Singles - Page 10

Liam · 07-09-2010, 10:49 AM

Thank you Zimmy, for starting a thread for singles, of all identities. I hope everyone has a cool weekend.

Zimmeh · 07-09-2010, 11:34 AM

Good Afternoon Liam,

You are welcome...I am a music junkie, some of my fave bands are Motley Cure, The Cure, NIN, Manson and PitBull...My iPhone has almost one gig of music on it and I am going to upgrade to the 16 gig iPhone so I can put more music on it...

Hope you are having a good day,

Zimmy

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Originally Posted by Liam

Thank you Zimmy, for starting a thread for singles, of all identities. I hope everyone has a cool weekend.

Zimmeh · 07-09-2010, 08:31 PM

Hope everyone is having a wonderful end to their Friday nights and their work week...

I am off to La La Land and since my roommate is off this weekend, I get to sleep in..Woohoo...I might make a trip to visit my mom in NSB, FL and go swimming...

Have a wonderful Friday night!!!

Zimmy

Sachita · 07-11-2010, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Berlmeister

fishing? figuratively or literally? I'm always up for good conversation with an intelligent woman. Hit Me up in yahoo somtime...

as in dropping a line. There are some great trout spots waterfalls up this way.

lipstixgal · 07-11-2010, 10:12 AM

Single in NJ not much to do but watch some mindless tv with the dogs and the A/C!!

Liam · 07-11-2010, 10:15 AM

Puttering with wood and tools will be the highlight of this single's day.

MysticOceansFL · 07-11-2010, 10:42 AM

Have a great week end everyone!

Lady Pamela · 07-11-2010, 11:56 AM

Good afternoon everyone. Hope your all having a beautiful day today.

Just thought I would stop on by and see who else on here is flying solo..lol

If ya wanna know more then message me...smiles

I am always up to meeting new friends.

Cowboi · 07-11-2010, 12:50 PM

I am a free agent here in hot humid Louisiana!

Hope that everyone is having a relaxing day!

Berlmeister · 07-11-2010, 07:57 PM

I love to trout fish! I'm from WV...it's what We do!

naturlover_52 · 07-11-2010, 08:08 PM

Cool

I would love to go fishing here some time I just need to get my gear together..Don't have anything. Since I moved back home and don't feel like asking a friend to send it down from alaska...just 1 pole. I need to get all new tackle.
Bummer.

Yes, flying solo here and it can get rather lonely here.
only been out of my last relationship about less than a yr BUT she was gone all last yr and very little contact other than by phone.

friskyfemme · 07-11-2010, 08:24 PM

Hello ya'll,

Hope you have a good week. It's hotter than hell right now and no relief in sight. Just about praying for a Monsoon.

naturlover_52 · 07-12-2010, 12:18 PM

This is something that I have been wondering or has been on my mind...
I know that there is the thread Butch/Butch Theory...and that sorta fits there but it kinda fits here too.
OK this is what has been on my mind and would like some in put or advice:
I am a 41 yr old soft butch in SO. Cal NOT too far from Pasadena. I have been out of my last relationship for about a yr, well from the time that she stopped calling me until she wrote me an email and told me that she had found someone else and was moving there to be w/ her and how compatible they were etc. Also I am mostly attracted to androgynous, soft butch and butch women.
I am a lil bit scared about meeting someone new because of the fact that it hasn't been that long since my last relationship, but technically our relationship was dying about 2 1/2 yrs ago.
MOSTLY why I am scared is because of the trust factor here and NOT knowing how to learn how trust again. That is what I was wanting to know...
Thanks.

Liam · 07-12-2010, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by naturlover_52

This is something that I have been wondering or has been on my mind...
I know that there is the thread Butch/Butch Theory...and that sorta fits there but it kinda fits here too.
OK this is what has been on my mind and would like some in put or advice:
I am a 41 yr old soft butch in SO. Cal NOT too far from Pasadena. I have been out of my last relationship for about a yr, well from the time that she stopped calling me until she wrote me an email and told me that she had found someone else and was moving there to be w/ her and how compatible they were etc. Also I am mostly attracted to androgynous, soft butch and butch women.
I am a lil bit scared about meeting someone new because of the fact that it hasn't been that long since my last relationship, but technically our relationship was dying about 2 1/2 yrs ago.
MOSTLY why I am scared is because of the trust factor here and NOT knowing how to learn how trust again. That is what I was wanting to know...
Thanks.

I don't have a formula for you to follow, and I think this would be a great reason to find a therapist, if you don't already have one, and discuss it with them. I think that its important to trust yourself, and when setting up that first meeting, be smart—let your friends know where you are going, preferably it is a public space. If its in another city, make sure your friends know the name, address and phone number of the person you are going to see. Have a friend that you can check in with.

