Seeking Sexy Birthday Party Tips

foxyshaman · 07-08-2011, 09:17 PM

I am in serious need of some help.

I have taken on the task of hosting a

for two incredibly wonderful butch friends. One suggested I

, a request I gracefully declined. Especially when it was suggested I wear my corset and heels. After my polite, but firm, refusal it was suggested that I incorporate games.

I am going to sound like a total curmudgeon, I don't usually play games. At least not those kind.

So the first game I have I inherited from my kids, called Snakes and Shots. It comes with shot glasses, dice and a glass playing board (I believe it is anticipated you will spill a drink on it) It actually looks kinda fun. However I am a two shot sinker so I don't know how many rounds I could go!! But there are truth and dare squares. It has been suggested that one of the birthday girls gets to pick a question out of the pile to ask. I am responsible for the pile.

The other game that was thrown into the mix is "Spin the Bottle". Well when that was put out there I roared with laughter

...no seriously. We are all in our mid + forties and I don't think any of us have played that for decades!! *I can admit that I may be wrong on that*. I need cards for that game for the girls who do not want to kiss. One of my friends is a bit uptight, the other one...I don't know her well enough to guess. The two..."instead of kissing" cards I have so far are:

Say "make my coffee extra strong (see I do suck)" in your sexiest bedroom voice.

Another one suggested by one of the birthday gals of course is... show me your sexiest come on move. Now if I did have said shot or two mine would be moving slowly up the legs, biting at the crotch of her jeans, and undoing her belt with my teeth. So, ideas like that/

So. I believe the nature of the evening is to:

laugh
get sexy

laugh
get tipsy
laugh
get outside the box (metaphorical box of course)

Any and all help will be greatly appreciated!!!

DapperButch · 07-08-2011, 09:29 PM

Twister

After drinks:

Naked Twister

Dreams · 07-08-2011, 09:37 PM

how many will be attending?
will most be single?

weatherboi · 07-08-2011, 09:39 PM

Strip pin the tail on the donkey!!!

foxyshaman · 07-08-2011, 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch

Twister

After drinks:

Naked Twister

That made me laugh... cause it was suggested. Maybe I should hit up Amazon and see if they still exist. Naked twister.. ahhh now that would be a fun tipsy sight/event!!!

foxyshaman · 07-08-2011, 09:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dreams

how many will be attending?
will most be single?

It is a small event only 10 - 14.

foxyshaman · 07-08-2011, 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by weatherboi

Strip pin the tail on the donkey!!!

Soooo, how does this game work?

Dreams · 07-09-2011, 12:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by foxyshaman

It is a small event only 10 - 14.

ok..just my thought people..

start it with a strip club everyone included..no it isnt masochistic they do work for a living..many by their own choice

it has been my experience that the Femme's have more fun then we do.

then Finnish with fun and games at home..give it some flavor..

DapperButch · 07-09-2011, 06:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by foxyshaman

That made me laugh... cause it was suggested. Maybe I should hit up Amazon and see if they still exist. Naked twister.. ahhh now that would be a fun tipsy sight/event!!!

They do.

Seriously, though...it is cheap and you may want to consider having one around. With the age group you describe, everyone would have played it as a kid.

deb_U_taunt · 07-09-2011, 09:42 AM

butch birthday?

a pinada with cigars and dental dams and what ever else comes to mind?

LaneyDoll · 07-09-2011, 10:53 AM

Hmmm, what about turning the place into a old school Gentleman's Club? Offer cigars, liquor and poker? You could even dress as a sexy waitress. *think Playboy Club back in its heyday*

tapu · 07-09-2011, 11:16 AM

I think I'd have at least one activity that involved blindfolding.

foxyshaman · 07-10-2011, 12:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dreams

ok..just my thought people..

start it with a strip club everyone included..no it isnt masochistic they do work for a living..many by their own choice

it has been my experience that the Femme's have more fun then we do.

then Finnish with fun and games at home..give it some flavor..

Never even considered that. <insert fun raised eyebrow> Shall run it by the gals tomorrow....

foxyshaman · 07-10-2011, 12:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tapu

I think I'd have at least one activity that involved blindfolding.

Blindfolds.. <pleasant shudder> now that is something I will happily incorporate!!

foxyshaman · 07-10-2011, 01:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

Hmmm, what about turning the place into a old school Gentleman's Club? Offer cigars, liquor and poker? You could even dress as a sexy waitress. *think Playboy Club back in its heyday*

Laneydoll just wait till you hear my outfit!! I am so with you sister!! I am going to wear a beautifully fine cut man's blue dress shirt, that hangs to mid thigh (helps to be a whopping 5')...with arm bands. A beautiful purple tie. Leggings and five inch blue leather peek a boo toe drive you crazy kinda shoe... underneath a most gracious beautiful red corset. Not showing of course, one must be a lady.

