Gender Myths.... - Page 2

The_Lady_Snow · 05-12-2012, 01:51 PM

Myth-- Boys/Guys/Butches/Men don't wear make up...

aishah · 05-12-2012, 02:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by macele

i do this sometimes, ... i associate femme/nurturing. but i also consider myself to be nurturing.

very interesting. i think this is a topic of its own. can go rather deep.

i agree. i definitely see it in myself a lot, but i also feel boxed in by it sometimes.

aishah · 05-12-2012, 02:02 PM

myth: all femmes wear makeup and heels.

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 05-12-2012, 02:07 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by macele
i do this sometimes, ... i associate femme/nurturing. but i also consider myself to be nurturing.

very interesting. i think this is a topic of its own. can go rather deep.

Quote:

Originally Posted by aishah

i agree. i definitely see it in myself a lot, but i also feel boxed in by it sometimes.

I am a femme. I have also ALWAYS been very nurturing. I've always been the *nice* one. I also sometimes feel very boxed into that role, that expectation (either by someone else, or by me!)

girl_dee · 05-12-2012, 03:11 PM

myth = all femmes love butch cock

The_Lady_Snow · 05-12-2012, 03:12 PM

Myth-- Butches/Guys/Boys don't have long hair...

princessbelle · 05-12-2012, 03:14 PM

Myth: Femmes are not good at sports or even like sports.

Myth: Butches can't cook or clean.

Myth: Femmes who like froo froo and pink are not tough as hell.

girl_dee · 05-12-2012, 03:14 PM

myth = femmes belong on bottom

robbrt · 05-12-2012, 03:28 PM

Myth= Boys/Guys/Butches/Men don't have emotions or hurt feelings.

robbrt · 05-12-2012, 03:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Myth-- Butches/Guys/Boys don't have long hair...

and if they do myth: don't have it ponied with barrettes or pretty, shiny accessories in it.

girl_dee · 05-12-2012, 03:46 PM

myth = all butches want to use male pronouns

Gentle Tiger · 05-12-2012, 03:53 PM

femme/women/girls = highly emotional and make decisions based on emotions

butches/men/boys = make decisions on logic

girl_dee · 05-12-2012, 06:35 PM

myth = butches/ femmes cannot be abusers

Gentle Tiger · 05-12-2012, 08:47 PM

myth = gender always matches or determines sexual preference

Morgan · 05-12-2012, 09:50 PM

myth=A strong butch does not cry....

ruffryder · 05-13-2012, 12:09 AM

All butches and femmes identify as lesbian.

kittygrrl · 05-13-2012, 12:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Myth-- Butches/Guys/Boys don't have long hair...

i wish more would. it's hot

StoneOne · 05-13-2012, 01:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by robbrt

Myth= Boys/Guys/Butches/Men don't have emotions or hurt feelings.

adding Stone in there

Licious · 05-13-2012, 03:26 AM

Just found this thread. Part of me wishes we could compile it and make it mandatory reading for, well... lots of people.
*subscribing*

Chancie · 05-13-2012, 04:30 AM

Women aren't good at math.

05-12-2012, 01:51 PM	#21
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05-12-2012, 03:12 PM	#26
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,119 Times in 15,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	..... Myth-- Butches/Guys/Boys don't have long hair... __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

05-12-2012, 03:14 PM	#27
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,503 Times in 5,201 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Myth: Femmes are not good at sports or even like sports. Myth: Butches can't cook or clean. Myth: Femmes who like froo froo and pink are not tough as hell. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

05-12-2012, 03:28 PM	#29
robbrt Member How Do You Identify?: huckleberry/white patsy Preferred Pronoun?: she/her/mx Relationship Status: tectonically shifted road warrior Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Indiana Posts: 955 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,112 Thanked 904 Times in 457 Posts Rep Power: 2494129	Myth= Boys/Guys/Butches/Men don't have emotions or hurt feelings. __________________ marked. missioned. branded. scarred.

05-12-2012, 03:53 PM	#32
Gentle Tiger Moderator How Do You Identify?: As a Tiger of course Preferred Pronoun?: Not the Old Man Relationship Status: Two Tigers Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Northern California Posts: 7,492 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,001 Thanked 15,995 Times in 3,996 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	femme/women/girls = highly emotional and make decisions based on emotions butches/men/boys = make decisions on logic __________________ Please like

05-12-2012, 02:02 PM	#23
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,437 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	myth: all femmes wear makeup and heels.

05-12-2012, 03:11 PM	#25
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	myth = all femmes love butch cock

05-12-2012, 03:46 PM	#31
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	myth = all butches want to use male pronouns

05-12-2012, 06:35 PM	#33
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	myth = butches/ femmes cannot be abusers

05-12-2012, 08:47 PM	#34
Gentle Tiger Moderator How Do You Identify?: As a Tiger of course Preferred Pronoun?: Not the Old Man Relationship Status: Two Tigers Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Northern California Posts: 7,492 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,001 Thanked 15,995 Times in 3,996 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	myth = gender always matches or determines sexual preference __________________ Please like

05-12-2012, 09:50 PM	#35
Morgan Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, hy, hym, does not matter Relationship Status: I am enjoying life.... Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Arizona Posts: 643 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,753 Thanked 1,604 Times in 411 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	myth=A strong butch does not cry.... __________________ “If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is compromise.” Robert Fritz

05-13-2012, 12:09 AM	#36
ruffryder Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: guy ones Relationship Status: ... Join Date: May 2011 Location: chillin' in FL Posts: 3,690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,951 Thanked 9,678 Times in 2,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	All butches and femmes identify as lesbian.

05-13-2012, 03:26 AM	#39
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,974 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Just found this thread. Part of me wishes we could compile it and make it mandatory reading for, well... lots of people. subscribing __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

05-13-2012, 04:30 AM	#40
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,694 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,208 Thanked 14,346 Times in 2,667 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Women aren't good at math.