Ebon · 07-12-2010, 12:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by naturlover_52

This is something that I have been wondering or has been on my mind...
I know that there is the thread Butch/Butch Theory...and that sorta fits there but it kinda fits here too.
OK this is what has been on my mind and would like some in put or advice:
I am a 41 yr old soft butch in SO. Cal NOT too far from Pasadena. I have been out of my last relationship for about a yr, well from the time that she stopped calling me until she wrote me an email and told me that she had found someone else and was moving there to be w/ her and how compatible they were etc. Also I am mostly attracted to androgynous, soft butch and butch women.
I am a lil bit scared about meeting someone new because of the fact that it hasn't been that long since my last relationship, but technically our relationship was dying about 2 1/2 yrs ago.
MOSTLY why I am scared is because of the trust factor here and NOT knowing how to learn how trust again. That is what I was wanting to know...
Thanks.

I agree with Liam and also want to add that when I'm interested in someone I watch the little things that they do. Some things may be insignificant to others but you can learn a lot about a persons character by little things that they do. It's also hard because sometimes unexpected circumstances lead to certain situations in life that people never thought they would be a part of. Good luck with your search.

Zimmeh · 07-12-2010, 04:44 PM

I agree with both Liam and Organicbutch. My ex thread stalked me before we started dating and when she decided to end the relationship, she threw a lot of stuff in my face that I had written on the other site over two years earlier when I first joined. From what I have seen, is that she still goes and looks at my profile page on the other site and has had her friends pm me here on this site to see what I will tell them of the breakup. I learned a hard lesson and one I won't repeat again. I have met some wonderful ppl from this site and the other site, and I haven't let what she did to me affect my trust in ppl.

Have fun today,

Zimmy

Quote:

Originally Posted by naturlover_52

This is something that I have been wondering or has been on my mind...
I know that there is the thread Butch/Butch Theory...and that sorta fits there but it kinda fits here too.
OK this is what has been on my mind and would like some in put or advice:
I am a 41 yr old soft butch in SO. Cal NOT too far from Pasadena. I have been out of my last relationship for about a yr, well from the time that she stopped calling me until she wrote me an email and told me that she had found someone else and was moving there to be w/ her and how compatible they were etc. Also I am mostly attracted to androgynous, soft butch and butch women.
I am a lil bit scared about meeting someone new because of the fact that it hasn't been that long since my last relationship, but technically our relationship was dying about 2 1/2 yrs ago.
MOSTLY why I am scared is because of the trust factor here and NOT knowing how to learn how trust again. That is what I was wanting to know...
Thanks.

Zimmeh · 07-12-2010, 04:47 PM

Good Afternoon Singles,

Hope everyone had a wonderful start to their week. I spent the day watching my oldest niece, nephew and baby nephew for my mom. It was hotter than hell outside today and I am glad to be home in the a/c.

Have fun tonight!!!

Zimmy

Cowboi · 07-12-2010, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by friskyfemme

Hello ya'll,

Hope you have a good week. It's hotter than hell right now and no relief in sight. Just about praying for a Monsoon.

It is hotter as hell here too. We did get some good rains over the pass 2 or 3 days. Now its hot as hell and steamy to boot!!! LoL.

Hurry up Fall!!!

lipstixgal · 07-12-2010, 05:35 PM

Still single here in NJ it gets lonely too wish I could meet that someone special. Oh and yeah it hot too in NJ!!

Zimmeh · 07-13-2010, 07:42 AM

Good Morning Everyone,

Hope you all have a good day and keep cool. They are predicting temps up near 95 degrees here today, so I am going to stay inside as much as I can.

Have fun today,

Zimmy

07-09-2010, 10:49 AM	#181
Liam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The Evergreen State Posts: 2,269 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,865 Thanked 6,909 Times in 1,862 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Thank you Zimmy, for starting a thread for singles, of all identities. I hope everyone has a cool weekend. __________________ <3 Love is weird.

07-09-2010, 08:31 PM	#183
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,441 Times in 4,316 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Hope everyone is having a wonderful end to their Friday nights and their work week... I am off to La La Land and since my roommate is off this weekend, I get to sleep in..Woohoo...I might make a trip to visit my mom in NSB, FL and go swimming... Have a wonderful Friday night!!! Zimmy __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe

07-11-2010, 10:15 AM	#186
Liam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The Evergreen State Posts: 2,269 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,865 Thanked 6,909 Times in 1,862 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Puttering with wood and tools will be the highlight of this single's day. __________________ <3 Love is weird.