Oh and I love the gentleman attire... I don't think that will be a hard sell at all!!

foxyshaman · 07-10-2011, 01:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Debby

butch birthday?

a pinada with cigars and dental dams and what ever else comes to mind?

foxyshaman · 07-10-2011, 01:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch

They do.

Seriously, though...it is cheap and you may want to consider having one around. With the age group you describe, everyone would have played it as a kid.

SOLD. I am going to Zellers tommorow.

foxyshaman · 07-10-2011, 02:51 AM

Okay so...

one of the questions was are party goers single or couples. The majority of them are in couples. I am not sure if I am going to be the only single woman there. Soooooo.... mmmmmwwwwuuuuaaaahahahahahahahahahaha

I thought this idea might be fun for "spin the bottle no kissing" gal who didn't want to kiss. I bought a set of love dice. I am going to change the tops. one dice to lick, nibble, kiss, squeeze.. etc.. the next dice... lips, arm, hand, foot, thigh...etc. <Insert evil laugh> There may be some substitution rules allowed, but who knows what a fox will think is fun at the time?

The blindfold could be for a tasting game. Mind is working.

The blindfold might be good for twister... help a sister get where she is going?? Touch and turn the body to the right position. This can be reserved for the birthday gals?

deb_U_taunt · 07-10-2011, 03:19 AM

slumber party
or
pool party...kiddie pool, margaritas, BBQ, swimsuit competition and umbrellas

Soft*Silver · 07-10-2011, 03:24 AM

a food party...desserts especially...made on bodies, eaten off bodies, hangs behind their backs and blindfolded....both the person eating and the person offered as a serving platter....

07-08-2011, 09:17 PM	#1
foxyshaman Member How Do You Identify?: spiritually minded dirt dog Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: canada Posts: 898 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,957 Thanked 2,593 Times in 663 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Seeking Sexy Birthday Party Tips I am in serious need of some help. I have taken on the task of hosting a for two incredibly wonderful butch friends. One suggested I , a request I gracefully declined. Especially when it was suggested I wear my corset and heels. After my polite, but firm, refusal it was suggested that I incorporate games. I am going to sound like a total curmudgeon, I don't usually play games. At least not those kind. So the first game I have I inherited from my kids, called Snakes and Shots. It comes with shot glasses, dice and a glass playing board (I believe it is anticipated you will spill a drink on it) It actually looks kinda fun. However I am a two shot sinker so I don't know how many rounds I could go!! But there are truth and dare squares. It has been suggested that one of the birthday girls gets to pick a question out of the pile to ask. I am responsible for the pile. The other game that was thrown into the mix is "Spin the Bottle". Well when that was put out there I roared with laughter...no seriously. We are all in our mid + forties and I don't think any of us have played that for decades!! I can admit that I may be wrong on that. I need cards for that game for the girls who do not want to kiss. One of my friends is a bit uptight, the other one...I don't know her well enough to guess. The two..."instead of kissing" cards I have so far are: Say "make my coffee extra strong (see I do suck)" in your sexiest bedroom voice. Another one suggested by one of the birthday gals of course is... show me your sexiest come on move. Now if I did have said shot or two mine would be moving slowly up the legs, biting at the crotch of her jeans, and undoing her belt with my teeth. So, ideas like that/ So. I believe the nature of the evening is to: laugh get sexy laugh get tipsy laugh get outside the box (metaphorical box of course) Any and all help will be greatly appreciated!!! __________________ Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Muriel Strode

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foxyshaman Member How Do You Identify?: spiritually minded dirt dog Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: canada Posts: 898 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,957 Thanked 2,593 Times in 663 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Okay so... one of the questions was are party goers single or couples. The majority of them are in couples. I am not sure if I am going to be the only single woman there. Soooooo.... mmmmmwwwwuuuuaaaahahahahahahahahahaha I thought this idea might be fun for "spin the bottle no kissing" gal who didn't want to kiss. I bought a set of love dice. I am going to change the tops. one dice to lick, nibble, kiss, squeeze.. etc.. the next dice... lips, arm, hand, foot, thigh...etc. <Insert evil laugh> There may be some substitution rules allowed, but who knows what a fox will think is fun at the time? The blindfold could be for a tasting game. Mind is working. The blindfold might be good for twister... help a sister get where she is going?? Touch and turn the body to the right position. This can be reserved for the birthday gals? __________________ Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Muriel Strode

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