey things together now and then. - into kink but not 24/7 leather lifestyle - as for monogamy or not... I don't really care either way. As long as I *know* they are deeply loyal to me, really want me as a partner. a) But if they are non-monog, then ideally we have the same sort of values around it. b) If monog, it's ok if there are times when we *don't* see each other every week. And we don't talk every day. We love talking to each other, but we don't feel the need to "check in" daily to feel connected to each other. - Asks me if I need help with errands if we are driving somewhere for a date eg: did you want to pick up cat litter? Let's grab that form from the post office that you need while we are out. <3 this is a huge deal to me. It means they are aware of my life and what goes on it, and they are showing how much they care by offering help. That means SO much more to me than "I love you." - someone emotionally steady, secure: no huge jealousy issues, no big temper problems (I don't mind raised voices, but no explosive tempers), is aware of their own issues and baggage and works on it. - is NOT "socially conservative" - I do have some quiet, private ways of expressing traditions in my way, but I am not into "femmes should not get phone calls from butches she doesn't know if she has a partner" stuff. That doesn't float with me. - deeply respects my independence, my choices, my free time, and does not attempt to put "rules" on my behaviour (in my life on my time, how I treat them they have every right to have boundaries around) or my life. They can make decisions about my choices (like I'd rather not date people who smoke pot), and they can discuss my choices if they think it impacts them - and we can come to agreements. But no one gives me rules about my life outside of them. What forms between us is an organic dance step that we make up on our own according to how we fit together best. Not how we "should" or how we are "supposed" to. And because of that custom fit dance, we hopefully do it for a very long time. |
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