07-11-2010, 10:42 AM	#187
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,035 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Have a great week end everyone! __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

07-11-2010, 11:56 AM	#188
Lady Pamela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A Lady..Femme..Free Spirit with a touch of survivalist woman in me. Preferred Pronoun?: Spiritual Warrior..She Ra..Baby Doll, or anything close..ha! Relationship Status: In perfect love and perfect trust I believe that will be directed..for now Just friends in my life. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Live in Utah but take trips to Arkansas. Plan to move there eventually. Posts: 2,579 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,073 Thanked 5,939 Times in 1,609 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Good afternoon everyone. Hope your all having a beautiful day today. Just thought I would stop on by and see who else on here is flying solo..lol If ya wanna know more then message me...smiles I am always up to meeting new friends. __________________ Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~~ Author unknown ~~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~~ Lady Pamela ~~

07-11-2010, 10:12 AM	#185
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494760	Single in NJ not much to do but watch some mindless tv with the dogs and the A/C!!

07-11-2010, 12:50 PM	#189
Cowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Holding My Red Circle Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Louisiana Posts: 1,811 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,051 Thanked 3,962 Times in 1,230 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I am a free agent here in hot humid Louisiana! Hope that everyone is having a relaxing day! __________________ Let There Be Cowgirls

07-11-2010, 07:57 PM	#190
Berlmeister Junior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch/trans Preferred Pronoun?: anything male identified Relationship Status: dating a bit Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: south carolina Posts: 21 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 77 Thanked 26 Times in 15 Posts Rep Power: 187	I love to trout fish! I'm from WV...it's what We do! __________________ an unexamined life is not worth living~socrates

07-11-2010, 08:08 PM	#191
naturlover_52 Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch/bi Preferred Pronoun?: she and her are just fine....Sweetcheeks hey you Relationship Status: seeing someone long distance but soon will be both in Ca love her very much Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: So Calif East San Gabrielle Valley aka the land of shake and bake Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 85 Thanked 89 Times in 44 Posts Rep Power: 3424	fishing Cool I would love to go fishing here some time I just need to get my gear together..Don't have anything. Since I moved back home and don't feel like asking a friend to send it down from alaska...just 1 pole. I need to get all new tackle. Bummer. Yes, flying solo here and it can get rather lonely here. only been out of my last relationship about less than a yr BUT she was gone all last yr and very little contact other than by phone.

07-11-2010, 08:24 PM	#192
friskyfemme Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: precious Relationship Status: down to earth Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arizona Posts: 332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 395 Thanked 370 Times in 152 Posts Rep Power: 827	Hello ya'll, Hope you have a good week. It's hotter than hell right now and no relief in sight. Just about praying for a Monsoon. __________________ Love and Light, FF

07-12-2010, 12:18 PM	#193
naturlover_52 Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch/bi Preferred Pronoun?: she and her are just fine....Sweetcheeks hey you Relationship Status: seeing someone long distance but soon will be both in Ca love her very much Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: So Calif East San Gabrielle Valley aka the land of shake and bake Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 85 Thanked 89 Times in 44 Posts Rep Power: 3424	just wondering This is something that I have been wondering or has been on my mind... I know that there is the thread Butch/Butch Theory...and that sorta fits there but it kinda fits here too. OK this is what has been on my mind and would like some in put or advice: I am a 41 yr old soft butch in SO. Cal NOT too far from Pasadena. I have been out of my last relationship for about a yr, well from the time that she stopped calling me until she wrote me an email and told me that she had found someone else and was moving there to be w/ her and how compatible they were etc. Also I am mostly attracted to androgynous, soft butch and butch women. I am a lil bit scared about meeting someone new because of the fact that it hasn't been that long since my last relationship, but technically our relationship was dying about 2 1/2 yrs ago. MOSTLY why I am scared is because of the trust factor here and NOT knowing how to learn how trust again. That is what I was wanting to know... Thanks.

07-12-2010, 04:47 PM	#197
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,441 Times in 4,316 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Good Afternoon Singles, Hope everyone had a wonderful start to their week. I spent the day watching my oldest niece, nephew and baby nephew for my mom. It was hotter than hell outside today and I am glad to be home in the a/c. Have fun tonight!!! Zimmy __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe

07-12-2010, 05:35 PM	#199
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494760	Still single here in NJ it gets lonely too wish I could meet that someone special. Oh and yeah it hot too in NJ!!

07-13-2010, 07:42 AM	#200
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,441 Times in 4,316 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Good Morning Everyone, Hope you all have a good day and keep cool. They are predicting temps up near 95 degrees here today, so I am going to stay inside as much as I can. Have fun today, Zimmy __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe