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Old 05-13-2012, 04:38 AM   #41
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Old 05-13-2012, 06:03 AM   #42
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Old 05-13-2012, 08:20 AM   #45
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Old 05-13-2012, 08:33 AM   #47
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Old 05-13-2012, 08:50 AM   #48
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Old 05-13-2012, 08:59 AM   #49
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Old 05-13-2012, 10:30 AM   #50
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femme/women/girls = highly emotional and make decisions based on emotions

butches/men/boys = make decisions on logic

I thought it was Democrats who made decisions based on emotion and Republicans make decisions based on logic. (at least that's what right wing talk radio says)

.....a derail but kinda of interesting when you think about it...
(democratic party=feminine, weak, emotional,
republican party=masculine, strong, logical)
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Old 05-13-2012, 10:34 AM   #51
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Myth: All butches don’t like femme cock

Myth: There is such a thing as all butches are __________
or all femmes are __________

I would imagine the only statement than can be made concerning all butches or all femmes is that all butches identify as butch and all femmes identify as femme. And that can be said about any gender identity.
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I thought it was Democrats who made decisions based on emotion and Republicans make decisions based on logic. (at least that's what right wing talk radio says)

.....a derail but kinda of interesting when you think about it...
(democratic party=feminine, weak, emotional,
republican party=masculine, strong, logical)
Excellent point. I do love how you think.
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Old 05-13-2012, 06:09 PM   #54
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Old 05-13-2012, 07:01 PM   #56
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Butches/ men/Transman don't experience abuse from femme/ female partners.

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I just wanted to thank you for posting this, because both myths came to my mind. I have been there (physically abused by a Femme) and am a transman and a mother. And now back to the myths...
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